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Old June 15th, 2018, 11:07 PM   #1
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Hes straight im bi weve been best friends for 10 years we have been on vaca together and had so many memories, yes weve masterbated in the same room but nothing more though i think he knew how much i enjoyed it, but it has really gotten to me how he will never love me as i love him and every time that reality h its i get realllllly down and almost controlling of him trying to take all his free time to be with me,despite this hes always stayed by my side butwhat do i do? I cant change my feelings for him but also hate how it drags me to depression
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Old June 16th, 2018, 03:04 AM   #2
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Hes straight im bi weve been best friends for 10 years we have been on vaca together and had so many memories, yes weve masterbated in the same room but nothing more though i think he knew how much i enjoyed it, but it has really gotten to me how he will never love me as i love him and every time that reality h its i get realllllly down and almost controlling of him trying to take all his free time to be with me,despite this hes always stayed by my side butwhat do i do? I cant change my feelings for him but also hate how it drags me to depression
Wow that is a tough spot to be in, but think how nice it is just to have the experiences with him. That's cool you got to masturbate with him, i hear it's like a bond that forms.
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Old June 16th, 2018, 03:55 AM   #3
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man that sucks, sometimes I wonder if I'm feeling that too
i'm not sure what I can say to help you, but you're not alone, and this community will definitely have some good responses

I'm suffering my quarter-life crisis 10 years premature but hopefully I'll find a way and be ok. Don't be afraid to chat, I'm open to every experience and opinion!
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Old June 16th, 2018, 03:33 PM   #4
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Ya , I mean, he has a big heart, and I don't think he would ever come out and say something offends him or pushes him away which like gets me to second guess everything I do or say because I ultimately don't want him to resent me inside and not tell me
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Old June 16th, 2018, 10:01 PM   #5
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It's okay to have feelings for your friends. However you must not push what you feel if you see he doesn't feel the same way, it hurts, but over time you learn to value more what you already have than what you wish you had.



I should have known it was all a lie...

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Old June 17th, 2018, 08:17 PM   #6
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It's okay to have feelings for your friends. However you must not push what you feel if you see he doesn't feel the same way, it hurts, but over time you learn to value more what you already have than what you wish you had.
Is it weird im scared he will move on?
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Is it weird im scared he will move on?
Of course not, that's a normal way to feel about it.



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Old June 17th, 2018, 10:41 PM   #8
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Of course not, that's a normal way to feel about it.
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Old June 19th, 2018, 01:54 PM   #9
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Hes straight im bi weve been best friends for 10 years we have been on vaca together and had so many memories, yes weve masterbated in the same room but nothing more though i think he knew how much i enjoyed it, but it has really gotten to me how he will never love me as i love him and every time that reality h its i get realllllly down and almost controlling of him trying to take all his free time to be with me,despite this hes always stayed by my side butwhat do i do? I cant change my feelings for him but also hate how it drags me to depression

Don't let it depress you. If you know he definitely won't feel the same just try to move on, which of course is always hard
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Old July 1st, 2018, 06:55 PM   #10
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Hes straight im bi weve been best friends for 10 years we have been on vaca together and had so many memories, yes weve masterbated in the same room but nothing more though i think he knew how much i enjoyed it, but it has really gotten to me how he will never love me as i love him and every time that reality h its i get realllllly down and almost controlling of him trying to take all his free time to be with me,despite this hes always stayed by my side butwhat do i do? I cant change my feelings for him but also hate how it drags me to depression
I literally told my best friend (hes straight and Ive been friends with him for 11 years!) that I was bi . Same situation! Just tell him! It feels good to just say it because the seconds its done just know their is NOTHING you couldve done any different.
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