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Old September 6th, 2019, 10:03 AM   #1
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my dad still gives me the strap. i'm 17 and i have asked him to stop as i feel like its abuse plus i'm too old for spanking? does anyone think its abuse and how can i get him to stop? i've been getting the strap for years and sick of it now. he never listens when i try to talk to him about anything and he gets mad at me even more and tells me to shut up. he has always been strict but i am 17 now and its getting too much, i am fed up with it and anyway i try to be good but i have a lot of problems and i try to get some help from my social worker and the therapist but my dad thinks he helps by being strict and spanking me but i don't think he is helping by doing this
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Old September 6th, 2019, 01:55 PM   #2
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U can stop it by not being bad or if u
have probs u cant control then try to
get some help maybe through ur social
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Old September 6th, 2019, 04:44 PM   #3
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Why should he blame himself? This dad seems to be an true idiot, if I remember older threads of the OP. It's always the same topic. Hm, or the OP has a fetish.


If I had such father to endure there would be only two options for me :

1. I would beat the hell out of him so that he feels what I have to endure. He would then probably face my fullest anger.

2. Since there seems to be no support in the family, I would do anything to get out of this family.

The choice probably is No 2.
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Old September 6th, 2019, 07:30 PM   #4
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I think if you tell the social worker that you are still being beaten at age 17; he/she would be able to help you.
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Old September 7th, 2019, 01:55 PM   #5
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In UK it just isn't allowed. I know that doesn't help but maybe it shows that if you ask your social worker he can intervene. My argument would be if it hasn't worked after all these years he should try another way.
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Old September 9th, 2019, 08:27 AM   #6
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Call the cops
If he had to use a weapon on you that’s assault
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Old September 28th, 2019, 11:45 AM   #7
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I still get the belt by my dad and I am 20
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Old September 28th, 2019, 05:19 PM   #8
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My dad was violent to mum and me. So she packed a bag and we ran.
It shouldn't happen. Tell someone, get help.
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Old September 29th, 2019, 12:05 AM   #9
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Report it to your social worker. Sorry you have to deal with this. A spanking is one thing. But this sounds like abuse. I haven't been spanked for a while, but I guess I've deserved the ones I've got. Nobody likes to get a butt whoopin but at least its over and done with!
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Old October 1st, 2019, 03:49 PM   #10
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Call child services, it’s not remotely discipline if he is beating you with a weapon especially at your age
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Old October 9th, 2019, 01:23 PM   #11
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The problem with reporting is that his dad will get in huge trouble with the authorities and maybe he doesn't want that. But if it doesn't work by telling him to stop then that might be the only option

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