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Old September 20th, 2014, 11:10 PM   #1
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Default Self harming again

I haven self harmed for a couple of months but today I broke down and started again.
I really hate myself for it.
How can I be so stupid.
It always caused nothing but trouble and now I start again, why the hell.
I'm so afraid it won't be a one time thing and I slip back into my old pattern.
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Old September 20th, 2014, 11:22 PM   #2
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Don't feel bad for self harming. I might help at the moment, but not in the future. It will only be the old pattern if you let it. You have the power to change and become a better person. If you need anyone to talk to, we are here for you. You're not stupid and you shouldn't hate yourself. You didn't do anything wrong. I am proud of you for making it a couple months without self harming. That is an accomplishment you should be proud of. Stay strong.

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Old September 21st, 2014, 12:22 AM   #3
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I haven self harmed for a couple of months but today I broke down and started again.
I really hate myself for it.
How can I be so stupid.
It always caused nothing but trouble and now I start again, why the hell.
I'm so afraid it won't be a one time thing and I slip back into my old pattern.
You can't stop self harming completely without stuffing up.

You'll get there.

Fuck em all.

Except you cutie.
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Old September 21st, 2014, 01:01 AM   #4
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You can't stop self harming completely without stuffing up.

You'll get there.
ah, well I know I can't but I try...cuz it's dangerous and I kinda risk my health with it. and that's why I'm angry
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Old September 21st, 2014, 02:39 PM   #5
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I haven self harmed for a couple of months but today I broke down and started again.
I really hate myself for it.
How can I be so stupid.
It always caused nothing but trouble and now I start again, why the hell.
I'm so afraid it won't be a one time thing and I slip back into my old pattern.
Everyone has slip ups, its part of trying to stop. Not doing it for a few months is a real accomplishment and you should be so proud of yourself, well done

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Old September 21st, 2014, 03:18 PM   #6
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I haven self harmed for a couple of months but today I broke down and started again.
I really hate myself for it.
How can I be so stupid.
It always caused nothing but trouble and now I start again, why the hell.
I'm so afraid it won't be a one time thing and I slip back into my old pattern.
I've started again in the last few weeks after some shit went down, tonight is quite bad, I was cutting erlier and I'm sure I will again later, you can PM me if you want to talk aout it in private, other than that all I can do is give you my best wishes.

My names Joe, but you can call me "Lord and master of all space and time"
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Old September 29th, 2014, 03:54 PM   #7
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I haven self harmed for a couple of months but today I broke down and started again.
I really hate myself for it.
How can I be so stupid.
It always caused nothing but trouble and now I start again, why the hell.
I'm so afraid it won't be a one time thing and I slip back into my old pattern.
You're not stupid!
You don't need to hate yourself.
You are a wonderful person and you can get past this issue.
Please view the link in my signature.
Pm me if you want to talk




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Old September 29th, 2014, 04:08 PM   #8
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Originally Posted by Peanut24 View Post
I haven self harmed for a couple of months but today I broke down and started again.
I really hate myself for it.
How can I be so stupid.
It always caused nothing but trouble and now I start again, why the hell.
I'm so afraid it won't be a one time thing and I slip back into my old pattern.
TBH, I feel the same way. I was fine for so long, and now, I feel so bad inside.
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Old September 29th, 2014, 04:26 PM   #9
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If you blame yourself then of course you'll want to do it more.
You have to accept that it is not your fault for what happened, its no one else but its not something to blame about, just look forward.
Read my signature, i believe one particular sentence is relevant


'My dad used to say "fight fire with fire" which is probably why he got kicked out of the fire brigade' | 'my wife sent a photograph to the lonely hearts club, they sent it back saying they werent that lonely' - the wonderful les dawson, RIP | 'never trust a man wish short legs, his brains near his bottom' | 'infamy infamy, theyve all got it in for me' - the amazing kenneth williams RIP
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