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Old September 9th, 2014, 02:50 AM   #1
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Kinda have a few fucked up problems ATM. I'm seeing a psychologist and self harm. I don't really have anyone else to talk to so I'm on here, most of the people I thought that were my friends either wont talk about it or will bully me about it. I only have 1 person to talk to.
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Old September 9th, 2014, 05:43 AM   #2
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If you really trust that only person you have to talk to, then you should keep him/her close. In this website you'll find a lot of people who are going through the same thing you're going through now and are willing to help. You're not alone. (:


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Old September 9th, 2014, 01:32 PM   #3
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If you really trust that only person you have to talk to, then you should keep him/her close. In this website you'll find a lot of people who are going through the same thing you're going through now and are willing to help. You're not alone. (:
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What they said . We're here to talk to (PMing) whenever you need, also just keep that friend who you can talk to close
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Old September 9th, 2014, 04:30 PM   #4
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What they said . We're here to talk to (PMing) whenever you need, also just keep that friend who you can talk to close
Yeah, I'm trying to but they're depressed as well. I asked her to talk to me the other day for only like 10 minutes to calm me down, and she said she was busy. 2 minutes later I see her talking to her friends just outside where I was. She's been very distant, it kinda hurts.
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Old September 10th, 2014, 12:46 AM   #5
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Yeah, I'm trying to but they're depressed as well. I asked her to talk to me the other day for only like 10 minutes to calm me down, and she said she was busy. 2 minutes later I see her talking to her friends just outside where I was. She's been very distant, it kinda hurts.
well, is there anyone else you can talk to? Siblings, other family?

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Old September 11th, 2014, 04:21 PM   #6
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well, is there anyone else you can talk to? Siblings, other family?
No, not really.

I'm really struggling, any help is appreciatated,

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Old September 12th, 2014, 01:51 AM   #7
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If your psychologist isnt helping then maybe you could see if there is any other help?
Do you know why your friends are acting like that? You could try and talk to them about it. If they are bulling you about it then they're really not worth it...that isn't what a friend should do at all :/
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Old September 12th, 2014, 03:08 AM   #8
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If your psychologist isnt helping then maybe you could see if there is any other help?
Do you know why your friends are acting like that? You could try and talk to them about it. If they are bulling you about it then they're really not worth it...that isn't what a friend should do at all :/
Some think its just a phase, some think I'm doing it for attention, sometimes I'm a dick to people cause, i dunno, mood swings and they want me to distance myself as much as i can from them, cause I 'hurt' them too much.

My best friend, who is also depressed, I have no idea what she is doing. She is being really distant since I told her about it. I don't know. Sometimes i get selfish and say stuff that seems like I'm more important than her, and I apologize for that. She talks to the person that bullies me more than me.

She is also my ex, she broke up after 11 days which sucks. I still love her...

But yeah, I got no one.
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Old September 12th, 2014, 04:24 PM   #9
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Some think its just a phase, some think I'm doing it for attention, sometimes I'm a dick to people cause, i dunno, mood swings and they want me to distance myself as much as i can from them, cause I 'hurt' them too much.

My best friend, who is also depressed, I have no idea what she is doing. She is being really distant since I told her about it. I don't know. Sometimes i get selfish and say stuff that seems like I'm more important than her, and I apologize for that. She talks to the person that bullies me more than me.

She is also my ex, she broke up after 11 days which sucks. I still love her...

But yeah, I got no one.

Those people who think its 'just a phase' and its for attention are NOT worth it. If they were true friends then they would be more understanding and listen to what you say and try and help you.
Those people who are distancing themselves from you may just need time. Sometimes it can be kind of upsetting and they may feel that they need to get away from it for a while. That's what one of my friends told me after she said I was 'doing it for attention and she didn't want to waste her time on me'
That sucks about your ex... I know its shit feeling like you have nobody but you'll find someone in the end, I promise
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Old September 12th, 2014, 04:32 PM   #10
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Those people who think its 'just a phase' and its for attention are NOT worth it. If they were true friends then they would be more understanding and listen to what you say and try and help you.
Those people who are distancing themselves from you may just need time. Sometimes it can be kind of upsetting and they may feel that they need to get away from it for a while. That's what one of my friends told me after she said I was 'doing it for attention and she didn't want to waste her time on me'
That sucks about your ex... I know its shit feeling like you have nobody but you'll find someone in the end, I promise
Yeah, I don't know. Those people are all I have, I just, want someone to be with i guess. Like, a shoulder to cry on, if that makes any sense.
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Old September 12th, 2014, 08:47 PM   #11
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hang in there its going to get better
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Old September 13th, 2014, 02:04 AM   #12
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hang in there its going to get better
TBH it's only getting worse.
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Old September 14th, 2014, 12:30 PM   #13
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Yeah, I don't know. Those people are all I have, I just, want someone to be with i guess. Like, a shoulder to cry on, if that makes any sense.
Yeah, that makes sense. Give it time, it may get better
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Old September 14th, 2014, 12:40 PM   #14
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from myself i know pain can be a kind of "blowoff valve" under stress.
as an alternatve to self harm you could try martial arts.
I started kickboxing a year ago and even made some good friends that way.

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If you ever want to talk, I'm here. I've pretty much recovered from self-harm so I know where you are now but I also know that it does get better. And yeah, sometimes it gets worse before it gets better.
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Old September 15th, 2014, 04:23 AM   #16
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Yeah, that makes sense. Give it time, it may get better
It sucks, it seems no one wants me.
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It sucks, it seems no one wants me.
well we all want to talk to you here, and that's something, right?
I promise, you'll find someone in the end
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Old September 19th, 2014, 08:17 PM   #18
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well we all want to talk to you here, and that's something, right?
I promise, you'll find someone in the end
I hope I do.

Well, I just had an incident where I left my house angry and upset. I tried to call my best friend (That same girl) and she didn't answer. I just got back to her today and apologized if I interrupted anything (She was at her sort of bf's house or whatever) and then she gave my a hotline to call if the same happens again. (She doesn't know what happened that night BTW) and I told her this:

Me: I know you think you cant help me, I know you are depressed as well but I literally have no one else to talk to. I am very sorry if I interrupted anything or bothered you. I wont again.

Her: Sorry

Me: You don't need to be. I just needed someone to listen. Can you do that for me.

Me: If you feel you cant that's perfectly fine.

I don't know what the fuck I'm doing.

She then said this:

Mason I can talk to you as a friend. I cant listen to your problems nor can I talk about mine.

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Old September 20th, 2014, 01:01 PM   #19
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I hope I do.

Well, I just had an incident where I left my house angry and upset. I tried to call my best friend (That same girl) and she didn't answer. I just got back to her today and apologized if I interrupted anything (She was at her sort of bf's house or whatever) and then she gave my a hotline to call if the same happens again. (She doesn't know what happened that night BTW) and I told her this:

Me: I know you think you cant help me, I know you are depressed as well but I literally have no one else to talk to. I am very sorry if I interrupted anything or bothered you. I wont again.

Her: Sorry

Me: You don't need to be. I just needed someone to listen. Can you do that for me.

Me: If you feel you cant that's perfectly fine.

I don't know what the fuck I'm doing.

She then said this:

Mason I can talk to you as a friend. I cant listen to your problems nor can I talk about mine.

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That sucks, and it must feel shit to be told that. It sounds as if she's just got too much on her plate at the moment and maybe she needs time to go over things in her head and sort things out. She'll come back to you in the end it may just be a while until that happens. I know its hard, just stay strong for me, okay? x
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Old September 20th, 2014, 03:23 PM   #20
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That sucks, and it must feel shit to be told that. It sounds as if she's just got too much on her plate at the moment and maybe she needs time to go over things in her head and sort things out. She'll come back to you in the end it may just be a while until that happens. I know its hard, just stay strong for me, okay? x
Thanks for that Maya. It means a lot.

Fuck em all.

Except you cutie.
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