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Old January 16th, 2019, 11:01 AM   #1
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I posted awhile back about my gf and her eating problems. She broke up with me cause I told her family but i thought she might come back. I just found out she has a new boyfriend. I tried really hard to do the right thing and i tried really hard to show that i really loved her and now im alone and shes with another guy. What was the point? I just want a nice girl who cares about me like i care about her

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Old January 16th, 2019, 12:11 PM   #2
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i am really sorry to hear! that is always the worst, getting punished for doing the right thing

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Old January 16th, 2019, 12:28 PM   #3
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Sorry about that. Sometimes these things just happen, even when youve done the right thing. Try and look at it as she has lost you. Id love to say that the first person we meet is the one. Its possible that by the time we have grown up we could be with the same girl or boy. We could have had several partners. You are now free. There are other girls out there
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Old January 16th, 2019, 03:12 PM   #4
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Dont worry, there are plenty of other cool and sweet girls. I'm sure you will find one that suits you
She moved on, there ain't much you can do about it, except doing the same

As a friend says "there are plenty of fishes in the sea..."
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Old January 16th, 2019, 03:32 PM   #5
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Sorry bout that Matt but u did the right thing
and I guess she didn't think much of what u
were trying how to help. Sure it hurts right now
but u have to let it go. Ur 13 u will have a lot of
girlfriends that will come and go and a lot of hurts.
Ur a concerning guy. A lot of other girls will like
that. Start lining up a new crush.
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Old January 17th, 2019, 04:07 PM   #6
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I posted awhile back about my gf and her eating problems. She broke up with me cause I told her family but i thought she might come back. I just found out she has a new boyfriend. I tried really hard to do the right thing and i tried really hard to show that i really loved her and now im alone and shes with another guy. What was the point? I just want a nice girl who cares about me like i care about her
don''t we all?
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Old January 19th, 2019, 05:33 PM   #7
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You will find someone new
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Old January 25th, 2019, 03:55 PM   #8
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Yeah, you kind of broke her trust by going behind her back.
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Old January 28th, 2019, 04:28 PM   #9
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Yeah, you kind of broke her trust by going behind her back.
I dont agree with that, he did this because he was worrying for her

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Old January 29th, 2019, 06:23 PM   #10
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So you should move on too. There's plenty of fish in the sea as they say and you're a nice and cute kid so you shouldn't have an hard time finding another girl. Or maybe even a boy who knows haha.
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Old August 12th, 2019, 09:38 AM   #11
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Sorry bout that Matt but u did the right thing
and I guess she didn't think much of what u
were trying how to help. Sure it hurts right now
but u have to let it go. Ur 13 u will have a lot of
girlfriends that will come and go and a lot of hurts.
Ur a concerning guy. A lot of other girls will like
that. Start lining up a new crush.
Agreed

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Old August 18th, 2019, 08:37 AM   #12
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You did it for the right reasons, and her reaction says you were expendable and that a big motivating factor in keeping you around was for show and internal emotional validation not love or a genuinely healthy relationship.

Beware of that dynamic in the future, especially once sex and the emotions it causes, enters the picture. I’ve seen both guys and girls heads messed up or both especially when another mental health condition is also influencing the situation.
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