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Old November 15th, 2017, 09:37 AM   #1
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Omg I spent the night at my boyfriends house. He apparently came out to them a month ago. My parents said they already knew since I was little. But also my friend and I are very unique because were both adopted. That's how we became close which resulted in our first kiss 3 months ago. We became intimate and started having sex at house because my room is in the attic. Flash Forward to present day we were having sex this morning no cover and in walks father and says can you be easier on son I heard him all the way in the kitchen.

So I am in a panic cause I just got caught naked and having sex and I rushed out of there house to puke. He text me earlier saying he couldn't stop puking. We are both home schooled.

Does anyone have any advice. I am so shook up about he father seeing us and not flipping out.
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Old November 15th, 2017, 04:05 PM   #2
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My advice is to forget it. The two of u r
very sensitive if u have to puke over it.
Id b more concerned if his father started
puking and then kicked u out. Next time
quiet it down no matter how hot the sex
was. Don't mention it-let it pass.
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Old November 15th, 2017, 06:44 PM   #3
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I agree w ska8er. If the father didn't make a scene, it's obviously not an issue with him.
You don't say how old you are but apparently the father thinks you're old enough to have sex. Otherwise, he would have handled it differently.
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Old November 16th, 2017, 01:19 PM   #4
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You have to just forget about it. His father knows you are both gay and BF's so just try be a little quieter when making love.

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Old November 16th, 2017, 08:10 PM   #5
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By what you said it sounds like his dad was onnoyed by the noise, not the fact that you guys were doing it. You had sex, he knows, whatís the big deal. Thatís pretty natural, if you arenít to young and both are consenting.

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Old November 16th, 2017, 08:23 PM   #6
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Your dad was obviously making a joke: "Can you be easier on my son?"

I know it was probably very startling, and must've scared the shit out of both of you. ( Would've given me a heart attack \>.</ )

But he's obviously okay with it; and that was pretty funny honestly

Just remember to keep it quiet when people are in the house, and don't worry about it too much.
It's awesome you have a dad that's totally okay with you two like that!

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Old November 19th, 2017, 08:54 PM   #7
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I can understand that this situation can be embarrassing but it sure seems like it turned out to benefit both you and your bf. Whether you're caught like in your situation or simply caught masturbating by a parent it will be something that makes you feel uncomfortable. Just be glad that you bf's dad is understanding and accepting of not only you but of his son. That is NOT a reaction many receive if being caught having sex.

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Old November 20th, 2017, 04:12 AM   #8
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His dad isn't freaking out about it because he doesn't see it as a big deal. You weren't doing anything wrong. I find it shocking that his dad made a comment like that. Even though it was probably meant as a joke just to tell you that he's fine with it, it obviously made you very uncomfortable.

If you want my advice, moving forward close the door and lock it. Also, don't hide from his dad. It's not necessary.


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Old November 21st, 2017, 12:14 PM   #9
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Wow. I'd like to try anal with someone. I think I'd be more worried by the fact that parents catching me and freaking out. It's probably a bit of a shock that he complained about the noise. Not sure if he was joking or serious, but take the fact that he didn't flip on U guys having sex. Enjoy it and just be a bit quieter!
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Old November 21st, 2017, 02:59 PM   #10
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Being caught having sex by ones parent(s) is a scary and shocking thing, but if they are causal about it and don't make a big ordeal about it, then I wouldn't worry much about it and would go on with life as usual. It has happened to me a few times, but the first one is always the most embarrassing. It will pass and chances are there will be no mention of it. Calm your nerves and just go back to what you were doing.

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Old November 26th, 2017, 07:35 PM   #11
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You have to just forget about it. His father knows you are both gay and BF's so just try be a little quieter when making love.
Thanks! What's amazing is his parents and my parents already knew. They had a previous talk from when my baby boy came over to my home and my parents noticed us in the nude sleeping in the same bed. Of course our parents talked with us and they understand we are in puberty and young teen boys in love but want us to be careful and safe.
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Old November 26th, 2017, 09:05 PM   #12
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If you have reached the Age of Consent (The minimum age is different per area), explain to your dad about that. And if you already did an STD test (And your friend too), explain that too.

My name is Adrian, I am 13 years old, dunno if I am gay or str8 (I am probably more of straight). I am a geek, and I am proud of it. I love computers, and all kinds of nerdy technology.
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Old November 29th, 2017, 05:24 PM   #13
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I think you have to just move on
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Old November 29th, 2017, 09:53 PM   #14
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this thread made me puke.
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Old November 30th, 2017, 10:09 AM   #15
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this thread made me puke.
Why did it make you puke
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Old December 6th, 2017, 05:14 PM   #16
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I'd stop worrying about it if I were you. It sounds like his father accepts the fact that his son (and you) are sexually active; maybe making a joke about it was his way of letting you guys know that it's cool. But he probably still doesn't want to hear you guys doing it. Think about it: would you want to be hearing your folks doing it? Likely not
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Old December 7th, 2017, 03:15 AM   #17
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I'd stop worrying about it if I were you. It sounds like his father accepts the fact that his son (and you) are sexually active; maybe making a joke about it was his way of letting you guys know that it's cool. But he probably still doesn't want to hear you guys doing it. Think about it: would you want to be hearing your folks doing it? Likely not
It's why we do it at my house mainly. My folks can't hear us because of where my room and bed are.
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Old January 17th, 2018, 12:08 AM   #18
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Move on because he obviously didn't care and even made a joke about it so that's a good sign. Just next time maybe take it a bit more precautiously lol

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Old January 18th, 2018, 12:31 PM   #19
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I know how you feel, I was embarrassed when I got caught masturbating and was a nervous wreck until folks said it was normal.
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