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Old March 28th, 2015, 09:01 PM   #21
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Thank you so much to everyone who replied to this. When I forst posted this I was ready to die. You talked me out of suicide when no one else was there for me.
you're welcome but you got to give yourself so much credit. you are the one who is fighting this battle. you are much stronger than you know

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Old March 28th, 2015, 09:05 PM   #22
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But without help from here I think I'd be dead (or almost dead) in about a week.
What do I do if even after talking 2 the counselor/therapist lady still nothing is done?

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Old March 28th, 2015, 09:07 PM   #23
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But without help from here I think I'd be dead (or almost dead) in about a week.
What do I do if even after talking 2 the counselor/therapist lady still nothing is done?
you just need to keep on talking to your teachers or whatever till you have someone who will help you get the help you need

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Old March 28th, 2015, 09:09 PM   #24
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I will. I think if they kept neglecting the problem they'd get in trouble, anyway.

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Old March 28th, 2015, 09:11 PM   #25
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I will. I think if they kept neglecting the problem they'd get in trouble, anyway.
there is someone at school who will help you get the help you need, if not go to a church. even if you are not a Christian, many churches will make sure to help you get some help

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Old March 28th, 2015, 09:21 PM   #26
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There's no way I could go to a chruch without my family knowing. I only leave the house for school or to visit family once in a while.

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Old March 29th, 2015, 01:07 AM   #27
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o-o!

Thank you so much to everyone who replied to this. When I forst posted this I was ready to die. You talked me out of suicide when no one else was there for me.
I'm glad you're feeling better! Remember, if you ever need someone to talk to, don't hesitate to let me know, okay? We're all here for you and I really hope you'll be okay!

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Old March 29th, 2015, 08:59 AM   #28
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Thanks >w<.

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Old March 29th, 2015, 05:33 PM   #29
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Old March 31st, 2015, 06:08 PM   #30
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Hello fellow MCR fan (RIP MCR).

I'm glad that you're no longer thinking of suicide, but I must stress that it seems the original issue has not been resolved, I do not want to guess anything, but from what I can tell and the forum this is in, you do not belong in a institution. However you do have needs, I think it would creately benefit you if you went into family therapy, with those in your family whom your most closest to in order to resolve this pain you are in no doubt feeling. Your head master may beable to refer you.

I wish you luck.
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Old April 2nd, 2015, 11:45 AM   #31
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it takes time. it really does. You get help from friends, counselors, therapists, medication, just about everything. I've been dealing with similar things for years now. it's hard, and as the days go by giving up seems more and more like the right option but it's not. You have to keep trying. We are here for you when you need the support. keep trying, keep fighting, stay strong
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Old April 4th, 2015, 05:54 PM   #32
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My family would never go 2 family therapy no matter what. Extended family included.

Complicated family -.-

But, anyway, I'm just going to see what happens. I decided not to do it for religious reasons and because I love my best friend too much to leave her.

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Old April 5th, 2015, 03:14 AM   #33
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I don't know if in the US, getting help is forbidden taboo or something, but in India, getting mental help means being tagged as insane. As for your plans, it's good that you don't try to think about em' again. There is no use ending your life so soon. You're almost the most powerful creature mentally at 14. There are so much arenas opening up for you. Go out there and do what you like. Become friends with everyone. You're freshman, you don't have to worry too much about college now. Enjoy life. Lonesome behaviour will amplify your thoughts and let them take over you. You do need some serious socializing. Just VM me anytime you feel bad, we'll solve it together. Stay strong.

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Old April 6th, 2015, 02:47 PM   #34
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No, there is more to life, don't it will get better just stay positive it will be hard but you know i used to feel sad that i would wanna give up but i never did i always pushed forwards, and i just ignore things i dont want to hear, words shouldn't hurt you, dont listen and just move on.

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Old April 6th, 2015, 05:07 PM   #35
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I guess I'll just have to see where things go.

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Old April 6th, 2015, 05:35 PM   #36
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Hey I'm really glad you held off on the suicide and I know it's tough but everyone on vt is here to help nothing is worth killing yourself you mean something to a lot of people and you never know your situation in ten years you could be rich and successful you never know so hang in there and keep on vt
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Old April 6th, 2015, 05:45 PM   #37
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I'm not really well versed on this stuff but I would hate to see a life be lost. I was reading through the thread and just the progress you've made since starting it is great!
Something I could recommend is finding a hobby or something you like to do and do it in your free time and have something to be happy about.
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Old April 7th, 2015, 04:59 PM   #38
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I truly aporeciate the idea about the hobbey but I'm honestly not allowed to do anything.
I can't even go out in my backyard.
I can't join any sports or anything (well I'm not a huge fan of them but you get my point) because I'm a girl >.>
There are a lot of things I can't do because I'm a girl. I live in the USA even.
It's not even a part of my religion, my parents are just sexist >__>.

I'm getting off topic...

I think I'm starting to slip back into going with my plans o,-o...

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Old April 7th, 2015, 06:06 PM   #39
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Huh, my plans were supposed to happen yesterday. I was supposed to be dead yesterday but I didn't do it...

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Old April 8th, 2015, 12:21 AM   #40
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That's Fantastic actually it's AWESTRUCK!!!!!!!

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