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Old March 3rd, 2014, 11:29 AM   #1
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Default Should I give up on speech therapy?

As some of you might know, I'm autistic. I have what is called classic autism or moderate/severe autism (I'm more on the moderate end). Up until about age 7 I was completely nonverbal. Then after that I was monosyllabic. Meaning I would only say single syllable words like yes, no, food, drink etc. On top of having nonverbal autism, I have aparxia (or dysparixa) of speech. Which means uncoordinated vocal mouth movements. I call it mush mouth. So when I talk in a stream, it basically sounds like gibberish. So I'm still basically a single word talker and a lot of times selectively mute.

Anyways... I have been hitting a roadblock with my speech therapy for a while now. What my therapist calls a plateau. Therapy is becoming increasingly upsetting for me and coming close to causing autistic meltdowns. I'm not a quitter. I have gotten a lot further along in my development than they said I would when I was little through perseverance. But this time I am ready to throw in the towel.

I don't know if I'm looking for advice, or permission to quit or what.
But would appreciate any feedback. Thanks
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Old March 3rd, 2014, 11:37 AM   #2
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Ok this is one time I really wish I had the right advice -

I guess maybe you go every week - maybe more - so is thinking about a cut down or a break - a few weeks or something - sorry I really dont know what else -
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Old March 3rd, 2014, 04:05 PM   #3
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Well I can't speak for experience here or put myself in your boots, but i would suggest maybe taking a breather for a while, let your mind settle and work things over a bit and then see if you can get your head around round two. I hope it works out for you, you have potential my friend
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Old March 3rd, 2014, 04:07 PM   #4
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I'd say never give up.
It sounds so clich but even when it's not going well it's best to try and push through, if that makes any sense.

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Old March 3rd, 2014, 04:42 PM   #5
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I don't really have any experience with this, but I attended speech classes a few years back. I was in speech at school until eighth grade, and I loved it. I have to admit, I did find it a bit embarrassing. People sometimes tell me that I have a speech impediment, but I try to ignore them. I do know that you shouldn't give up. You have potential to do great things. Don't give up until it's over.

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Old March 3rd, 2014, 06:13 PM   #6
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Although I have not had to go through speech therapy, I am sure it is tough on you. But I seem to remember reading is some of your old posts, about other things that you have been able to overcome through therapy and help from others. I think you really are at a plateau - at the moment. Just take a short break, and then go right back at it. You have gained so much, the speech therapy will work out as well. Good luck.
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Old March 3rd, 2014, 06:41 PM   #7
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Never give up man, I understand it can get stressful and frustrating, however I think you can overcome if you just keep at it.

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Old March 3rd, 2014, 08:35 PM   #8
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As some of you might know, I'm autistic. I have what is called classic autism or moderate/severe autism (I'm more on the moderate end). Up until about age 7 I was completely nonverbal. Then after that I was monosyllabic. Meaning I would only say single syllable words like yes, no, food, drink etc. On top of having nonverbal autism, I have aparxia (or dysparixa) of speech. Which means uncoordinated vocal mouth movements. I call it mush mouth. So when I talk in a stream, it basically sounds like gibberish. So I'm still basically a single word talker and a lot of times selectively mute.

Anyways... I have been hitting a roadblock with my speech therapy for a while now. What my therapist calls a plateau. Therapy is becoming increasingly upsetting for me and coming close to causing autistic meltdowns. I'm not a quitter. I have gotten a lot further along in my development than they said I would when I was little through perseverance. But this time I am ready to throw in the towel.

I don't know if I'm looking for advice, or permission to quit or what.
But would appreciate any feedback. Thanks
Never give up, I was also in speech therapy for over 9 years, going 2x a week when I started at 4 then I went down to 1x a week and I gradually have gotten better and I think before I say blends like "St" now If I talk to you wouldn't have thought I was ever in speech. Yes I still have problems sometimes have problems with "St" in the middle of words like hostile but I wouldn't have gotten to the point I am now from quitting

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Old March 3rd, 2014, 09:46 PM   #9
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I know it's probably not the same, but I had to do speech therapy as well. I have an impediment. I went through therapy in my younger elementary years, but then refused to continue because I was tired of doing it and didn't think I was getting any results. Kids pick on me a lot for it, and sometimes I wish I had continued it. Please consider that in the future, you might regret your decision.

I have to think a lot before I say things, or stop and say them again until it's right or I give up. I often wonder if I might be better with it had I continued speech therapy.


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As some of you might know, I'm autistic. I have what is called classic autism or moderate/severe autism (I'm more on the moderate end). Up until about age 7 I was completely nonverbal. Then after that I was monosyllabic. Meaning I would only say single syllable words like yes, no, food, drink etc. On top of having nonverbal autism, I have aparxia (or dysparixa) of speech. Which means uncoordinated vocal mouth movements. I call it mush mouth. So when I talk in a stream, it basically sounds like gibberish. So I'm still basically a single word talker and a lot of times selectively mute.

Anyways... I have been hitting a roadblock with my speech therapy for a while now. What my therapist calls a plateau. Therapy is becoming increasingly upsetting for me and coming close to causing autistic meltdowns. I'm not a quitter. I have gotten a lot further along in my development than they said I would when I was little through perseverance. But this time I am ready to throw in the towel.

I don't know if I'm looking for advice, or permission to quit or what.
But would appreciate any feedback. Thanks
The way I see it is... my parents say when I was born the doctors told them I would never be able to walk or talk. Now I think of it this might have been because of the muscle disorder my mum only told me about 2 weeks ago, because I did notice the wikipedia page for Hypotonia does mention problems with speech and movement. Anyway; I've never had help, I actually refuse to get help, and you may think that I'm being stubborn but I think it's better to teach yourself new skills instead of getting help from other people. Everyone has made me feel stupider than I actually am and because of this I feel more pride when I do new things. I speak gibberish sometimes when I speak too fast and I'm constantly having to repeat myself because people can't understand what I'm saying, as well as my good friend - except for the fact she always speaks quickly, I think I can control myself, and her voice is far too high for my liking :L

I remember when my mum was phoning the school constantly asking if I could have help walking across the roads because I wasn't very good at it, and this seemed to only be because I was used to walking with my parents and didn't look for cars because I expected them to do it for me. I am completely capable of waiting at traffic lights, no matter how much I hate it and no matter how fun I find running in front of cars, and I can walk all the way from college to home by myself now which I couldn't a few months ago because they wouldn't trust me. They said I would never walk but I'm now able to go home through the town by myself, no matter how much it hurts my head because of the crowds.

I think what I'm pointing towards is: If you're having problems with your speech therapy, stop for a while and see how you do and if you have problems and can't cope, start it again. Surely it's good to have a break when things aren't going the way you want them to. I know what you have is a lot different than PDD-NOS (I think this is where I am on the spectrum ) but it can't hurt (too much) to try, can it? My speaking problems have mainly just been pronunciation of some words, I can't even say my own name properly, so I don't know how things are for other people... but people have suggested I go to speech therapy and I'm ignoring them too. I personally don't see why we should have to change to be like other people, being different can be a good thing if it's not causing you too many psychological problems

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Old March 5th, 2014, 02:24 PM   #11
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I'm hesitant to say give it up completely because like you've said, you have actually done quite well. It's obviously really upsetting you though so you could take a break and come back to it, that might help you to refresh your willpower.


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