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Old December 18th, 2007, 04:10 AM   #61
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i am not sure what i am!
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Old December 18th, 2007, 04:23 AM   #62
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Old December 28th, 2007, 01:31 AM   #63
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I new i was gay after i started flirting with my best friend

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Old December 28th, 2007, 01:35 AM   #64
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Old December 28th, 2007, 06:10 AM   #65
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Old December 28th, 2007, 07:05 AM   #66
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??? You knew form that?

"[...] I mean the guy is an epic fuck-up. Hes so dense that light bends around him."
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Old December 28th, 2007, 08:29 AM   #67
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??? You knew form that?
Maybe he got turned on by that...even though that doesnt mean your gay.

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Old December 29th, 2007, 05:36 AM   #68
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Yeah that's what I meant.

"[...] I mean the guy is an epic fuck-up. Hes so dense that light bends around him."
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Old December 29th, 2007, 09:18 AM   #69
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Old January 5th, 2008, 09:21 PM   #70
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I was always physically attracted to girls. Even in grade two I had this terrible crush on a girl in my class. I had no idea what being gay was though. All through my schooling years I found I only had crushes on girls, and used to pretend to like guys so that my friends wouldn't freak out. When I hit year 10 there was this girl at my school that was bi, and I randomly ended up at a party with her and we hooked up. From that, I was reassured, and ever since then (despite one or two boyfriends that lasted a week at a time) it's been girls all the way. Booyeah
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Old January 20th, 2008, 09:38 AM   #71
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I love the fashion magazines and teen magazines, and movie star magazines. I guess I always thought girls were pretty. My best friend is really pretty. Like in 6th grade, she made me feel tingly when we are alone together. I hid it from her, but sometimes we get giggly at the same time, or we hold hands in the mall when it's crowded. I don't know. It's confusing.
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Old January 20th, 2008, 09:13 PM   #72
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I don't know if I'm bi really, but I've definitely always enjoyed looking at girls. I really think girls got the better end of the stick as far as attractive anatomy goes. I'm still attracted to guys, for sure, but the female body is just so incredibly beautiful. As a kid, I often felt awkward about my feelings towards other girls. I've never been emotionally attracted to one, but for a long time, from age 7-ish until I was almost 13, the first thing I'd see when around a girl around my age or older (this never happened with adults though), was her breasts. And sometimes it was really hard to tear my eyes away and focus on her face like you're supposed to when talking to someone. At first I told myself, "Oh, you're just looking because your jealous that her boobs are bigger than yours", but as I grew and other girls' breasts were about the same size as mine (even smaller in some cases), it didn't stop. Finally I learned some self-control, but I still find myself looking on occasion, when I know no one's watching me do it.
I first noticed a sort of physical attraction to girls at a sleepover when I was about 10. There were a bunch of us there, and Truth or Dare was suggested. We were all terrible at coming up with Truth questions though (and no one wanted to answer the ones we did come up with), so it became just Dare. Just about every girl was dared to strip at one point; just for a few seconds and then they were allowed to put their clothes back on. Everyone was supposed to cover their eyes or look away, the dare wasn't so we could look at each other naked but more to see who trusted us to keep our promise and not look. Well, I started out sneaking peeks as I'm sure the other girls did here and there, just to see if everyone else looked like I did. I'd never seen another girl naked before except my sister, and I was curious. I realized soon enough that we were all pretty much the same (except I was the only one with pubic hair, how mortifying!), and pretty soon I realized something else--when I'd look at the girls, I'd get this warm, sorta tingly feeling "down there". It was new, but not unpleasant, and it subsided when I'd look away. So naturally, I kept watching. One of the girls noticed though and gave me a weird look then whispered "WHAT are you doing?" I followed the rules and kept my eyes covered for the rest of the game, and thankfully she didn't say anything to the other girls about it. From that point on I'd bring up "the dare game" at every sleepover, until the rest of the girls starting hitting puberty and decided they didn't want to play anymore.

I dunno though, is it really bisexuality if the emotional aspect isn't there? I can picture myself messing around with another girl, but not really being in a serious relationship with one and certainly not marrying one. Maybe I just haven't met the right girl who I'd consider dating, but I don't think I will. I'm all guys as far as that goes.

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Old January 21st, 2008, 07:34 PM   #73
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Well, I was never really attracted to either gender. It didnt matter. By the time i hit puberty i saw girls as like... attractive? Then one day i realized i thought the same of guys. So i've never really told anyone but i'm bi.
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Old February 3rd, 2008, 01:20 AM   #74
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My guy best friend kissd me when i was 13 and since then iv all ways liked guys =)
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Old February 3rd, 2008, 07:04 PM   #75
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im curious on how u can tell i mean i jack of too gay porn but i love girls so idk
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Old February 3rd, 2008, 07:18 PM   #76
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If you're bi you're probably attracted to boys outside porn. Lots of straight guys look at gay porn, and since you like girls it's pretty easy to say you're not gay. If you're bi though, you'd be attracted to guys the same way you're attracted to girls.

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Old February 3rd, 2008, 07:33 PM   #77
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o ok but wat if u expirement wit other guys and u enjoy it and u wanna do it again???
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Old February 3rd, 2008, 07:45 PM   #78
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im curious on how u can tell i mean i jack of too gay porn but i love girls so idk
Jacking off to gay porn is pretty gay..
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Old February 3rd, 2008, 07:53 PM   #79
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o ok but wat if u expirement wit other guys and u enjoy it and u wanna do it again???
Then you're definitely curious, a lot of teens are. Only you can say if this is pretty much just hormones or if you think you might be like this for the rest of your life. Either way, it's normal.

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Jacking off to gay porn is pretty gay..
A lot of curious guys do that. You'd be surprised how many guys who do not identify themselves as gay, and may not be sure if they're even bi, still look at gay porn.

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Old February 4th, 2008, 01:57 AM   #80
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Then you're definitely curious, a lot of teens are. Only you can say if this is pretty much just hormones or if you think you might be like this for the rest of your life. Either way, it's normal.



A lot of curious guys do that. You'd be surprised how many guys who do not identify themselves as gay, and may not be sure if they're even bi, still look at gay porn.
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