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Old June 19th, 2005, 09:20 AM   #1
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why is it so hard to come out to ourparents? They must have atleast been confused at some point? They must atleast know a bit what we're going through. So why can't we tell them? They always tell us that we can tell them anything. Why do we feel we can't on this?

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Old June 19th, 2005, 09:31 AM   #2
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the reason we feel this way is becaus we r afraid of what they will think and will want to get u introuble (at least thats what i think)
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Old June 19th, 2005, 10:50 AM   #3
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i think its the fact that they are the most important people to us.

people who accept their sexuality, may feel they have let their parents down by not ending up right or "straight", its just one of these phsycologily things.

see we may be able to loose friends on an account of it, cos you can make new ones. but you cant just get new parents.

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Old June 19th, 2005, 09:11 PM   #4
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thanks babe, that seems like ti would make sense, but i dont give two shits abotu my dad, and im nervous of him finding out

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Old June 19th, 2005, 10:08 PM   #5
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i dont feel the need to tell my parents about my sexuality, its my buisness, no-one elses unless i discuss it with them

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Old June 19th, 2005, 10:14 PM   #6
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i dont feel the need to tell my parents about my sexuality, its my buisness, no-one elses unless i discuss it with them
i agree but if they get on my nerves enough i might just shout it at them to stun them long enough for an escape =p
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Old June 20th, 2005, 03:38 AM   #7
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you love them the most, and you cant hide from them if they dont like what you tell them
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Old June 29th, 2005, 10:33 AM   #8
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the thing is, if your bi, mabey you dont need to tell them. but if u have a boyfriend and your a guy, or a girlfriend and being a girl, they kinda will notice it and in the end you will.

possibly you could say they dont neet to know etc. but at some stage you will feel you need to tell them

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Old June 29th, 2005, 12:04 PM   #9
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I don't want to let my parents down. I am bi, but I do not want them to find out that I am attracted to guys too.
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I don't really feel the need to come out seeing as my sexuality IS ONLY a sexual thing. And besides, what business is it of anyone elses how I live my sex life?

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