Okay for girls to do but not boys?

Originally Posted by Natacha

Yeah I guess some people (both guys and girls) wouldn't respect that boundary. But as a boyfriend/girlfriend, it's a real asshole thing not to respect something like that

Either way we agree the OP’s premise is flawed unless their referring to state law criminal penal codes...cuz that’s almost politics at that point.

I think it doesn't matter, you always need consent regardless of being boy or girl

A couple should talk about it, before it happens, of course. A bf asked me and I said it was ok.

It's not okay either way if it hasn't been discussed and agreed on in advance. Touching a person who's asleep or whatever is considered rape, regardless of gender.