Virtual Teen Forums
 

Go Back   Virtual Teen Forums > >
Register Blogs FAQ Calendar Mark Forums Read Chat Room

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old May 9th, 2017, 12:38 PM   #81
Tyler97
Nice Poster
 
Join Date: May 10, 2011
Location: Canada
Gender: Male
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

The only thing I'm afraid of is having a spontaneous erection in public, if I knew that wouldn't happen, I'd have no problem walking down the street naked, but I can't control that, so no walking down the street naked for me.
Tyler97 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old May 9th, 2017, 12:56 PM   #82
Remora
Awesome Poster
 
Remora's Forum Picture
 
Name: Simon
Join Date: October 1, 2013
Location: Zuid-Holland, the Netherlands
Age: 18
Gender: Male
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

I am self-conscious and cold. :3

who needs a signature with a name like this
Remora is offline   Reply With Quote
Old May 16th, 2017, 12:39 AM   #83
Chaosphere
Nice Poster
 
Chaosphere's Forum Picture
 
Name: Alex
Join Date: April 17, 2017
Location: Probably somewhere haunted or a secluded mountain path somewhere.
Gender: Male
Blog Entries: 4
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Quote:
Originally Posted by mcdaniels View Post
what is the big deal with being nude.. hardly any friends of mine take showers together after football and would have a heartattack at the thought of chilling nude.. as teenagers is it not something we should all go through, seeing whats the same and whats different about each other.. seems weird to me
I agree. I was talking with a few other guys on here about this exact thing. I was pretty insecure about my body when I was younger because I didn't have any frame of reference on what my body should look like compared to other guys. It's a shame the world isn't more open about nudity.

18, Male, bisexual, jellybean lover. Evolving every day. Giving my advice where I can and having some fun with it.
Chaosphere is offline   Reply With Quote
Old May 16th, 2017, 09:46 AM   #84
EvaNL
Member++
 
EvaNL's Forum Picture
 
Name: Eva
Join Date: February 23, 2017
Location: Amsterdam, Netherlands
Age: 19
Gender: Female
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

A large majority of people see nudity as something sexual.
It is not. People MAKE it sexual.

In fact, I personally think that when people leave something to guess (by wearing underwear, lingerie, bathing suits, ..) it's more sexually enticing than when they were nude.

Nudity in itself is NOT sexual.

My 2 cents

I'm les, feel free to contact me
EvaNL is offline   Reply With Quote
Old May 16th, 2017, 08:55 PM   #85
themanconnor
Member
 
Join Date: December 18, 2016
Gender: Male
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

I don't mind being nude in locker room and such. It just seems normal to me
themanconnor is offline   Reply With Quote
Old May 17th, 2017, 02:06 AM   #86
clobo
Member
 
clobo's Forum Picture
 
Name: Chloe
Join Date: January 26, 2017
Location: Uk
Age: 14
Gender: Female
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Quote:
Originally Posted by EvaNL View Post
A large majority of people see nudity as something sexual.
It is not. People MAKE it sexual.

In fact, I personally think that when people leave something to guess (by wearing underwear, lingerie, bathing suits, ..) it's more sexually enticing than when they were nude.

Nudity in itself is NOT sexual.

My 2 cents
Exactly my thoughts too, a girl has a vagina and a boy has a penis. You really get to know that from a young age. I'm not sure why boys seeing other boys naked or a girl seeing another girl naked is a big deal.

clobo is offline   Reply With Quote
Old May 17th, 2017, 03:51 AM   #87
EvaNL
Member++
 
EvaNL's Forum Picture
 
Name: Eva
Join Date: February 23, 2017
Location: Amsterdam, Netherlands
Age: 19
Gender: Female
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Quote:
Originally Posted by clobo View Post
Exactly my thoughts too, a girl has a vagina and a boy has a penis. You really get to know that from a young age. I'm not sure why boys seeing other boys naked or a girl seeing another girl naked is a big deal.
Or even a boy seeing a girl naked or a girl seeing a boy naked.

In fact, I think that if you (in general) get exposed in a normal/non-sexual way to nude people from an early age onward, you grow up a lot more mentally healthy than when you grow up having been taught that nudity is evil and bad.

I'm les, feel free to contact me
EvaNL is offline   Reply With Quote
Old May 22nd, 2017, 09:46 PM   #88
Desdemona
Member
 
Desdemona's Forum Picture
 
Name: Desdemona (Desi)
Join Date: May 6, 2017
Location: Arizona
Gender: Female
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Quote:
Originally Posted by EvaNL View Post
Or even a boy seeing a girl naked or a girl seeing a boy naked.

In fact, I think that if you (in general) get exposed in a normal/non-sexual way to nude people from an early age onward, you grow up a lot more mentally healthy than when you grow up having been taught that nudity is evil and bad.
I agree. My country has a big problem with this. We are prudes on the surface and always in moral conflict with ourselves. Showing a child extreme violence is apparently OK here, but God forbid if they should see a nipple. Hillary Clinton wanted to censor the Grand Theft Auto games - not because you could blow people's heads off with automatic rifles, but because it might occasionally show pixelated nipples. That lady has a big problem with the first amendment. I'm happy and relieved she didn't become my president. (The alternative was perfectly horrible too, though - we lose either way).

14/f/bi. Math and science geek. Avid reader, love books. I live in the desert.
Desdemona is offline   Reply With Quote
Old May 29th, 2017, 11:10 AM   #89
mookie
Member++
 
Join Date: March 25, 2017
Location: CT
Age: 14
Gender: Male
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

I think it's weird to be afraid to get naked in locker rooms. Everyone else is taking their clothes off, no big deal. And you shouldn't need to be afraid with your friends either in my opinion, they are your friends after all
mookie is offline   Reply With Quote
Old May 29th, 2017, 01:18 PM   #90
logan2002
Member+
 
Name: logan
Join Date: May 8, 2017
Location: Michigan
Gender: Male
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Never had a problem taking a group shower. Two guys never showered after 6th grade basketball, found out at end of school year they had started puberty. We all had to take a shower in last month of school, and saw they were farther into puberty, three of us, me to, had just started growing dick hair, and the rest, 12 boys, had not.
logan2002 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old May 29th, 2017, 01:26 PM   #91
lolaa
Member
 
lolaa's Forum Picture
 
Join Date: May 22, 2017
Location: u.a.e
Age: 18
Gender: Female
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Quote:
Originally Posted by ClaraWho View Post
I am incredibly sexy. The thing is, I know it. And I don't care if I was the only one to ever know it.

It's not a 'fear' that stops me being naked around others.

I value my body highly, to me I am unique and special. It's the same reason I don't have sex with guys/girls who express interest. My body is only for my lovers enjoyment, he is the only one (aside from doctors obviously) who gets to know me intimately.

So in summary, I value my body too highly to show it off to just anyone. And I'd rather be liked for my personality and intellect, than for how hot I am.

~ Clara
i love this so much
maybe cause i read it so slowly and with an accent , but this is perfect

17 | BI-RACIAL | GREAT SPEAKER, BAD LIAR AND A VERY HONEST PERSON
lolaa is offline   Reply With Quote
Old June 1st, 2017, 06:17 AM   #92
scott2002
Awesome Poster
 
scott2002's Forum Picture
 
Name: Scott
Join Date: February 15, 2017
Location: USA
Gender: Male
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Okay, I go to Bible Study in a boy/girl youth group with a youth pastor. About a year ago we talked a lot about nudity and pornography. I think a lot of the kids said they felt perfectly fine being naked around others when they were little kids, but by the time they were 9 or 10 (close to puberty starting) they became much more modest. The youth pastor told us it's an inborn respect and reverence with those parts of the human body involved in procreation - creating life, and caring for new life (breasts for breastfeeding). He told us he'd bet we'll all feel perfectly fine being naked with our spouses when we got older because God gave us sexuality to enjoy, but in the right way.
scott2002 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old June 1st, 2017, 09:29 AM   #93
logan2002
Member+
 
Name: logan
Join Date: May 8, 2017
Location: Michigan
Gender: Male
Smile Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Quote:
Originally Posted by scott2002 View Post
Okay, I go to Bible Study in a boy/girl youth group with a youth pastor. About a year ago we talked a lot about nudity and pornography. I think a lot of the kids said they felt perfectly fine being naked around others when they were little kids, but by the time they were 9 or 10 (close to puberty starting) they became much more modest. The youth pastor told us it's an inborn respect and reverence with those parts of the human body involved in procreation - creating life, and caring for new life (breasts for breastfeeding). He told us he'd bet we'll all feel perfectly fine being naked with our spouses when we got older because God gave us sexuality to enjoy, but in the right way.
Reminds me of a speech we got in 8th grade at the Catholic school I went to, I am in 9th grade now
Sex is for procreation not recreation
logan2002 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old June 1st, 2017, 06:06 PM   #94
pjones
VT Lover
 
pjones's Forum Picture
 
Name: paul
Join Date: March 3, 2013
Location: florida
Age: 18
Gender: Male
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Quote:
Originally Posted by scott2002 View Post
Okay, I go to Bible Study in a boy/girl youth group with a youth pastor. About a year ago we talked a lot about nudity and pornography. I think a lot of the kids said they felt perfectly fine being naked around others when they were little kids, but by the time they were 9 or 10 (close to puberty starting) they became much more modest. The youth pastor told us it's an inborn respect and reverence with those parts of the human body involved in procreation - creating life, and caring for new life (breasts for breastfeeding). He told us he'd bet we'll all feel perfectly fine being naked with our spouses when we got older because God gave us sexuality to enjoy, but in the right way.
do you think the change in modesty was solely natural, the approach of puberty, with no outside influence? by that I mean when we start to get older I think we actually become more aware of what we see and hear from parents, teachers, clergy and media. those sources may have a greater influence subconsciously than we actually realize and that may lead someone into adopting a greater sense of modesty. my family doesn't go to church but i've met families at the resort we go to that are very involved with their church and raised their kids since birth in a naturist lifestyle.

bi nudist
pjones is offline   Reply With Quote
Old June 2nd, 2017, 12:45 AM   #95
Theaverageboy
Member
 
Name: Nathan
Join Date: May 25, 2017
Location: Houston
Age: 15
Gender: Male
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

It can kinda be awkward like if you see your friend with a giant bush that will be weird to look at and it will be hard to get that out of my head and I may be alright with being nude but my shaved body can be considered weird to others
Theaverageboy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old June 2nd, 2017, 11:14 AM   #96
Blackwell2003
Member
 
Join Date: May 12, 2017
Location: England
Gender: Male
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Quote:
Originally Posted by Theaverageboy View Post
It can kinda be awkward like if you see your friend with a giant bush that will be weird to look at and it will be hard to get that out of my head and I may be alright with being nude but my shaved body can be considered weird to others
Yeh I agree
Blackwell2003 is offline   Reply With Quote
Old June 2nd, 2017, 05:56 PM   #97
Anniebanannie
Nice Poster
 
Anniebanannie's Forum Picture
 
Name: Annie
Join Date: November 5, 2016
Location: Maryland
Age: 18
Gender: Female
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Quote:
Originally Posted by scott2002 View Post
Okay, I go to Bible Study in a boy/girl youth group with a youth pastor. About a year ago we talked a lot about nudity and pornography. I think a lot of the kids said they felt perfectly fine being naked around others when they were little kids, but by the time they were 9 or 10 (close to puberty starting) they became much more modest. The youth pastor told us it's an inborn respect and reverence with those parts of the human body involved in procreation - creating life, and caring for new life (breasts for breastfeeding). He told us he'd bet we'll all feel perfectly fine being naked with our spouses when we got older because God gave us sexuality to enjoy, but in the right way.
Quote:
Originally Posted by logan2002 View Post
Reminds me of a speech we got in 8th grade at the Catholic school I went to, I am in 9th grade now
Sex is for procreation not recreation

What do you guys think about that? That's pretty much what I was taught?

I'm having a great time here. I'm open to chat, too.
Anniebanannie is online now   Reply With Quote
Old June 2nd, 2017, 06:32 PM   #98
Coolteenboy
Member++
 
Coolteenboy's Forum Picture
 
Join Date: November 17, 2016
Gender: Male
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Pretty happy with how i look naked.
Ill b naked as much as i can be, dont carewho sees me!
((UNLESS ITS THE RENTS!!!!! Dont know why, but im embarrassed in front of them.))

I'm up to chat about anything!
Hit me up!!
Coolteenboy is offline   Reply With Quote
Old June 2nd, 2017, 07:17 PM   #99
pjones
VT Lover
 
pjones's Forum Picture
 
Name: paul
Join Date: March 3, 2013
Location: florida
Age: 18
Gender: Male
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

are people taught to be ashamed, or is it that conventional thinking is that it may not be acceptable to have confidence with what your body looks like?

bi nudist
pjones is offline   Reply With Quote
Old June 3rd, 2017, 07:32 AM   #100
scott2002
Awesome Poster
 
scott2002's Forum Picture
 
Name: Scott
Join Date: February 15, 2017
Location: USA
Gender: Male
Default Re: Everyones fear of nudity

Quote:
Originally Posted by logan2002 View Post
Reminds me of a speech we got in 8th grade at the Catholic school I went to, I am in 9th grade now
Sex is for procreation not recreation
I have some Catholic friends and we've talked about this stuff, and what I get from them is the Catholic church has nothing against having sex for pleasure. Lots and lots of sex. But between the right people who are committed to each other.
scott2002 is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply

Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump


All times are GMT -5. The time now is 08:08 PM.


Powered by vBulletin®
Copyright©2000 - 2018
Search Engine Optimisation provided by DragonByte SEO (Lite) - vBulletin Mods & Addons Copyright © 2018 DragonByte Technologies Ltd.
Copyright 2004 - 2018, VirtualTeen.org