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Old May 4th, 2009, 06:09 AM   #21
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Hollie, have you posted or left that letter? If you want this sick pevert off you, you must! For your own sake!

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Old May 4th, 2009, 02:45 PM   #22
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No i havnt, actually, i'v chucked it. just really cant be doing with all the fuss and police.
I would have to tell people aswell because otherwise rumours would start.X
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So you would rather be abused?
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Old May 4th, 2009, 03:44 PM   #24
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No i havnt, actually, i'v chucked it. just really cant be doing with all the fuss and police.
I would have to tell people aswell because otherwise rumours would start.X
Tell the police. There will be no rumours because it is the police's job to keep things confidential unless otherwise stated by you. You really should tell them, because this guy is a pervert and an abuser and he really needs to get sorted out. You can't let this go, it has gone on for way too long and you are letting him get away with it. It could happen to you again if you're not careful. Please, it's really important that this is sorted out otherwise other people could effected not only you.

The police will try to make things as easy as possible for you, so there shouldn't be any fuss. You will be treated by the up most respect and concern after what you have been through.

It's unfair what this man has done, and you seriously need to tell someone quickly. You can't keep saying that you'll do it some other time. It needs to be done. You need to be served justice after what this vile man has done.

Please. It is really really important that you tell someone. I urge you to. I know it may seem hard, but I think you understand how important it is and with that you will be able to do it. This is serious. Do not be worried about rumours. Do not be worried about fuss. Do not be worried about what people will think. Do not be worried about anything. You just have to focus on telling someone what has happened.

At the moment, your nan is living with a man who she doesn't know has sexually abused a three year old girl. Is that fair on your nan? It's not fair to you him being out there after what he has done.

One final time, PLEASE PLEASE tell someone.

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Old May 4th, 2009, 04:58 PM   #25
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Andy's right, if you tell someone, you'll never have to through this again. If it is easier to tell your teacher do it, or even tell one of your parents. If that is too difficult, make an appointment with a school counselor and tell them, they're legally oblidged to contact the appropriate authorities if they're told your being abused - trust me, i've looked into that side of things.
It is a horrible horrible thing to go through, I remember when I was 10 and my uncle tried the same thing 4 times, I ran and hid. If you need to get away from him, kick him in the nuts, run and lock yourself in the bathroom and call your parents. That works, trust me.
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Old May 6th, 2009, 08:18 PM   #26
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Hi there!

You need to put an end to his sick behavior tell your parents call the police you must take some kind of action. This is not your fault!
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Old May 8th, 2009, 01:56 PM   #27
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It's been 4 days since Hollie's responded; I hope she's seen this and done the right thing.

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Old May 8th, 2009, 06:10 PM   #28
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I hope so too. It needs to be done.

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Old May 9th, 2009, 12:50 PM   #29
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Hollie, It's ok. I know it's difficult telling someone for the first time. Just find the courage to do it, you've told so many people on here - just tell one more person and it'll all be ok. You wrote that letter and came close to giving it to someone but got rid of it. Just write another, put it in an envelope so you can't see what's written on it and hand it in without thinking. Pretend it's just a random letter for school that you're handing in.
You CAN do this, I believe in you.

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Old May 11th, 2009, 12:58 AM   #30
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hun, you really need to stop this guy...and only you can do it.

if not for your own sake...then for the sake of others like you. what is to stop him from doing this to someone else too? he needs to be behind bars...

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hun, you really need to stop this guy...and only you can do it.

if not for your own sake...then for the sake of others like you. what is to stop him from doing this to someone else too? he needs to be behind bars...
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Old May 11th, 2009, 01:17 PM   #32
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Hollie, where are you? You need to see this!

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Old May 12th, 2009, 09:52 AM   #33
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hun, you really need to stop this guy...and only you can do it.

if not for your own sake...then for the sake of others like you. what is to stop him from doing this to someone else too? he needs to be behind bars...
What Declan has just said pretty much sums up my thoughts on this whole situation.

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Old May 12th, 2009, 10:40 AM   #34
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Your Nan loves you more than she loves her husband
It might not be as simple as her leaving him because of what he's doing to you
But she's not going to hate you because of him
She's not going to disown you for him
Because no matter what, you are her grandaughter
And she loves you.
You don't have to tell her
You can tell your mum
Or a close friend
Who can pass it on
Then you don't have to see your Nan's reaction
Because that can be the hardest part
But whatever you do
Don't appologise for anything
It's not your fault.
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Old May 12th, 2009, 10:56 AM   #35
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I agree with what everyone has said here, so please hollie we all care about you, you should tell the police and get that man away from you!
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Old May 12th, 2009, 10:56 PM   #36
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There's a time and place to take somebody else before you, this is not that time.
You are being physically abused, not her, you need to end this now, call the police, tell your parents, tell her. There's no way in HELL they could come up with a logical reason to think it's your fault. If a person is raping you, it's not your fault. There's no possible way it could be your fault.
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Old May 14th, 2009, 02:49 PM   #37
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Hollie, I'm sorry this's happened; you need to tell someone.

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Old May 17th, 2009, 07:59 AM   #38
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I Have been reading all the comments, but everytime i read them i start crying, i just cant bring myself to it, there have been so many times i have tried to tell someone..

thanks for your advice guys. reallyy helps x
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Old May 17th, 2009, 09:05 AM   #39
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If you told someone, there would be no more of this. I'm sure it's not easy for you. You really need to just bite the bit and do it, and all this will come to an end.
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Old May 18th, 2009, 02:49 PM   #40
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I Have been reading all the comments, but everytime i read them i start crying, i just cant bring myself to it, there have been so many times i have tried to tell someone..

thanks for your advice guys. reallyy helps x
Oh, you've seen this. That's good because it was very important, what we had to say. I wish you the best of luck with dealing with this.

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