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Old July 9th, 2008, 09:58 PM   #1
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If it does, on the inside, I must be pretty screwed up, my parents are yelling at each other right now.... over stupid stuff, my dad is calling my mom stupid, and insulting her. I am trying really hard to restrain myself from rocking him him in the face right now. Mom dosen't deserve to be yelled at, I am pissed off at my brother, because he is at a friends house now, and I am alone... That is how I feel... alone...
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Old July 9th, 2008, 10:01 PM   #2
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I hate it I use to get scared that my dad would hit my mom but I'm glad that they are finally seperated.
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Old July 9th, 2008, 10:07 PM   #3
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Is this the way they argue? Is it typical for them to become verbally abusive with eachother? Some adults really get nasty when they argue, if it's typical for them, then it's just 'their way'. If it's new, then it could mean things are worse for them.

It's understandable that you'd find this upsetting and lonely. Maybe when They're calm, you could tell them how upsetting it is for you when they yell. Maybe if they were aware of your feelings and reactions, they'd control themselves better.

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Old July 9th, 2008, 10:08 PM   #4
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He used to beat me, and throw stuff he dosent any more... When i talk to him, he always says, i wasn't yelling at you..

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Old July 9th, 2008, 10:11 PM   #5
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That's what my dad use to do he got real violent and he used to break things. My mom left him and he changed. You need to just find away to let him see how he gets.
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Uh, oh. So, he has a temper? I'm glad he's not hitting you anymore, but it still sounds like he loses control verbally, at least with your mom. Yeah, that would be upsetting, b/c it reminds you of his loss of control with you. But at least it's not physical.

I'm glad you're safely in your room hanging out here. Do you have some music on?
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Old July 9th, 2008, 10:17 PM   #7
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I am talking to my friend, and my dog is in here too
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Old July 9th, 2008, 10:22 PM   #8
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Good! So you're not alone, that is good.
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Old July 9th, 2008, 10:41 PM   #9
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My parents don't argue, they just never talk to each other (it's a little awkward actually, to live together and never talk...). That's terrible though. I can't stand men who think they can treat their wives or children like shit, it pisses me the fuck off. I hope things can get better. It also must be bad being kind of alone. If things get too out of hand, you could call the police. That's kind of a last resort, but if you have to, don't hesitate.
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Old July 10th, 2008, 01:09 AM   #10
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Never has.
I'm the strange kid that always got in the middle of it,
Told them that they both needed to shut their mouths and be civil,
Then go back to sleep.
When it was an arguement involving flying objects,
Then I would just do the same thing,
Then I would just hop the fence and stay the night at my friend Katie's.

My parents argued A LOT,
So it never bothered me as much as it would other kids.

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Old July 10th, 2008, 01:20 AM   #11
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When there was a big fight in my house (not sine i was 9) someone got a black eye, and my dad was the one punching. Whoever annoyed him the most. So, ya, it did kind of scar me.

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Old July 10th, 2008, 01:42 AM   #12
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My dad never got physical,
I guess that makes a huge difference.

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Old July 10th, 2008, 01:44 AM   #13
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Ya, itt does. Although screaming isn't always better than violence. Sometimes they can both be pretty devastating.

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Old July 10th, 2008, 10:18 AM   #14
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yes I can scare me. Thoughts of divorce go around in my head....

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Old July 10th, 2008, 11:22 AM   #15
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Then I would just hop the fence and stay the night at my friend Katie's.

My parents argued A LOT,
So it never bothered me as much as it would other kids.
ha i would..but i can't sneak out cause i am supoed to be home at five thirty =/

it scares the crap outta me

last time my mom threw a plate

and he called her a jerk


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Old July 12th, 2008, 02:05 AM   #16
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I'm more than okay.
I only ever went away because I knew that if it was stupid enough to involve throwing things, that I wouldn't get a good night's sleep, or one of them would leave and drag me along if I hadn't left.
They've been divorced 6 or 7 years now,
So I haven't had to put up with it for a looooong time.

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Old July 12th, 2008, 03:06 AM   #17
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Ya, my parents divorced like almost 8 years ago and I'm much happier. Everyone is always worried. lol Sometimes it's for the best.

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I'm more than okay.
I only ever went away because I knew that if it was stupid enough to involve throwing things, that I wouldn't get a good night's sleep, or one of them would leave and drag me along if I hadn't left.
They've been divorced 6 or 7 years now,
So I haven't had to put up with it for a looooong time.
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Old July 12th, 2008, 08:07 PM   #19
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^ Yeah I'm fine he asked me to put the dog out, and I pretty much ended up telling him to fuck off, and if he insulted mom again I would knock him out.

That made him shut his mouth.
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Old July 12th, 2008, 09:15 PM   #20
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My dad shouting used to scare me, but he has a really booming yell.

Not so much anymore.

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