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Old February 24th, 2010, 04:54 PM   #1
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ok well for some reason this trivial issue with my friend keeps coming back into my head
my close friend truly dislike my parents for some unreasonable reason and i've talked to her but i dont think she will change her mind
so yeah its been like a week since we had that big fight and she told me about my parents, but ever since then that issue has been in my head... first few days it was the only thing i thought about... and lately its been coming back into my thoughts again
i decided to move on with it because i cannot change what she believes but for some reason my thoughts kept coming back to this... what is wrong with me?!
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Old February 24th, 2010, 06:03 PM   #2
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Friends shouldn't fight with each other. You're afraid that your fight, and her not liking your parents, will end your friendship with this person. That's why you can't get it out of your head. I would try to talk to your friend again.
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Old February 24th, 2010, 06:04 PM   #3
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it is very hard to move on from things that affect us deeply, especially with our best friends. nothing is wrong with you, except that you love both your parents and your friend.
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Old February 24th, 2010, 06:21 PM   #4
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truthfully, i've been having thoughts about ending this friendship... i mean there were few times in the past i have seriously wanted to stop this friendship because she just do not understand other people... and last week, she started the conversation: "I dont think we can be friends anymore..." and thats how the talk about my parents started...
here's the reason: whenever i hang out with her on the weekends, my parents would pick me up around 9 or 10, but apparently its too early to be leaving, so she blames my strict parents.
i talked to her that i was upset that she dissed off my parents, but she said she was sorry that i felt bad but she's not sorry that she really hates my parents
i dont know whether it is worth keeping this friendship or i should just end it?
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Old March 4th, 2010, 06:44 AM   #5
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communicate and ask her to explain why she has issues with your parents. don't blame it on yourself. maybe its not worth keeping a friend under those circumstances remember there are many people out there to hang out with. losing one friend especially one that sounds kinda vindictive and moving on sounds better to me don't you think? i hope this helps PM me if you want to talk

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