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Old May 20th, 2019, 04:06 AM   #1
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One of my exes, had faked their death to get out of dating me. That isnt really something I would feel comfortable admitting to having happened to me, but the memory is still imprinted in my mind. I dont dwell on it like I used to, but the thought is there.

I have been called manipulative and told that I am too clingy. The reason I was clingy was because Im just used to people leaving or losing interest. However, I have gotten better at not being clingy or getting attached too easily.

Just wondering if anyone else had this f***ed up s**t happen to them? *embarrassed*

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Old May 20th, 2019, 02:19 PM   #2
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That's sick on their part. Y is it bothering u
I would b glad ur rid of them. I don't c that
u should feel guilty over it-its their problem.

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now u know how I felt so No.

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Old May 21st, 2019, 03:08 AM   #3
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My ex shoved me on multiple occasions. I later found out that he was the one crying victim to physical abused when I defended myself.

Really disturbing as I was never the aggressor in any situation, but I definitely knew how to stand my ground, and to be blamed for being the abuser while being the abused was utterly disgusting.

I cannot understand how another human being could be that terrible and not have any guilt.

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Old May 24th, 2019, 07:56 AM   #4
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Well, my first and true love cheated on me after 16 months.
There were other girls cheating on me afterwords, but it wasn't a problem later. Too short of relatiomships.
Then she came last year... I was depressed and pretty much into binge drinking, but then I met her, learned she was a rape victim and tried helping her. For a few months it was idyllic. I found a job, she mamaged to overcome her fears, her parents trusted me to get her home any time in one piece. Then she started abusing meds. Unperscribed Xanax. She changed. I put the boot down, threw her supply, she left me only to call me the same night to say she is sorry. It continued since then, but never really was the same. After asking her what's wrong, and getting into an argument, she left me. I tried to hang myself later, because with her, I managed to strive to be a better person.
Then I got together with a friend this January, we were hanging out the entire month, non-stop. Had all the signs it will be a long thing. Brought the best out of me, again. And then she left me without saying an exact reason. Vanished from my life.

Since then I abstained from relationships. I have diagnosed depression and I am going through therapy. Maybe a year or two alone will teach me to value myself more?

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Old May 28th, 2019, 10:36 PM   #5
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She moved away
Not her fault though
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Old May 29th, 2019, 03:02 AM   #6
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One of my exes, had faked their death to get out of dating me. That isnt really something I would feel comfortable admitting to having happened to me, but the memory is still imprinted in my mind. I dont dwell on it like I used to, but the thought is there.

I have been called manipulative and told that I am too clingy. The reason I was clingy was because Im just used to people leaving or losing interest. However, I have gotten better at not being clingy or getting attached too easily.

Just wondering if anyone else had this f***ed up s**t happen to them? *embarrassed*
What your ex did was bizarre and reflects some serious mental problems on her part. There's nothing for you to be embarrassed about. You recognize you were too clingy; that's great. But you're not responsible for her irrational, attention seeking behavior. Be glad she's out of your life.

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My ex shoved me on multiple occasions. I later found out that he was the one crying victim to physical abused when I defended myself.

Really disturbing as I was never the aggressor in any situation, but I definitely knew how to stand my ground, and to be blamed for being the abuser while being the abused was utterly disgusting.

I cannot understand how another human being could be that terrible and not have any guilt.
I'm sorry this happened to you. It's a great example of why we shouldn't automatically believe the alleged 'victim.'
The only upside is at least you're ex, the alleged victim was a guy.
If the alleged victim is a girl and falsely accuses a guy, the guy has no chance. That of course doesn't diminish how terribly you were treated and how this may have affected your reputation.
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Old May 29th, 2019, 05:06 AM   #7
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My first and only "boyfriend" was a man 12 years older than me with whom I had regular sexual and romantic relations with between the ages 14 - 17.

I'm comfortable in saying that he used me and played me for 3 whole years. He was manipulative, sexually harassing and an absolute sex addict.

He was having sex with other men constantly. And most of the times without any protection whatsoever. I kind of knew what was going on but at the time I loved him too much and I was of course to afraid of losing him.

When one day I woke up with anal warts I didn't know how to handle my relationship with him anymore. I was 16 at the time. I got treated and had a sudden growth in my self-esteem, so when I confronted him he seemed moved and promised to not do it anymore - I guess you can see that this was an empty promise.

Christmas Eve, me being 17, he texted me that he just had sex with another guy and that he was now going to be in a relationship with him. (Which was exactly like our relationship, full of manipulation and polygamy - I actually helped his new boy out of the relationship, so I got my revenge, you could say.)
Although I felt awful I also was very relieved. And after that my self-esteem just grew stronger and stronger.

In conclusion, although it was an abusive and highly immoral relationship I'm still happy that it happened the way it did for it taught me some things I would not know now or in this intensity.
And the sex was great, I'm not gonna lie

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Old May 29th, 2019, 06:32 AM   #8
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He had sex with one of my former friends at my house during a pool party and I caught them
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Old May 29th, 2019, 07:28 AM   #9
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One ex pressured me in sexual acts I did not like. My first bf read texts on my phone and answered even one.
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Old May 29th, 2019, 09:18 PM   #10
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One ex pressured me in sexual acts I did not like. My first bf read texts on my phone and answered even one.
My last bf tried to do that to me, I said no and finally broke up with him

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He started dating my best friend... in my birthday party.
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Old June 8th, 2019, 12:27 AM   #12
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He flirted with my mom.
My dad wanted to kill him lol, and I realised I was dating an idiot. That was probably the worst but it had a good outcome for me.




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Old June 8th, 2019, 04:00 PM   #13
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Went and banged his ex and got her pregnant then wanted me back and I z go back to that thing as u called her. Never spoken to him since.
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Old June 8th, 2019, 04:19 PM   #14
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He cheated on me at least 10 times with three other girls (that I know about). At least he admitted it, though it didn’t make it any better

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Old June 8th, 2019, 06:48 PM   #15
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She cheated on me, which was a blessing in disguise.
When I trust someone, I really trust them in every way.
Once I found out and ended the relationship, I was able to see things much more clearly and realized just how unhealthy the relationship was for me.

If I hadn't figured out she was cheating, we might have continued for who knows how long.

I'm keeping my view of my current relationship much clearer.
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Old June 8th, 2019, 06:55 PM   #16
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I think the worst thing my ex did was steal one of my hoodies hahaha

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Old June 8th, 2019, 06:59 PM   #17
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I think the worst thing my ex did was steal one of my hoodies hahaha
That's kind of a cute thing to do, though.
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Old June 9th, 2019, 03:33 PM   #18
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Put a knife to my throat push me in front of a car but the driver saw what happend and called police ex just got told not do it again. Beted me up.
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He flirted with my mom.
My dad wanted to kill him lol, and I realised I was dating an idiot. That was probably the worst but it had a good outcome for me.
Oh gosh! There was someting wrong with him.

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