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Old September 12th, 2017, 07:51 PM   #1
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It seems like girls are portrayed as not wanting sex as much as guys. Like if an attractive girl came up to me and asked me to have sex with her, I would definitely entertain it. Are you girls the same way? Why or why not?
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Old September 12th, 2017, 09:47 PM   #2
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It's all society. Girls are on average, more sexually driven than guys. For guys, having sex is celebrated and seen as an achievement. For girls, they're seen as slutty if they have sex 'too much.'

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Old September 12th, 2017, 10:11 PM   #3
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If a girl came up to a guy and
asked to have sex out of the
clear-shes a hoe.
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Old September 12th, 2017, 10:17 PM   #4
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If that ever happened to me I would faint dead away right there on the spot. I really don't foresee that happening to me, at least, not now, or in the future.

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Old September 12th, 2017, 11:34 PM   #5
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I have a very active sex drive. There's definitely a stigma around girls that have libidos, which is such a shame
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Old September 13th, 2017, 12:32 AM   #6
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I have a very active sex drive. There's definitely a stigma around girls that have libidos, which is such a shame
That's so true. I mean, look at what ska8er wrote up there. Proves the point doesn't it?
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Old September 13th, 2017, 12:44 AM   #7
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That's so true. I mean, look at what ska8er wrote up there. Proves the point doesn't it?
Absolutely!
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It depends on how comfortable the person is. And also well if she's asking you she's asked others and well it's probably not good company
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Old September 13th, 2017, 01:53 AM   #9
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If a girl came up to a guy and
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clear-shes a hoe.
why?

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Old September 13th, 2017, 02:13 AM   #10
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I have quite a high physical sex drive but I haven't had sex yet as I'm waiting for marriage.
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Old September 13th, 2017, 07:10 AM   #11
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why?
It could possibly b that she is making
a habit of trying to hook up with any
guy she sees and if the guy reciprocates
he is just as bad. There r exceptions if
the girl and guy know each other well
then maybe they can entertain the idea.
We r all walking around with many heated
hormones but there r times when we have
to think to cool it.
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It seems like girls are portrayed as not wanting sex as much as guys. Like if an attractive girl came up to me and asked me to have sex with her, I would definitely entertain it. Are you girls the same way? Why or why not?
Whoever's doing the portraying is wrong.
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Old September 13th, 2017, 09:26 AM   #13
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It depends on how comfortable the person is. And also well if she's asking you she's asked others and well it's probably not good company
Boy's are asking for it like almost all the time, so they are probably not good company either?

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I have a very active sex drive. There's definitely a stigma around girls that have libidos, which is such a shame
The same for me, it seems that only likeminded open girls understand this or at least are willing to admit that they think about sex often and like it to have sex (solo or with someone).

Boy's love to hear this from a girl but at the same time they have their "thoughts" like you can read in some of the comments in this threat.

Love is the answer .... but while I am waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty interesting questions

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Old September 13th, 2017, 11:22 AM   #14
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Boy's are asking for it like almost all the time, so they are probably not company?
If there is a boy or girl or anyone who sleeps around a lot they probably don't care about you that's what I mean
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In my opinion girls sex drive is just as strong as guys. They seem to be able in most cases to control their emotions about sex better than we guys do. I also don't think a girl is a slut any more than a guy is a slut if they want to have sex with an attractive person. I doubt too many people have sex with someone they just met that night either. The only girl that I have had sex with actually asked me to have sex with her because she thought I was so cute. We had both seen each other naked before from some group skinny dipping too.

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I have a very active sex drive. There's definitely a stigma around girls that have libidos, which is such a shame

I totally agree. I also have a high sex drive. But if a girl approaches a guy and initiates sex, she is labeled a slut. But if the guy does the same with a girl he is applauded and labeled a stud. Girls seem to be unfairly held to a higher standard.
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Old September 13th, 2017, 05:25 PM   #18
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In my opinion girls sex drive is just as strong as guys. They seem to be able in most cases to control their emotions about sex better than we guys do. I also don't think a girl is a slut any more than a guy is a slut if they want to have sex with an attractive person. I doubt too many people have sex with someone they just met that night either. The only girl that I have had sex with actually asked me to have sex with her because she thought I was so cute. We had both seen each other naked before from some group skinny dipping too.
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Old September 13th, 2017, 06:06 PM   #19
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my gy doctor told me that nice girls like sex just as much as so-called bad girls who like sex...lol. she is a pretty cool doctor, gets right to the point. very matter of fact and says there is nothing she's never heard a girl say or do at least once before.
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Old September 14th, 2017, 04:06 AM   #20
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my gy doctor told me that nice girls like sex just as much as so-called bad girls who like sex...lol. she is a pretty cool doctor, gets right to the point. very matter of fact and says there is nothing she's never heard a girl say or do at least once before.
I like this doctor, blunt but with a mild sense of humor.

There definitely is a double-standard, but it is much milder than my parents or grandparents generation.

Fashion shows that popular trends now, would have been completely too form fitting for the early to mid-1900's.

I think girls perpetuate the negative shame around sexual liberal behavior as a sort of verbal social tool to vent out romantic-territorial angst or jealousy towards other girls.

Boys can be judgmental depending on their upbringing and their POV on sexual behavior and the microbiological hazards risqu behavior can bring (re-enforced by sex-ed often not educating pro-sex healthy best practices, some plans being abstinence only). Others just take the risk because they don't care and want the experience of well the sexual experience with (fill-in the blank).


So with that dynamic or fear of not wanting the spotlight as well as true romances being formed from emotional bonding that just happens to involve sex, it becomes a more complicated picture and discussion should address this.

Some want to just use other people sexually for fun or for status or both.

Some feel they need that physical experience or help bond or deepen a bond for the emotional side of the relationship that may very well be legitimate.

Others use sex appeal or sex as adults even to get a job, internship, money, as well and this is largely where stigma is applied to all because of how low a blow and base this is to human nature.

Add to the fact that not everyone is born equally advantaged in wealth or looks, and resentment does occur among women, I can rest assure there are many a girl drama started based on this foundational truth alone.
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