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Old April 15th, 2019, 07:55 PM   #1
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Default I haven't found anyone I really like yet

I've had a few crushes here and there but never anyone that I'd really want to start dating. My parents met in high school and my brother met his current girlfriend and probably soon to be wife in the same way.

I know the reason I haven't had a girlfriend is because I don't want to date someone just so I can say I have a girlfriend, I think that's dumb. But I'd like to find someone that I'd want to date. Is this normal or am I just a freak because I can't find someone I want to date?

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Old April 15th, 2019, 08:11 PM   #2
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Default Re: I haven't found anyone I really like yet

I’m not sure if it’s all to normal, looking around at some of the people I know, but it is definitely admirable. This is a good thing, trust me. I agree that you shouldn’t date someone just to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. There should be a genuine connection between you and your partner.

There’s nothing wrong with you at all for feeling this way. I wish more people did. You sound like a great guy. I’m positive that you’ll find the right person, and for the right reasons too

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Old April 15th, 2019, 08:22 PM   #3
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Im not sure if its all to normal, looking around at some of the people I know, but it is definitely admirable. This is a good thing, trust me. I agree that you shouldnt date someone just to have a boyfriend or girlfriend. There should be a genuine connection between you and your partner.

Theres nothing wrong with you at all for feeling this way. I wish more people did. You sound like a great guy. Im positive that youll find the right person, and for the right reasons too
Thanks @Caycedilla, that makes me feel better about myself

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Old April 17th, 2019, 08:41 AM   #4
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I think you are actually very mature in thinking this way.
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Old April 17th, 2019, 08:52 AM   #5
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Yea its ok I bet most of the people at your school are only dating because its what people should do in high school, or because they think someone is hot and is nothing to do about having a genuine connection. I think its good your not just dating for the sake of it. so well done for being more mature then you friends hahaha

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Old April 19th, 2019, 04:52 AM   #6
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There's nothing wrong with not dating people or dating people. If you don't think there's anyone you really want to date now, then don't date anyone - you'll probably be happier that way. It's a lot better feeling to be not dating because you don't want to date anyone than to be not dating because no-one wants to date you.
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Old April 19th, 2019, 05:11 PM   #7
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U don't rush into anything and not
looking for someone cause everyone
else has a date or girlfriend. When the
right person comes along u will know.
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Old April 19th, 2019, 09:15 PM   #8
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Don't rush it. The right girl will find you when you're least expecting it, and you will know right away if she's the one for you. Good things come to those who wait
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