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Old October 15th, 2018, 01:42 AM   #1
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is this fucked up?
i want to start cutting myself, but i'm not brave enough to do it... and i'm not even suicidal or anything, just curious as to what it's like. but i can't push myself to do it.
i'm sorry if this sounds offensive to anyone. but does anyone else feel this way?

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Old October 15th, 2018, 10:29 AM   #2
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is this fucked up?
i want to start cutting myself, but i'm not brave enough to do it... and i'm not even suicidal or anything, just curious as to what it's like. but i can't push myself to do it.
i'm sorry if this sounds offensive to anyone. but does anyone else feel this way?
Kinda off, apart from I am sometimes suicidal and I have Ďpushedí myself to do it a couple times. Unfortunately, I like it, but DO NOT try it, itís bad.

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Old October 20th, 2018, 08:01 PM   #3
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I have been there but it doesn't help. If you ever need to t alk message me xoxo

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Old October 21st, 2018, 01:35 AM   #4
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a lot of people who cut arenít suicidal. but i really donít recommend that you do it. 95% of the time it really stays for the long run and you can become psychologically dependent on it if you donít get help.

if youíre having these sort of thoughts i would recommend you tell someone like a parent or a teacher who can help you.

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If there's a mental issue like anxiety or depression causing you to want to cut, please talk to someone you trust or seek out a counselor to address your feelings. If you're just curious as to how it feels, it's a horrible habit to fall into and definitely not worth trying. Ever. You face the risk of developing a dependency on it and thinking "if I just do it one more time, I'll feel better." Please don't cut, there are better ways to cope that don't involve harming yourself.

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Old October 26th, 2018, 06:56 PM   #6
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I've never cut myself just because I'd hate to leave a scar, but definitely do not start cutting. You might find it to be addictive and that's never good.
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Old October 28th, 2018, 01:12 PM   #7
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Don't cut.
You will become psychologically dependent due to the release of endorphins (the chemical that makes you happy), and you will be left with semi-permanent scars. Plus, you can accidentally cut too deep.

And honestly, it doesn't make you feel better. I've tried doing it five times now, and each time, it felt worse.
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Don't. That's all I can say. I've been cutting for 4 years. It's like drugs: you try it once, and then you keep doing it because you have to. See a therapist instead, please, and ideally look into DBT, dialectical behavioral therapy.

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Old November 11th, 2018, 01:58 PM   #9
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is this fucked up?
i want to start cutting myself, but i'm not brave enough to do it... and i'm not even suicidal or anything, just curious as to what it's like. but i can't push myself to do it.
i'm sorry if this sounds offensive to anyone. but does anyone else feel this way?
Yes its fucked up.

I see you posted this a few weeks ago I really hope you never get brave enough to do it. Its not some thing you ever want to start. The ppl that use it to cope don't even want to do it please don't try just to see what its like.

I want to lose like 30-35lbs but I'm trying to do it healthy. I could starve myself or force myself to vomit after meals but thats a bad road to go down. You need to listen to what every one is telling you there is no good part of SH.

Please please please don't start its not edgy or cool. Just like every one else is saying if you want to talk I'll listen and won't judge you. Think of a time some one did some thing you knew was a bad idea but they wouldn't listen. Remember how that felt and don't be that person.
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