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Old May 11th, 2015, 05:29 PM   #1181
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I used to be bi when I realized I really liked girls. Then I realized I didn't really like guys, so I'm a lesbian now. And, also, I realized that I've never really had a crush on a guy before. Only girls (ever since I was a kid, too!)

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Old May 14th, 2015, 07:32 PM   #1182
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I was bullied when I was 10, a group of kids kept calling me gay. At such a tender age, I had never thought thoroughly about sexuality.
A few years afterwards, I entered puberty and began gaining interest in sex. I started watching straight porn and it aroused me. But one day I thought: "why did they call me gay back then?" and that led to curiosity about gay sex. I looked up gay porn and it aroused me as well. Actually, it aroused me more. I thought it was because it was something new. I began labelling myself as curious, because I was aware I was growing up and everything was confusing.
Eventually, three years after I started puberty, I fell in love with a boy. Or at least, I think I did. That's when I knew for sure it wasn't just a phase.
I don't like labels, but society does, so I label myself as bi, because I'm open to everything and have been with (and enjoyed it) people of both genders. However, I know I'm more attracted to guys.
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Old May 23rd, 2015, 07:12 PM   #1183
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I've always been attracted to other boys and liked to think that I liked girls too but then I realised that I didn't feel any sort of attraction to them at all. Now I just accept that I'm gay but I still haven't came out nor do I plan to.

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Old May 26th, 2015, 03:26 AM   #1184
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I just didn't really get any sort of feeling from people, sexually, or really romantically either. I'll think someone is cute for example, but I never get aroused, nor does any of that stuff interest me. Then I kissed someone before and I felt pretty empty - none of that butterflies in your stomach or anything - just neutral. So for the moment, I'm an asexual (I don't know if that'll change).

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Old May 29th, 2015, 03:10 PM   #1185
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I always kinda knew in the back of my mind that I was different from other girls, but I never really put a label on why until 8th grade. Before then, I had never really fallen for any boys (or anyone else for that matter). I had just switched from a private school to a public one, and there were so many people to get to know. I became good friends with a lot of boys, but not that many other girls. I started wondering why that was, and why they were so much more approachable than people of the same gender as me. That question went unanswered until I fell in love with (in my mind) the cutest girl in the school. That was when everything "clicked" and I realized that I was a lesbian.
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Old June 1st, 2015, 02:06 PM   #1186
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I'm still trying to sort out how I feel about other girls. I've always liked boys since I was really young. I was infatuated with an older male friend when I was really young, but it wasn't in a sexual way. I don't know why, but I always wanted to follow him around and I thought he was the coolest person I knew. I didn't start thinking about girls until I moved in with my older female cousins. I started to feel the same emotions about my cousin Emily as I did that boy from my old town.

Emily and I have explored sexually together, and I feel attracted to her, but I don't feel that way about any other girl. I don't find other girls sexually attractive, just her. I don't know if that makes me bi or not.
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Old June 14th, 2015, 01:50 AM   #1187
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I first found out I was Bisexual when I fell for my best friend, at first I thought I was Gay but as I started to drift apart from her I started finding guys attractive as well and that's how I found out I was actually bisexual

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Old June 15th, 2015, 12:20 AM   #1188
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I'm now starting to accept the fact that I'm gay rather than bi. I mean, all my prior relationships, dates, and a majority of my romantic/sexual interests have been with guys. Finding a female that I'm attracted to in an amorous or sexual way is once in a blue moon, so I guess for all intensive purposes I'm gay but flexible, if the circumstances are right.
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Old June 15th, 2015, 10:50 AM   #1189
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I think I have always known. I never came out. If people know, its ok. If they don't, its okay. My parents have always assured us that whatever and whoever we are,we are still family, so I always felt comfortable with who I am. Even as a kid, I liked checking out other boys, but not really in a sexual way. When I started puberty, I thought both were cute, and experimentation with both girls and guys confirmed it. But I really never had a moment when I knew it, or when I told people. Its just who I always was, and I have never tried to hide who I am from anybody.
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Old July 28th, 2015, 12:52 AM   #1190
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I like dicks and handsome guys though I like kind,sexy girl but i dun wanna have sex with girls )
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Old July 28th, 2015, 03:21 PM   #1191
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I've always had feelings for girls ever since I was little, and I still do. But for around 6 years in grade school my class was all guys (that's a whole other story lol) and I started realizing when I was around 13 that I was attracted to some of my friends, both sexually and emotionally. I believe that being around and hanging out with only guys for such a long and crucial period of my life caused me to realize that I was bi at such an early age.

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Old July 31st, 2015, 01:22 PM   #1192
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I've always just had this inclin to guys, I suppose... I used to get frequent 'sexy' dreams about my dad and other hot guys (giggle) from the age of 4, upwards I developed a crush on my friend, Kyle when we were five and we 'messed about' a lot until we were about 12 but it was only tender stuff and sexual affection but he went in denial but I've never seen him since (moved schools, and such). (I miss it). I also 'messed about' with my step brother, too, called Lee but he went further than..., yeah (I had a major crush on him, still do because he was always just so sweet, and such). Same thing. It was mostly sexual affection but he did go further... I also messed about with one last guy, called Deniel, which was just sexual affection again but like all of them, it ended after the denial set in...


So, yeah... I'm definitely gay I've never had feelings for girls, only guys, I'm extremely stereotypically gay (shopping, high voice, bright colours, sass, the like ), I have a crush on my gorgeously sweet and gorgeously hot English teacher, and yeah... Yeah, honay, I'm totally gay! Aha!
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Old August 1st, 2015, 03:30 PM   #1193
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When I was a little girl I had brief little crushes on boys, but when I reached age 8+ I noticed myself staring more at my girl friends and other females at pool and beach and in the changing rooms/showers. I started to think I might be gay and that my earlier attraction to males was simply because that's what we're taught that we're "supposed" to feel. That lasted for 6 months to a year, with me smitten with my older sister's friends. Then some of my brother's friends started hanging around more, and I realized I still found boys attractive. Confused, I started talking to my older sister about this and she explained the difference between straight, gay, and bisexual to me. That was a revelation! I knew immediately that bisexual described me. After talking to my sister about it for a few more weeks, I told her that I thought I was bi, and she hugged me and told me that she loved me no matter what and not to hide who I am or feel ashamed. I got incredibly lucky with such an open minded and tolerant sister.
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Old August 2nd, 2015, 12:13 PM   #1194
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Most my time was spent with boys. After being friend zoned by many girls and realising how confusing they were I just lost interest in them. I remeber accidently looking at the Gay porn section, but I loved what I saw. Girls sexually is a 100% nope for me, guys sexually is 1000% yes! I've yet to have any sort of relationship with a guy, but I know im physically attracted to guys and that they are easier to talk to and understand.

If your confused then you just have to experience with your feelings and emotions towards both and eventually you know what you like and love. There's no rush to find out

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Old August 7th, 2015, 02:13 PM   #1195
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since i first watched gay porn and got turned on by it, but since then i have been so confused and curious, i want to be straight as i want to have a wife, kids and a family, but then i just want to have sex with a guy and not a relationship

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Old August 21st, 2015, 06:55 PM   #1196
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I first realized I was bi when a friend stayed the night at age 12 we messed around she was 13. I have aunt that is really cool and I talked to her about it. She said everyone experiments. And gave me some pointers on how to pleasure another girl. Now I have 2 girl friends that I mmm spend time with once in a while.
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Old August 21st, 2015, 07:35 PM   #1197
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Hehe, well, even though I am attracted to guys more, there's just something about girls, y'know?
It started out in 7th grade when one of my acquaintances who I changed next to in the locker room started flirting with me. The flirting lasted all the way to the end of 8th grade and she's always been open about her crush on me. I never reciprocated it because I was shy but I definitely didn't mind. She'd "jokingly" grope me and stuff. If I were 100% straight, I realized, I wouldn't have liked that.
Aside from being attracted to this girl and wanting our relationship to move up from second base, I found myself staring at a lot of other girls and being attracted to them. (I also had a huge crush on my P.E. teacher who was openly lesbian).
And then I saw Orange is the New Black Laura Prepon - holy shit - she is HOT AS HELL. Ruby Rose?! Yes, please.
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Old August 23rd, 2015, 02:34 AM   #1198
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I was in denial for years. But it happened a month ago, when I met a girl and grew a little crush on her. I knew I wasn't gay because I still have interest in guys.

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Old August 29th, 2015, 04:49 PM   #1199
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When I realized that guys have the same stuff that I do, and I know what makes myself feel good, so I could in turn make them feel the same way with their stuff. And also be able to discuss guy stuff with them without feeling awkward
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Old September 2nd, 2015, 06:27 PM   #1200
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For context I'm pan.

I always suspected or kinda knew my feelings were more nuanced than strictly boy & girl. But an older girl on my swim team was very out and proud. So she kinda "normalized" it for me. Basically she set a good example of "this exists and it's ok". I think she knew what I was only discovering because she would ask pointed questions and always make sure to say that whatever I felt was normal and healthy.

So for me it wasn’t one big discovery, it was the conclusion of a long and gradual journey.
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