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Old August 18th, 2007, 12:59 PM   #1
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k.. im 14 and going into high school next year.. i get a little turned on by naked guys (im not gay tho) and im afriad that ill have a boner in the showers.. help me.. what should i do...
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Old August 18th, 2007, 01:03 PM   #2
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while ur in the shower just try not to think of anything sexual. Think about something like food, or something you have to do when you get home.

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Old August 18th, 2007, 01:06 PM   #3
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its your hormones they can do wicked things to you let it ride out and i'm sure you won't have any more boners although it is normal at your age to get turned on a little by naked guys

try to think of the most weirdest or digusting thing works for most people
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Old August 18th, 2007, 01:10 PM   #4
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k thanks but im still worried
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Old August 18th, 2007, 01:30 PM   #5
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don't be james its perfectly normal at your age

have a read of this

http://www.puberty101.com/p_amigay.shtml

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Old August 18th, 2007, 06:29 PM   #6
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dude i have this problem sometimes, its just spontanious erections, goes away after a while.
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Old August 18th, 2007, 08:39 PM   #7
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while ur in the shower just try not to think of anything sexual. Think about something like food, or something you have to do when you get home.
Tried it, it dont work 4 me, but it might for you though...
i would suggest, in and out, as quick as u can, not enuf tym 2 think about it, and dont look, and if u can help it, dont wash ur balls that much in their, could cause sensations


and your probz in the curioriodity stage, every1 goes through it

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Old August 18th, 2007, 08:52 PM   #8
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k.. im 14 and going into high school next year.. i get a little turned on by naked guys (im not gay tho) and im afriad that ill have a boner in the showers.. help me.. what should i do...
try to think of something horrible, such as your parents having sex. that works for me very well.

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Old August 18th, 2007, 08:59 PM   #9
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yeah, or the worst thing you can possibly think of, 99%certain to get rid of an erection, is your dad, grandan, uncle etc, all naked doing the conga!

I'm ENGLISH and as stuborn as they come GET USED 2 IT

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Old August 18th, 2007, 11:46 PM   #10
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Hmm, you could just chat about something like homework with the people you're showering with.

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Old August 19th, 2007, 04:20 AM   #11
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Ok i've said this before to someone else...

To prevent an erection just think of something so utterly disgusting or scary. For example I use to the girl from the Exorcist and that always works.

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Old August 19th, 2007, 06:58 PM   #12
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It's perfectly normal!! It's just hormones, and the thought of anything sexual, can stimulate the erection. Thinkning of other things can help, but you shouldnt be too worried. Many guys fear the same thing, and, again, It's perfectly normal.

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Old August 19th, 2007, 08:25 PM   #13
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k.. so cuz im turned on sometimes doesnt necessarily mean im gay?

by turned on i mean by guys

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Old August 19th, 2007, 08:29 PM   #14
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Please don't double post. Use the edit feature instead.

When you're 14 everything turns you on so it doesn't necessarily make you gay. Being gay is about having a loving emotional relationship with a guy, not because you're a hormonal teen (where practically anything sexual related can turn you on) getting an erection in the shower. I doubt you're gay.
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Old August 19th, 2007, 09:00 PM   #15
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Join ROTC they dont have gym or dont look down
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Old August 20th, 2007, 12:36 PM   #16
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what i would do is....hmmm... face the wall, and if anyone sees it, say "why were you looking anyway?" and it'll be an even worse insult than usual because you were facing the wall and they would have to strain to get a look.

orrrrr *trying to think of another thing* right! do the "get in wash up get out"
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Old August 20th, 2007, 01:01 PM   #17
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whats the ROTC????
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Old August 20th, 2007, 01:07 PM   #18
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Lol, I never had any homo moments. But I think a good thing is just don't think about anything sexual. Think about sports or something.
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Old August 20th, 2007, 01:19 PM   #19
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the ROTC is the club that does the flag carrying and the gun twirling...they do other stuff too
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Old August 20th, 2007, 07:24 PM   #20
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Lol, I never had any homo moments. But I think a good thing is just don't think about anything sexual. Think about sports or something.
what that supposed to mean??? any homo moments
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