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Old June 5th, 2019, 02:05 PM   #1
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I have come out as gay but there are certain girls that im attracted to
Also im starting to doubt my sexuality (again)
Im beginning to think i just like the idea of dick and not the person its attached to
Is this normal?

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Old June 5th, 2019, 03:46 PM   #2
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It seems to me that you would have to like the boy before you liked his dick. I think you'd start feeling pretty empty if you started doing some things with dicks when you really didn't like who it was attached to.
And you're only 14. Don't worry about labeling yourself yet. Get some experiences with both boys and girls and you'll figure it out.
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Old June 5th, 2019, 04:11 PM   #3
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I have come out as gay but there are certain girls that im attracted to
Also im starting to doubt my sexuality (again)
Im beginning to think i just like the idea of dick and not the person its attached to
Is this normal?
I am gay, but I find there are some girls I find myself attracted to and it is kind of odd, but not out of the ordinary. Liking the idea of dick and not the person its attached to, to me, is more of a phase thing. I went through that when I first came out, it was all about the dick. I could care less about the person attached to it, but I grew out of that and kind of calmed down. You might, too.

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Old June 7th, 2019, 12:42 PM   #4
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I have come out as gay but there are certain girls that im attracted to
Also im starting to doubt my sexuality (again)
Im beginning to think i just like the idea of dick and not the person its attached to
Is this normal?
Maybe you are just curious about other guys dicks, or maybe you are only sexually attracted to boys, and romantically attracted to girls?
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Old June 7th, 2019, 01:25 PM   #5
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Ur 14- u r going to have all of these
strange and odd feelings over guys
and girls and thinking ur this way or
that way. It is normal and right now
don't label urself. Just enjoy puberty
and b safe and let it all play out.
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Old June 9th, 2019, 09:32 PM   #6
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Sounds like your closer to curious than gay.

I was the same way.

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Old June 9th, 2019, 09:41 PM   #7
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I have come out as gay but there are certain girls that im attracted to
Also im starting to doubt my sexuality (again)
Im beginning to think i just like the idea of dick and not the person its attached to
Is this normal?
Iím pretty sure Iím straight but really curious bc I love girls but think about dick a lot so idk. I think itís fine, donít put a label on urself. I think sex is for fun even though I havenít had any, so donít stress.
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Old June 9th, 2019, 11:24 PM   #8
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Sounds like your closer to curious than gay.

I was the same way.
Ive done things with guys and i enjoyed it... Thoroughly
Its just that i think i like the feeling more than the person
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Old June 9th, 2019, 11:52 PM   #9
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Sexuality isn't a super duper defined thing. It's a spectrum. You don't just have to be just gay or just bi or just straight. You can be somewhere in the middle or be a bit of each. I wouldn't really worry about what you are and try to make yourself fit that. Just do what seems comfortable for you. Go after the people you like. Do the things that make you feel good and are comfortable with. Work out the labels after because they're only labels.
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Old June 11th, 2019, 10:30 PM   #10
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Sexuality isn't a super duper defined thing. It's a spectrum. You don't just have to be just gay or just bi or just straight. You can be somewhere in the middle or be a bit of each. I wouldn't really worry about what you are and try to make yourself fit that. Just do what seems comfortable for you. Go after the people you like. Do the things that make you feel good and are comfortable with. Work out the labels after because they're only labels.
I think this is on the money
Also youíre 14 and not finished becoming who you are yet, so donít stick a label on just yet, you can say youíre gay or queer without it being 100% all the way gay so thatís fine for now

Take Miley Cyrus, sheís queer, but married to a straight guy because she loves him over all other people and thatís a beautiful thing
It doesnít mean sheís straight
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