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Old December 10th, 2010, 09:07 AM   #501
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I'm not sure when I really found out I was, I guess I always had a feeling as I found my self think some times god she cute or hot or something along those lines. I really found out when I was in year 9 though when I actully had a crush on a girl in my class.
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Old December 10th, 2010, 10:48 PM   #502
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kind of just always known i like both
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Old December 13th, 2010, 11:06 PM   #503
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i found out about a mounth ago that i was bi when my friends who were going out asked me to have sex with them it was kinda weird but it ended up a good idea.

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Old December 14th, 2010, 12:02 AM   #504
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Found meself googling more lads than lassies.

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Old December 18th, 2010, 12:21 PM   #505
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omg me 2 except i kissed a boy in first grade
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Old December 22nd, 2010, 07:26 PM   #506
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I think , I'm gay, but it's too early for me to tell, emotionally I like girls, but sexually, i feel more attracted to boys. Where I live <---- teens don't accept homosexualism, so I can't reveal my feelings, or I would be bullied relentlessly, please help?!!
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Old December 29th, 2010, 06:56 AM   #507
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i always knew i liked boys, when i was in year 2 i had a boyfriend, i always told my family i was gay, so it was never a shock when i came out
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Old December 29th, 2010, 01:09 PM   #508
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I never thought about it till I was 11 I can't remember how I realised I was that way but for a long time it was just an attraction and I ignored it then I had a crush and it was like someone punching me in the face and screaming ur gay at me. It was that obvious for me.
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Old December 30th, 2010, 10:58 AM   #509
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i found out about a mounth ago that i was bi when my friends who were going out asked me to have sex with them it was kinda weird but it ended up a good idea.
Why can't this shit happen to meeeee
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Old January 1st, 2011, 10:04 PM   #510
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when i started to feel different...... started to like same sex?? LOL
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Old January 7th, 2011, 12:58 AM   #511
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At 11 had a wet dream about sex with boys.
At 11-13 I craved peeking at my friends, skinnydipping with them and touching and trying blowjobs.
Then at boarding school there were all those penises in the dorm showers. BUT I had to totally avoid hiding my intense interest--it was a religious school.
So I dated girls to be "good".
Now I have a kid--a boy and I am really afraid he will find out how gay I am inside.
My girlfriend thinks I am bi but I have sex with her just because it meets her needs. We are working well to raise the boy.
Nobody else knows.
I AM SO TRAPPED IN THE CLOSET.
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Old January 7th, 2011, 01:18 AM   #512
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Not sure exactly what age I knew I was Bi but I just found certain guys hot and had feelings for them. I love girls as well.
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Old January 12th, 2011, 06:25 AM   #513
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Ive always known. It gets awkward when you go to school with a set of identical twins two years younger than you, and all you can think about is shoving your penis up their assws, at the same time while talkin to them about normal day to day stuff. I AM GAY



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Old January 12th, 2011, 06:29 PM   #514
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Just reading all these comments, I can really define a moment, because even now I don't call myself gay or bi, but I know I have feelings for girls. My first kiss was with a girl and even then I still thought I was straight - actually cried myself to sleep because I thought Id done something horribly wrong.

Then when I was like 17, was watching Ellen Degeneres show and she was like "It's ok to be gay" and I always had a crush on her when she was younger and I think now, shes a lovely woman, and her wife Portia is beautiful and they are decent people and I realised theres nothing wrong with it - I think its then when you accept that its ok you gradually find out or "discover" your true sexuality as you aren't so scared to do what you want, even know im still in process, I probably won't bother coming out until im in a serious relationship either.

Hope this has been helpful. I know I sort of went off on one haha. Its a topic I feel quite strongly about and have suffered with for about 6 years.

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Old January 12th, 2011, 06:34 PM   #515
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At 11 had a wet dream about sex with boys.
At 11-13 I craved peeking at my friends, skinnydipping with them and touching and trying blowjobs.
Then at boarding school there were all those penises in the dorm showers. BUT I had to totally avoid hiding my intense interest--it was a religious school.
So I dated girls to be "good".
Now I have a kid--a boy and I am really afraid he will find out how gay I am inside.
My girlfriend thinks I am bi but I have sex with her just because it meets her needs. We are working well to raise the boy.
Nobody else knows.
I AM SO TRAPPED IN THE CLOSET.
Sounds like you've had a pretty hard time with it. Does it get to you or is it something you've pushed to the back of your head?

I admire your strength, in being a good dad and keeping your girlfriend happy all the while struggling with this.

Do you think you'll ever be able to move on and pursue your interest in men?

All the best
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Old January 13th, 2011, 01:28 PM   #516
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I've always knows I've liked guys, from since I was like 11 or so
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Old January 19th, 2011, 05:49 PM   #517
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I suddenly got a crush on a boy in my class
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Old January 19th, 2011, 06:05 PM   #518
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One day I was play fighting with my bff ...
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Old January 21st, 2011, 07:54 PM   #519
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Prrrretty much, I can't remember a time when I liked girls...

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Old January 24th, 2011, 05:17 PM   #520
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A girl kissed me in year 8, I pulled away but soon after realised I liked her. By that time it was too late. We don't speak any more anyway
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