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Old April 12th, 2019, 03:36 AM   #1
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Question How long should sex last?

For both boys and girls. Boys, after losing your virginity, how long did you last on average for the first 5-10 times? Girls, how long did inexperienced guys youve been with last?

I average probably just over 30 seconds. Certain positions will make it less than that though Like standing from behind or she rides reverse cowgirl. Both of those were with amazing bodies. Shortest was barely 10 seconds. The other was maybe 20 because I "slipped out." I get a lot of girls consider 2-3 minutes way too short, which seems like forever to me right now. I heard my friend with somebody the other week and they went 15 minutes

I think experience would help a lot (ive only been with 5 girls) but not lasting long is keeping me from having repeat sex with anybody. Thoughts/experiences?
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Old April 12th, 2019, 04:17 AM   #2
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I don't think many boys last long the first time. My boyfriend lasted only for a few seconds. It's all about practice and getting experience. Don't dwell on it too much, and keep in mind that practice makes perfect.

You know the feeling when the steaks are on the grill, and your mouth is watering. Do vegans feel the same when they mow the lawn?
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Old April 12th, 2019, 07:26 AM   #3
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First timers usually explode as soon as they get inside you lol, as for the first 10 times... it gets better every time usually, but 2-3 minutes is normal for someone who’s inexperienced. like Pultost said practice makes perfect! Don’t worry about it, you’ll get better and last longer as you do it more
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Old April 12th, 2019, 08:19 AM   #4
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First timers usually explode as soon as they get inside you lol, as for the first 10 times... it gets better every time usually, but 2-3 minutes is normal for someone whos inexperienced. like Pultost said practice makes perfect! Dont worry about it, youll get better and last longer as you do it more
I totally agree. Its crazy to think that the first couple of times will be perfect.
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Old April 12th, 2019, 09:23 AM   #5
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Yeah, the one was so excited that he only lasted seconds but he was soooooooo thrilled to get into my pants that I don't think it mattered to him at all how long he lasted. He was good for a second round that lasted a minute or two. That was his first time ever, and only the second boy I'd ever let do me.

Getting a boy to calm down and learn how to last at least 3-4 minutes is awesome!!!!!! I can verify that we like it to last as long as possible or else the boy has to be able to do repeat performances fairly quickly.
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Old April 12th, 2019, 11:06 AM   #6
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from a guys point of view

the more you take care of them with foreplay it wont matter how long u last really because they will be enjoying it too

with my fist gf i would last maybe 2 minutes but we also found out that if I were to jerk off about an hour before I would last a little longer for her and thats what we kept doing

until we broke up

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Old April 14th, 2019, 04:41 AM   #7
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Try keeping active and eating properly too, it actually has abd effect, think of sex as more of a work out and see if that does anything for you, also dont let her blow you just eat her out instead and then go to town
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Old April 14th, 2019, 09:03 AM   #8
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I like it longer than 45 minutes
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Old April 14th, 2019, 09:24 AM   #9
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This is a good thing about being a lesbian or bi girls don't just run out of steam after a couple minutes we can just keep going in till one of you physical cant move anymore hahaha

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Old April 14th, 2019, 03:50 PM   #10
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Sometimes my BF and I would really just enjoy a quickie just for fun and to relieve a little sexual tension but tbh, I think he usually takes WAY TOO LONG and I start getting sore. Not complaining...I am so in love with him...but usually he can just keep going and going and going like the energizer bunny. I've asked him if I'm doing something wrong or perhaps I'm not turning him on but he swears he has always had this problem and just has a difficult time, uh, "getting there." I guess I should be happy he's not a "one-hump-chump" but it would be kinda' flattering if at least once in a while he got so excited that he just couldn't last or hold back.
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Old April 14th, 2019, 05:25 PM   #11
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This is a good thing about being a lesbian or bi girls don't just run out of steam after a couple minutes we can just keep going in till one of you physical cant move anymore hahaha
Totally agree, very rare that it is too short for me to be happy.
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Old April 14th, 2019, 05:35 PM   #12
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When I first had sex my boyfriend had already had sex with his ex a few times, but it was about three years ago, so I think he was very excited to do it again. He lasted less than a minute I think before he ejaculated. We've only done it two more times but he lasted four or five minutes last time so it was more enjoyable. I think it's more about being caring and showing love that will get you "repeat sex" with somebody.
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Sometimes my BF and I would really just enjoy a quickie just for fun and to relieve a little sexual tension but tbh, I think he usually takes WAY TOO LONG and I start getting sore. Not complaining...I am so in love with him...but usually he can just keep going and going and going like the energizer bunny. I've asked him if I'm doing something wrong or perhaps I'm not turning him on but he swears he has always had this problem and just has a difficult time, uh, "getting there." I guess I should be happy he's not a "one-hump-chump" but it would be kinda' flattering if at least once in a while he got so excited that he just couldn't last or hold back.
I can understand it must be frustrating with someone who "never" finishes as well. Something in-between would be nice.

You know the feeling when the steaks are on the grill, and your mouth is watering. Do vegans feel the same when they mow the lawn?
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Old April 15th, 2019, 08:21 AM   #14
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Had to re-read when I realised you said 30 seconds

Double or triple bag it, jerk off first too
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Old April 15th, 2019, 10:31 AM   #15
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I like it longer than 45 minutes
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Old April 15th, 2019, 10:35 AM   #16
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I like it longer than 45 minutes
I assume you meant seconds. After 45 minutes we've usually done it twice already, including breaks in between.

You know the feeling when the steaks are on the grill, and your mouth is watering. Do vegans feel the same when they mow the lawn?
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Old April 15th, 2019, 10:37 AM   #17
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Double or triple bag it
does that help?

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Old April 15th, 2019, 10:39 AM   #18
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does that help?
I assume it gets less sensitive that way, maybe?

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Old April 15th, 2019, 12:09 PM   #19
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I assume you meant seconds. After 45 minutes we've usually done it twice already, including breaks in between.
Ive gone for over an hour multiple times, if she needs 45 min to finish then thats what you give her
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Ive gone for over an hour multiple times, if she needs 45 min to finish then thats what you give her
Sounds exhausting, but different strokes I guess. Foreplay can often take about half an hour or more, though.

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