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Old June 23rd, 2006, 02:57 PM   #81
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Ya, that totally sucks man. There was this chick I was crazy about, and I spent two years searching for her. I did come across her a time or two, but never got the chance to talk to her. Then, I found one of her cousins and got her phone number. I knew it never woulda worked, so I called her, told her how I felt, and got some closer from it.
You spent two years looking for her and just gave up?


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Old July 3rd, 2006, 05:45 PM   #82
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This was posted in my diary too, but it applies to this story, so I'm gonna post it here also.

So when I got back from camp, my family and I went to our cabin at Indian Lake for three days to watch the fireworks they put off every fourth of July. My dad brought his labtop and he had just got the movie "Friday Night Lights" for his birthday. I decided to watch it since I had nothing else to do. After watching the movie, I realized for really the first time in my life, you only live on this earth once, and you have to make the most of it. I realized I have been pretty much sitting around for the past fifteen years watching my life go by, and that's exactly what I did with Betsy. I just sat there and let her go by because I was too nervous to do anything about it. And now I've lost her. I told my dad I was going to go sleep, so I went into the other room and just cried. For the first time in my life, a girl made me cry, and it's this girl that I may never even see again. I don't understand it at all. I just sat there and cried for a good ten minutes. And then I thought to myself how I'd let everything go in my life, and given up on so many things, and years I'll never get back. And I decided that I was going to end that then. I wasn't going to give up on finding Betsy, no matter how much I wanted to, because I'd given up on so many other things in my life. It's really hard right now, but I'm trying to stick with it.


A gathering of angels appeared above my head
They sang to me this song of hope, and this is what they said
They said come sail away, come sail away
Come sail away with me
Come sail away, come sail away
Come sail away with me

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Old July 3rd, 2006, 07:45 PM   #83
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welcome back!! how was your vacation?? hope it was good...
im not sure what to say about the "now doing nothing for 15 years" thing, because, i mean, we are just teenagers... i dont want to low your faith, or self steem, but you are definatelly not going to last your whole life with betsey... is it YOUR fault, or HERS, i dont think you will even get to marry her... yes it might be cool to have someone you truly love at your side, and kinda feels that she loves you too, yes, its awsome because ive felt it, and once a girl that i really loved, also loved, and cared about me so much, that at some point it was annoing... but you gotta go with life... like i say "life happens" you just gotta keep going forward, and not looking back... it might be cool that you find betsey... i mean, i, live in italy, and you, i guess, live in the states, and over all the post you've written about her, someone can really feel that you love her, and you want her to be with you, but you gotta realize that it wont last forever being a teen, like most of us would like it to be with our own couples... like i said, you gotta go forward, and dont look back, its all past, and you gotta forget about it... think about this: yes in your story you said she was shy, and that you kinda felt that she likes you, but then suddently you find her after years of looking, and then she doesnt remembers you... it might happen like it always happens in the "happy endind movies" that you tell her everything, you ask her mary you, she says yes, and you live happy forever... BUT, what if she says no... im not trying to lower your self steem and your faith, im just trying to show you the real world, and you gotta realize all is real. this aint a happy ending movie. you are not god to decide eather she says yes or no. you gotta analize EVERY SINGLE thing that will/might happen before acting. you might be no one to her right now, just some dude she though was cute for two weeks... sorry if i was kinda crude, but its the real world, and life happens

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edit: YOU more than ever should read, and re read this.
I know right now you are all really sad that you didnt have the chance to actually meet her. im putting this edit note because i just read in your signature "You write your own happy endings."
I have to agree, but there are lots or variables that you cant write.. people want to BE. they dont want their life written down, they have a destiny they need to choose... not god...

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Old July 3rd, 2006, 08:18 PM   #84
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I know more than anyone that fairy tale endings don't happen in the real world, and you're lucky if you ever get one. That's why you have to "write your own," as I put it. I'm just trying to hold out hope that mabye I can write my own, because I haven't had any before.


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Old July 3rd, 2006, 08:21 PM   #85
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you still dont get what i mean... you cant write your own happy ending... only if its something by yourself, like a house proyect or something... you have to realize they can eather choose YES, or NO

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Old July 3rd, 2006, 08:24 PM   #86
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Happy endings don't have to do with yes or no, they have to do with working to get something you want.


A gathering of angels appeared above my head
They sang to me this song of hope, and this is what they said
They said come sail away, come sail away
Come sail away with me
Come sail away, come sail away
Come sail away with me

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Old July 3rd, 2006, 08:31 PM   #87
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but how would you feel if you did all that for nothing??
just... normal?? you gont be happy, will ya?

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Old July 3rd, 2006, 08:35 PM   #88
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I worry about that all the time. That if someday fate may bring us together again, she won't even remember me...


A gathering of angels appeared above my head
They sang to me this song of hope, and this is what they said
They said come sail away, come sail away
Come sail away with me
Come sail away, come sail away
Come sail away with me

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Old July 3rd, 2006, 08:40 PM   #89
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i hope you guys at least meet...

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Old July 3rd, 2006, 08:42 PM   #90
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You and me both, dude.


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They said come sail away, come sail away
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Old July 3rd, 2006, 08:53 PM   #91
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..............

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Old July 3rd, 2006, 11:07 PM   #92
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Too bad you didnt get her email.

Dont get upset, just learn from your mistakes.

Also, I think your ages are fine as long as your both under 18 for those kind of relationships.
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Old July 4th, 2006, 12:17 AM   #93
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You spent two years looking for her and just gave up?
I don't consider it "giving up". I feel that it's best to let go in such cases. Besides, I found an even better chick I was with for a year after all this. My point is don't let her hold you back, and like you said you gotta live life to the fullest. And chasing rainbows (or girls) doesn't give you the full pot of gold. You get a hole in your heart. You need to move on as hard as that is sometimes. Because when you chase rainbows, it's more like a dog chasing it's tail. It hurts and goes no where. You need to let yourself run free.

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Old July 4th, 2006, 10:14 AM   #94
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I know, but it just seems like I should try to hold on a little bit longer for some reason... maybe I'm just going crazy.


A gathering of angels appeared above my head
They sang to me this song of hope, and this is what they said
They said come sail away, come sail away
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Come sail away, come sail away
Come sail away with me

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Old July 4th, 2006, 11:40 AM   #95
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you shouldnt give up. but dont let if get to the piont where its the only thing your constantly thinking about. remember you have a life to live aswell, like school work ect.
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Old July 4th, 2006, 01:06 PM   #96
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I'm not gonna give up just yet. I'm not ready to give up.


A gathering of angels appeared above my head
They sang to me this song of hope, and this is what they said
They said come sail away, come sail away
Come sail away with me
Come sail away, come sail away
Come sail away with me

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Old July 4th, 2006, 03:03 PM   #97
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Well, take as much time as you need. But just don't let this bring you to a place you don't want to go. It's gonna take a while, but I'm sure you'll move on, and that's healthier any way.
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Old July 4th, 2006, 03:09 PM   #98
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Finding this girl is a needle in a hay stack. I think you're wasting your time. You don't even know if Betsey feels the same way or has even forgetten about you. She may already have her eye on someone else. Even if you were to find her, do you expect to say "Hey I'm the Dude from the Disney Cruise Line" and she gives you a smile and a hug and it's all good? There are a ton of obsticles around you. One is her parents. I think you're giving yourself false hope.

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Old July 4th, 2006, 05:25 PM   #99
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thats what im trying to tell him...

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Old July 4th, 2006, 06:03 PM   #100
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OMG!!!! Zach I've found you!
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