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Old June 24th, 2019, 07:19 PM   #1
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When I was 13, I moved out of my mom's and in with my aunt and uncle. One of the biggest changes was that I faced paddlings at school, and spankings from my uncle. It only happened to me a few times, thank god. But there isn't a month that goes by without one of my cousins getting spanked. I feel bad for them, but it just seems to be normal here. If the spankings were really working wouldn't they be less often? What do ya'll think?
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Old June 24th, 2019, 07:40 PM   #2
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In my opinion corporal punishment (basically a nice way to say child abuse) only exerts pain, force, intimidation, and force co plain evil with the use of threatening physical harm. It does not foster love in any way shape or form

Thatís my opinion, and would prolly be backed up by the fact that itís not working.
If your cousins wanted t9 stop doing whatever cause of how they are coached with love affection and support, then they would.

If itís beaten into them, only reasonable thing to think is to fight back and revolt right?

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Old June 25th, 2019, 04:04 AM   #3
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In my opinion corporal punishment (basically a nice way to say child abuse) only exerts pain, force, intimidation, and force co plain evil with the use of threatening physical harm. It does not foster love in any way shape or form

Thatís my opinion, and would prolly be backed up by the fact that itís not working.
If your cousins wanted t9 stop doing whatever cause of how they are coached with love affection and support, then they would.

If itís beaten into them, only reasonable thing to think is to fight back and revolt right?
I agree. If not parents or legal guardians or what it's called can reason with words instead of violence, how are the kids supposed to know any better?
They set the example that violence is the way to deal with problems. That's just NOT a way forward for the world.
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Old June 26th, 2019, 06:27 AM   #4
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spanking is some stone age shit that doesn't do any difference

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Old June 26th, 2019, 06:37 AM   #5
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spanking is some stone age shit that doesn't do any difference
Exactly. Violence never solves anything.

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Old June 26th, 2019, 09:48 AM   #6
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My parents..would always use..the " how disappointed" words with us. We were given so much freedom and we do something..Kinda bad or something and they would just say that...and bam...we would make the correction. Words can be pretty powerful.

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Old June 26th, 2019, 09:54 AM   #7
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My parents..would always use..the " how disappointed" words with us. We were given so much freedom and we do something..Kinda bad or something and they would just say that...and bam...we would make the correction. Words can be pretty powerful.
That phrase really packs a punch, I heard that whenever I did something wrong when I was younger, and it got me thinking.

You know that a movie is bad when one or more actors apologise for participating in it.
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Old June 26th, 2019, 09:57 AM   #8
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That phrase really packs a punch, I heard that whenever I did something wrong when I was younger, and it got me thinking.
I know! Right?! I always felt so bad..like I failed them or something. I know that wasn't there intention...to make me feel "sooo" bad, but it got us to do better and not go down certain paths.

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I know! Right?! I always felt so bad..like I failed them or something. I know that wasn't there intention...to make me feel "sooo" bad, but it got us to do better and not go down certain paths.
That's exactly how I felt when I got that message, I didn't want them to feel disappointed in me, so that motivated me to get better.

You know that a movie is bad when one or more actors apologise for participating in it.
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Old June 26th, 2019, 12:37 PM   #10
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In some ways its a no brainer question for me as i was beaten and other stuff and it was definitely abuse.
Definitely not going to go down that road with any kid of mine.
But i do have a friend who was spanked a few times when he was in primary school. His parents are really nice and they are a really kind caring family.
He says it was never done in anger. It was always explained why it was going to happen and when it was done they had a hug and it was all finished with. He reckoned it was fair and ok.
Maybe that way isnt so bad but not for me.
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Old June 26th, 2019, 01:06 PM   #11
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Corporal punishment isn't chlld abuse. It's bizarre people think the 2 are similar.
As a child corporal punishment made me respect my parents more instead of acting like a mean brat. I believe it's necessary and that people are simply mis informed about it.
There are better ways than violence to stop kids being mean brats. I will never respect people more if they use violence against me. No f**** way.
Use word and common sense.
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Old June 26th, 2019, 03:57 PM   #12
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It's forbidden in my home country because it's obviously child abuse and proven to be more than physically damaging for kids. It's something my parents would never do even if it's allowed here I think.

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Old June 26th, 2019, 05:25 PM   #13
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Words don't always work. Sometimes people simply don't understand the consequences until they feel the consequences.
Then the words weren't good enough and connection was poor.
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When I was 13, I moved out of my mom's and in with my aunt and uncle. One of the biggest changes was that I faced paddlings at school, and spankings from my uncle. It only happened to me a few times, thank god. But there isn't a month that goes by without one of my cousins getting spanked. I feel bad for them, but it just seems to be normal here. If the spankings were really working wouldn't they be less often? What do ya'll think?
My dad gives me the belt. i use to get it when i was younger and when i was around 13 he didn't do it so much and started grounding me instead but in the past few months he's started using the belt again. personally i don't think it really works on me much, its never changed my behaviour but then being grounded never has either. after a while if you get spanked a lot you kind of get used to it too
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I don't think physical violence is an acceptable form of discipline. There's a reason most developed countries consider it abuse.
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Old June 28th, 2019, 04:10 PM   #16
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Tell them you’re Sergeant Punishment and fight back!
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Old June 28th, 2019, 08:37 PM   #17
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I agree completely. My younger brothers and I are also spanked. At least once a month 1 or all of us have been spanked

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Old June 28th, 2019, 09:00 PM   #18
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I agree completely. My younger brothers and I are also spanked. At least once a month 1 or all of us have been spanked
For doing what?
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I agree completely. My younger brothers and I are also spanked. At least once a month 1 or all of us have been spanked
That would be more than enough to call the police over here.

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Old June 28th, 2019, 09:15 PM   #20
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For doing what?
Missing curfew, having to be reminded too many times to do chores, talking back, me and my brothers getting into arguments, parents say to stop and we donít

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