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Old October 15th, 2006, 09:24 PM   #1
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i never post in here so i find this sort of awkward.

my bf and i have been together for almost seven and a half months and still not had sex. neither of us are virgins. well, i told him i was ready to with him and he is ready, too. i am afraid to have sex again though. the last time i did i almost ended up pregnant because we ran out of protection. i do not know why i am even posting this but maybe i need to let it go.

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Old October 16th, 2006, 06:43 AM   #2
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i do not know though. he [my bf] told me he does not even use protection. and right now i am not on bc. was at one point, not now.

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Old October 16th, 2006, 07:10 AM   #3
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if he doesn't use protection, force him to do it... tell him, "not protection, no sex"... its about YOU, and YOU are the one getting pregnant... if he wanted, he could leave you an hour after you told him you were pregnant...

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Old October 16th, 2006, 04:03 PM   #4
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that does sound like something he would typically do because he does not want kids. i told him he is going to but who knows if he will listen to me.

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Old October 18th, 2006, 12:11 AM   #5
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a gut cannot really resist, but i mean you love each other, if he was a good bf he would wear protection and respect you...but u c here is the downfall part, if he doesnt and refuses to, there is a problem, becuz that could be the thing that breaks u2 up. if he refuses u should just w8 til u have sex with him til ur older.
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Old October 18th, 2006, 01:26 PM   #6
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Just make sure you get a few, make sure they are decent ones aswell, and just ask him to wear protection and he wil if he respects you. Just remember when it comes to sex its about YOU. Just stay protected and have fun
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Old October 18th, 2006, 04:42 PM   #7
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funny how we approve actions like this in our teen years. make sure to get some spermicide, its an injection that kills most of the sperm down there but it does not prevent you from getting pregnant if he does not use protection.
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Old October 18th, 2006, 09:10 PM   #8
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i have decided i may not. i mean him and i have a lot of problems right now and i am really scared.

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Old October 20th, 2006, 04:43 PM   #9
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just tell him that ur the one that will get fat and if he doesn't use protection dump him!
 
Old October 20th, 2006, 06:22 PM   #10
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i have decided i may not. i mean him and i have a lot of problems right now and i am really scared.
Hey ash
Well, first of all I wouldn't even do it until these "problems" are solved. DON'T do it if you're scared or have doubts (that's a sign of NOT being ready). Just because you've had sex before doesn't mean that you were/are going to be ready for it again. DON'T do it if he refuses to wear protection, for obvious reasons, and if I were you I would get on bc again before you even thought about it, and remember the pill takes a month to be considered effective. You know better than most that a baby is definately not one of those things that "can't happen to me" so don't take it lightly. I wish ya'll both the best of luck
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Old October 20th, 2006, 08:41 PM   #11
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oh my gosh nykole! i have been wondering where you were. but anyways.

i am going to wait. i mean, yeah, i did it before but there are too many problems right now and i do not want to hear "ok we are done now bye we are through" from him. it just seems like something that would happen

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Old November 15th, 2006, 07:40 PM   #12
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i never post in here so i find this sort of awkward.

my bf and i have been together for almost seven and a half months and still not had sex. neither of us are virgins. well, i told him i was ready to with him and he is ready, too. i am afraid to have sex again though. the last time i did i almost ended up pregnant because we ran out of protection. i do not know why i am even posting this but maybe i need to let it go.
Use protection, just buy some urself .....just to be safe
 
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Make sure you have protection and your comfortable. Other then that your fine hun.
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Old April 23rd, 2010, 11:16 PM   #14
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Please do not bump old threads. This is over three years old.
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