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Old October 21st, 2018, 01:39 PM   #21
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For me, I gave my BF my virginity when we first had penis in vagina sex. Mutual masturbation and my giving him a blowjob didn't count for me as having given up my virginity nor was his going down on me. Those things were just intimate ways of expressing our love, exploring our sexuality and sharing with each other. Once he broke my hymen with his penis, I was no longer a virgin. That's my humble opinion.
I agree...very good way of putting it
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Old October 21st, 2018, 02:15 PM   #22
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I agree with AshleighB. (Great name by the way ) Losing your virginity is something very important....for both the boy girl. So I hope for everyone it's something they want to do with a person they really like..love and trust. I hope it's never done out of pressure or under the influence of something that would make you are them have regrets.
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Old October 22nd, 2018, 12:36 PM   #23
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I have been a virgin 5 or 6 times
How is that possible?
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Old October 22nd, 2018, 12:58 PM   #24
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I told guys I was a virgin when I was younger. If they asked I just said yes.
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Old October 22nd, 2018, 05:55 PM   #25
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I kind of wish I wasnt a virgin.. Do girls like guys who are virgins??
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Either a girl likes a guy or she doesn't. The guy being a virgin or not is not an issue.
Well, if it is an issue for the girl, run away from her. She's not worth it.
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Old October 22nd, 2018, 06:30 PM   #26
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I told guys I was a virgin when I was younger. If they asked I just said yes.
Wow, this leads to a LOT of questions...You're only 15 so, if you don't mind me asking, when did you lose your virginity? Also, it was obvious to both my BF and me when I gave up my virginity so, to the guys that followed and asked you if you were a virgin or not, wasn't it obvious to them that you weren't? Not judging, just asking. Didn't it bother you to lie to the other guys though?

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Old October 22nd, 2018, 06:43 PM   #27
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With my life I would not like to say a lot but I was young and it was one reason the state put me in a group home in FL. Later if a guy asked I said I was and they really did not care. I don't want to sound rude. Thanks for asking.
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Old October 23rd, 2018, 09:49 AM   #28
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I think the first time people have sex should be when they are married. But I know not everyone thinks that, and I don't think people aware not pure or something if they have sex before they are married. It's just my own belief for me.
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Old October 23rd, 2018, 10:52 AM   #29
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I think the first time people have sex should be when they are married. But I know not everyone thinks that, and I don't think people aware not pure or something if they have sex before they are married. It's just my own belief for me.
That's a very valid reason for staying a virgin. I know that some religions, and some parents, believe that vaginal intercourse should be very limited as far as how many different people you do it with and that it's most appropriate place is within a lifetime committed relationship.

My mom has a slightly modified version of that line of reasoning, wanting us girls not to have vaginal intercourse until we are 19, and preferably saved for the partner we choose to be with in a long term commitment or limited to very few partners while getting to that point. But she's OK with and encourages us to explore all the other sexual possibilities with multiple partners of both genders, in order to determine our sexuality and orientation.
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Old October 24th, 2018, 09:39 PM   #30
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Iím still a virgin and itís not that I want to stay ďpureĒ or anything, itís just that my last bf kept pressuring me to have sex and I realized he was definitely not someone I wanted to have sex with, other than him, I havenít had a whole lot of opportunities. Iíll just wait until it happens
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Old October 24th, 2018, 10:36 PM   #31
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Iím still a virgin and itís not that I want to stay ďpureĒ or anything, itís just that my last bf kept pressuring me to have sex and I realized he was definitely not someone I wanted to have sex with, other than him, I havenít had a whole lot of opportunities. Iíll just wait until it happens
Smart move. It's obvious that he wasn't interested in you as a person, and that's definitely not the way to kiss your V-card goodbye.

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Old December 20th, 2018, 04:43 PM   #32
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i think it is made a big deal by others. a friend of mine (14) has already had sex but the rest of us has not. a few of my friends are really stressing about it. i try not to but sometimes i do too. i honestly don't think i'm ready for it. i wouldn't say no if a girl wants to but probably more so to tell my friends i did than for myself.
so i wish it were not a big deal but at least among my friends it is
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Old December 20th, 2018, 06:40 PM   #33
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I agree. Virginity is so overrated. And the thing about purity is a load of crap
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Old December 31st, 2018, 02:39 AM   #34
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Yeah I mean I don't think it is exactly a HUGE deal, but I guess its up to the individual how important it is to them... For me is was kinda like hitting a milestone as far as growing up, kinda like another step towards becoming an adult, like getting my drivers license and graduating high school... So yeah I mean I was pretty excited afterwards but at the end of the day, it doesn't actually change anything about me.
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Old January 1st, 2019, 10:06 AM   #35
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I agree. Virginity is so overrated. And the thing about purity is a load of crap
I agree
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Old January 2nd, 2019, 01:24 PM   #36
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Not very important to me. I loose it when I loose it, that's it.
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Old January 2nd, 2019, 06:00 PM   #37
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I lost mine but I still have the box it came in
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