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Old October 19th, 2017, 08:26 AM   #41
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Any updates on the situation?
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Old October 21st, 2017, 04:17 AM   #42
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Well I think I'm being a bit obsessed with him, cuz I'm just starting to feel jealous when he's around other boys (his age). For some reason I just can't stand other boys around him, but I think I shouldn't feel so because its selfish of me.

So I got to know him more, and he said that he always wanted a younger brother and that I can do that role. He told me that he loves me and I said that I love him. I'm beginning to feel that he's not interested in me the way I am.
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Old October 21st, 2017, 01:57 PM   #43
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Well I think I'm being a bit obsessed with him, cuz I'm just starting to feel jealous when he's around other boys (his age). For some reason I just can't stand other boys around him, but I think I shouldn't feel so because its selfish of me.

So I got to know him more, and he said that he always wanted a younger brother and that I can do that role. He told me that he loves me and I said that I love him. I'm beginning to feel that he's not interested in me the way I am.
In my opinion it'll be for the good if he's not interest in you just because of sexual reasons, because then it would mean that he thinks of you as a little brother and would stick beside you regardless of whether you're in a relationship with him or not.

Hear me out: if he's interested in you for pure sexual reasons, then the moment you stop giving him that pleasure, he'll abandon you. However, if his love for you is brotherly, then he'll stick beside you no matter what, your problems will be his, he'll share your pain, your pleasures, etc. So, if he says that he loves you like a brother, then relish in the thought that you'd have his support for quite a while. But again, that's my opinion.

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Old October 21st, 2017, 09:11 PM   #44
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I would just focus on being good friends for the time being.
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Old October 22nd, 2017, 03:21 PM   #45
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Well I think I'm being a bit obsessed with him, cuz I'm just starting to feel jealous when he's around other boys (his age). For some reason I just can't stand other boys around him, but I think I shouldn't feel so because its selfish of me.

So I got to know him more, and he said that he always wanted a younger brother and that I can do that role. He told me that he loves me and I said that I love him. I'm beginning to feel that he's not interested in me the way I am.
Well that is a part of life. There are going to be people you are interested in that way who are not going to have the same feelings and there are going to be people who are interested in you that won't have those same feelings. I still think with the age gap it is better if he looked at you more as a little brother and not as a sexual partner and not just because of the obvious legal reasons. Be happy he wants to be your friend and like a brother to you. Now you can choose if you can still be around him or not because of the feelings you have, that is a decision you have to make.

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Old October 22nd, 2017, 04:06 PM   #46
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Im sure you heard the parable if you love something set it free right?

Bro I so get what your Dani g and feeling in every way. Been there

BUT, listen to what hes saying, and take those words as face value. At least for now. In my opinion, your crushing on him bad, and he is you to, but he also knows what his little head is saying is illegal.

So dont set him up, cause if it goes south hes got everything to lose. And if you really love him, you need to consider that. Even when you kiss him and he gets hard, its harder than you think, and because he didnt push you away could have so many legal implications against him. Even if you advanced on him. Hes considered the adult, and you the child. At least for now.

So enjoy his company, friendship, brotherly love and guidance and get to know him. Your love for each other may drift apart,closer, or stronger, in many different ways, so just let nature take its course, and when that time comes, itll be cool.
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Old October 25th, 2017, 05:30 AM   #47
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Well, he told me that I can consider it a relationship (unofficially) between us if I don't go around telling everyone that I have a boyfriend. He said to me that he may have a few friends but I'll be equal to his brother and he'll make me his priority.

I don't plan on staying away from him cuz he's really resourceful and intelligent, so I only need to control my emotions on him probably, but God it'll be weird to have my crush hang around me and also know what I feel.

Anyways, my mom and his seem to be friends because my mom asked him to help me not feel lonely and also help me in my studies and he agreed.
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Old November 19th, 2017, 10:21 AM   #48
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Anything happen recently?
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Old November 22nd, 2017, 07:48 AM   #49
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Anything happen recently?
Well.... it all seems fine for now but I'm having problems controlling myself.
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Old November 23rd, 2017, 02:47 AM   #50
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Well.... it all seems fine for now but I'm having problems controlling myself.
In what way?
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Old Yesterday, 12:13 PM   #51
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In what way?
You know..... having problem trying not to get laid with him.
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You know..... having problem trying not to get laid with him.
I'm sure you'll be fine. Just be careful.
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