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View Poll Results: Will You Abstain Till You Are Married?
Absolutley YES 9 16.67%
Absolutley NO 24 44.44%
Not Sure 21 38.89%
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Old January 3rd, 2005, 04:53 PM   #1
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in the bible it says that only married man and woman should have sex and only in the missionary position. so what happens to all of us that have sex outside marriage, in the wrong position or with the same sex? do we all go to hell....
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Old January 3rd, 2005, 05:17 PM   #2
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wat he ^ said...

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Old January 3rd, 2005, 05:22 PM   #3
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so i presume that you both are not hardcore christians are just not christians

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Old January 3rd, 2005, 05:24 PM   #4
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oh so you dont believe in an afterlife then

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Old January 3rd, 2005, 05:29 PM   #5
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suppose your right then. i think there is alot wrong with the chursch however even if i think of turning my back on it i feel like i dammed for eternity

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Old January 3rd, 2005, 08:35 PM   #6
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Atheist here....but that aside, I'm not going to marry somenoe before I have sex with them unless they are absolutly against it. I feel you need to be sexually attracted to someone as well as otherwise before you marry.

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Old January 3rd, 2005, 10:26 PM   #7
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im jewish, but w/e... sex b4 marrage.... whats the big deal.... its only an action causing no harm....

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Old January 3rd, 2005, 11:33 PM   #8
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Screw the bible.
Umm Thomas, I am a Christian, and you saying screw the Bible kind of offends me.

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Old January 4th, 2005, 12:08 AM   #9
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its ok. It just bothers me thats all, but its all good

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Old January 4th, 2005, 04:25 AM   #10
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Well the way I see it sex is an extremly important part of a relationship right? I saw this on The Ozbournes once Sharron wants Jack to have sex befor he gets married she dosn't agree that you should have to wait till you get married then she gave a really good reason as to why; wouldn't you wanna know what your partner is like in bed befor getting married, they might be into somthing your not like dominatrix or vice versa (she went into more detail but I'm gettin an eye ache and the screens startin ta bug me). So ya I wanna have sex with my gf befor getting married definatly!......To be honest I don't really even see the point in marrige, I'm not religous, all getting married really is, is a little metal band around your finger.....I mean....Who cares.

As far a positions I won't stick to just missionary, that's unfair to both you and your partner, either or both of you might much prefur a diffrent one, you only live once, it's your life, live it by your own code not by a book.

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Old January 4th, 2005, 05:16 AM   #11
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you said it.

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Old January 4th, 2005, 06:21 AM   #12
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in the bible it says that only married man and woman should have sex and only in the missionary position. so what happens to all of us that have sex outside marriage, in the wrong position or with the same sex? do we all go to hell....
I don't think its anyone's place to tell anyone else what they should or should not do. Religion is and should be a deeply personal and private issue.

If one person is a committed Christian, then they should feel free to follow what they believe in. However, they should not impose their views on others. The reverse is also true.

I'm an atheist. I don't believe in an afterlife either. But I don't go preaching to others what I think of the Bible or Christianity. You are more than welcome to have your own faith, and what religion you are has absolutely nothing to do with me. I have no right whatsoever to dictate to you what you can and can't believe. Just as long as you return the favour to me.

If you, as a Christian, don't follow the word of the Bible, then it is not the end of the world. Remember that many Christian scholars have different interpretations on what the Bible says. Some bits of it are totally brutal... read the book of Exodus, for example. The Bible is not clear cut on most issues; some people still aren't happy about there being women priests. And that gay bishop in New Hampshire? How can some Christians say this is allowed in the Bible and others disagree?

The answer is as I said: the Bible is not clear cut.

Only you can decide whether you will be punished or not. Whatever way you decide, then everyone should fully respect your right to choose that way, since it is none of their business.
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Old January 4th, 2005, 07:26 PM   #13
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Lol, I was Atheist, then I discovered that I AM God! Hahahaha!

No but seriously, screw the bible. Its a fake and made up stories for the most part. I follow my own ideals and beliefs and don't generally believe in God babble and junk.

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Old January 5th, 2005, 11:44 AM   #14
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I don't believe in one night stands, but if a guy and a girl who aren't married hav bin goin out a while, love each and want 2 then y shouldn't they? (btw i have no religion but I believe in god but i dnt like him, i think he's a sadistic murderer e.g. the tsunami in asia)
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Old January 14th, 2005, 06:40 PM   #15
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Old January 14th, 2005, 11:21 PM   #16
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Someone roman got bored and wrote a kids book and some wanker liked it rewrote it longer and called it the bible and that my children is the birth of christianity

Like someone said before,..to christians,..like me thats offenseive,..not only am i offended i'm pissed off.I believe in having your own opinion but to come on here and put down someone elses religion is completely wrong.If i were to bash atheisest i would be called the lowest scum.Keep this in concideration please.
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Old January 14th, 2005, 11:52 PM   #17
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i agree with you a 100%

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Old January 15th, 2005, 12:20 AM   #18
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Old January 15th, 2005, 01:22 PM   #19
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I don't believe in one night stands, but if a guy and a girl who aren't married hav bin goin out a while, love each and want 2 then y shouldn't they? (btw i have no religion but I believe in god but i dnt like him, i think he's a sadistic murderer e.g. the tsunami in asia)
That's what I though. If he can part the red sea, why can't he stop a tsunami. Anyway, I'm a (sort of ) christian, but I don't exactly obey the rules. For one thing, I find it very hard to beleive that god spoke to moses, and I think alot of the old testament is utter crap (no offense to any Jewish people). Aaaaaanyway... I see no problem with sex before marriage, plus I think only the catholic church is against it.

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Old January 15th, 2005, 02:46 PM   #20
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Screw the bible.
yea the bible says somthing in it about a farther sleeping with thier daughter the night before maridge
so i wouldnt take wat it says as the gospel truth

sweet dreams are made of these
who am i to disagree?
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