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Old December 30th, 2018, 12:25 AM   #41
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Bro with his gf, his friend on me
I take it they had more of an issue with you than your bro?

were you doing it in the same room?

do they know your brother did you first?
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Old December 30th, 2018, 12:28 AM   #42
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Thanks its just too much to deal with but people here have really helped
Im here for you anytime and anything you need you deserve better what he did was wrong and if I were him Id be ashamed of myself.
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Old December 30th, 2018, 03:00 AM   #43
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I did
It kind of blew up in a big way with parents catching etc
Did you tell parents or did they actually catch the 4 of you together?
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Old December 30th, 2018, 08:56 AM   #44
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Did you tell parents or did they actually catch the 4 of you together?
They caught us and saw what he was doing to me and it kind of exploded and mom took me away from it
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Old December 30th, 2018, 11:46 AM   #45
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They caught us and saw what he was doing to me and it kind of exploded and mom took me away from it
Do U now feel better that Ur mum got U out of that situation?
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Old December 30th, 2018, 04:58 PM   #46
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Do U now feel better that Ur mum got U out of that situation?
Definitely, both of my parents
It just got real ugly after
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Old December 30th, 2018, 05:02 PM   #47
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Definitely, both of my parents
It just got real ugly after
I hope things are getting better, and a better new year for U.
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Old December 30th, 2018, 05:04 PM   #48
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Thanks you too <3
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Old December 30th, 2018, 05:11 PM   #49
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They caught us and saw what he was doing to me and it kind of exploded and mom took me away from it
Oh dang that wouldve been interesting, at least youre out of that situation now
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Old December 30th, 2018, 05:15 PM   #50
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Oh dang that wouldve been interesting, at least youre out of that situation now
Yeah I was a literal mess (stuff on me and tears) and she pulled me away and dad was (verbally) ripping the others a new one and chased the boy out of the house, he ran to his car holding his clothes still nude and raced off
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Old December 30th, 2018, 05:20 PM   #51
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Yeah I was a literal mess (stuff on me and tears) and she pulled me away and dad was (verbally) ripping the others a new one and chased the boy out of the house, he ran to his car holding his clothes still nude and raced off
I dont know how old he was but even for your brother and his gf they shouldve known thats not what you wanted, its just not okay, and it sounds really bad the way he was treating you, im glad you were caught, it saved you from being stuck in that horrible position
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Old December 30th, 2018, 05:26 PM   #52
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I dont know how old he was but even for your brother and his gf they shouldve known thats not what you wanted, its just not okay, and it sounds really bad the way he was treating you, im glad you were caught, it saved you from being stuck in that horrible position
It did save me yes
My bro and his friend are almost 18, my bros gf is almost 16
It was different at first
It was exciting and sexy and he made me feel special and was gentle
But by the end I felt like a toy
He didnt have feelings for me, i was easily duped because I was so naive
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Old December 30th, 2018, 05:34 PM   #53
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It did save me yes
My bro and his friend are almost 18, my bros gf is almost 16
It was different at first
It was exciting and sexy and he made me feel special and was gentle
But by the end I felt like a toy
He didnt have feelings for me, i was easily duped because I was so naive
I find when you first start doing things its always exciting and you get really caught up in it, im not sure why he changed and started using you like a toy, i guess that just says something abput who he is, at least you now know that people arent always what they seem to be, i still cant get over him using you, it drives me crazy knowing that this happens to people, like he should go and find someone he likes, not abuse someone who is 5 years younger, (side note, hopefully i can get to 100 posts soon so that we could talk more privately cause its a touchy subject)
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Old December 30th, 2018, 05:41 PM   #54
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I find when you first start doing things its always exciting and you get really caught up in it, im not sure why he changed and started using you like a toy, i guess that just says something abput who he is, at least you now know that people arent always what they seem to be, i still cant get over him using you, it drives me crazy knowing that this happens to people, like he should go and find someone he likes, not abuse someone who is 5 years younger, (side note, hopefully i can get to 100 posts soon so that we could talk more privately cause its a touchy subject)
Id be happy to PM you when you hit 100
You can get there really quick by answering lots of polls etc
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Old December 30th, 2018, 08:37 PM   #55
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I find when you first start doing things its always exciting and you get really caught up in it, im not sure why he changed and started using you like a toy, i guess that just says something abput who he is, at least you now know that people arent always what they seem to be, i still cant get over him using you, it drives me crazy knowing that this happens to people, like he should go and find someone he likes, not abuse someone who is 5 years younger, (side note, hopefully i can get to 100 posts soon so that we could talk more privately cause its a touchy subject)
Same here because you deserve better. Why boys and men cant treat us better idk we are not sex toys or sex slaves we are people to we also have feelings. If you want a sex you go buy your self a sex doll.
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Old December 30th, 2018, 09:02 PM   #56
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Definitely, both of my parents
It just got real ugly after
What did your parents say to your brother? were they aware he put you up to it?
Were they aware of your involvement with him?

How did they take you away from it.

You did get duped, but not because you're stupid, but bec you're 13 and they're 18.
I'm more concerned that your brother is predatory, than I am of the boy you got caught with.
It's not uncommon for people to take advantage of others to get what they want. It is uncommon, and terrible for a sibling to use a younger sibling the way your brother did, both sexually and him hooking you up with his friend.

Is the situation safer for you now?
I hope it is.
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Old December 30th, 2018, 10:07 PM   #57
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Id be happy to PM you when you hit 100
You can get there really quick by answering lots of polls etc
I noticed but im not on here all the time and sometimes i have no comment on peoples' posts
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Old December 31st, 2018, 08:55 AM   #58
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I noticed but im not on here all the time and sometimes i have no comment on peoples' posts
There are plenty of sections on the forums, so you can reach 100 quickly (but hey, no spamming lol)
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Old January 4th, 2019, 07:49 PM   #59
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I'm not sure where you're located but in pretty much all states sex with anyone under 16 at the very least is illegal. Not only that, but he would be trying to play with your emotions by telling you "you're not cool enough to hang with them". You would be the better person by telling him to get lost.
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Old January 6th, 2019, 12:37 PM   #60
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That would be classified as Child Sexual Exploitation. The mark, or girl, would be baited into giving permission for sex and the man would gradually get into the girl's mind. Slowly but surely making her trust him and other friends of his. When actually, it may just be human trafficking or even worse. CSE Cease foundation helps with this.
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