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Old March 30th, 2018, 05:05 PM   #21
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On a bus, I've not slept on someone's lap. Like, we'd rest on eachothers shoulders but that's to keep your head up. I wouldn't see a problem with it personally. I'd maybe make a joke to show I don't care, or to just be funny.
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Old March 30th, 2018, 05:08 PM   #22
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If you guys are close friends and it was non-sexual, then, IMHO, there is nothing wrong or gay about falling asleep on your friend, as long as he didn't object. How would you have felt if he would have fallen asleep on your lap or shoulder?
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Old April 1st, 2018, 04:21 PM   #23
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If your'e close enough with your friends to sleep on his lap then its not a problem. It has nothing to do with being gay but being tired. You both might be a little on the bi side because of how it looks but thats ok too
Just how it looks? I mean I really was just tired and wanted to sleep, and its easier to fall asleep on someone then to sleep on the bus all crunched up. I just didn't really understand why everyone took pictures, since it was just sleeping, I get it looked kinda weird but still it isn't really that weird. Maybe it was because it was "cute" than really gay/bi and I just misinterpreted them taking pictures?
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Old April 1st, 2018, 08:59 PM   #24
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Yeah, don't worry about it. Whenever guys show any kind of physical contact or affection, people magically think that they're gay. One of my best friends is a straight guy, and we hug a lot (he has a girlfriend) and people assume that we're a gay couple, but there's nothing sexual about our good friendship.

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Old April 2nd, 2018, 03:53 PM   #25
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Does not mean anything at all. I have never slept on any friend but I have shared a bed with them many times and I think I am straight.
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Old April 8th, 2018, 08:20 AM   #26
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I have slept with my cousin in a bed, not on his lap, but there is nothing wrong with that. If it doesn't advance to intercourse, it's not gay, even if it does, there's nothing wrong with being gay.

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Old April 8th, 2018, 08:25 AM   #27
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in my sports days I have seen many straight guys fall asleep on each other and there was nothing sexual about it or it being anything like gay, they were just that comfortable with each other to do that -- and probably tired as hell.

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Old April 14th, 2018, 04:10 PM   #28
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Is what you did gay?....absolutely NO...you are comfortable enough with your friend to be that close...I've had boys do that with me where we were on the couch and he fell asleep and lay down on my lap or my shoulder ....Yes I'm gay, but they were straight and didn't think anything of it....so relax...

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Old June 24th, 2018, 12:21 AM   #29
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I agree. I've seen my brother and his friends fall asleep on each other on the couch.
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Old July 2nd, 2018, 04:45 AM   #30
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It's totally normal. I've done it many times, then again I am curious but my brother has too and he is totally straight !
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Old July 13th, 2018, 12:21 PM   #31
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I've gotten quite touchy with some close friends before, and I think it's fine as long as both of you are ok with it
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Old July 13th, 2018, 07:20 PM   #32
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He was fine with it, but I was just confused because everyone was taking pictures on the bus. Which was odd to me because I didn't really see anything wrong with it.
No it is not gay at all. It just means you were tired and your friends lap was comfortable.

Guys just like to tease each other a little bit, it is usually harmless, so long as it hasn't increased to harassment and bullying.

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Do you get a boner? If yes, then yes.
Guys get boners all the time for any reason and frequently for no reason. Getting a boner while your head is resting on another guy does not mean someone is gay.

One of the buses I road in middle school would always vibrate when the brakes were applied. I would get a boner every morning on the way to school. Just because I got a bone on the bus does not mean I was sexually attracted to the bus.

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Old July 13th, 2018, 07:33 PM   #33
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Guys get boners all the time for any reason and frequently for no reason. Getting a boner while your head is resting on another guy does not mean someone is gay.

One of the buses I road in middle school would always vibrate when the brakes were applied. I would get a boner every morning on the way to school. Just because I got a bone on the bus does not mean I was sexually attracted to the bus.
nothing wrong with autophilia.
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