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Old March 1st, 2016, 02:55 AM   #1221
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I don't know my sexuality yet, but I'll tell you what happened to make me curious. So, about five years ago, I was about 13 at the time. My mom had a boyfriend who had 3 sons, a pair of twins, who I'll call J&J, who were each 12, and a 14 year old, who I'll call Trent. Anyway, whenever they came over, J&J would share our guest room, and Trent would share my room with me. So one night, we settled into bed, my head at the head of the bed, Trent's head at the foot of the bed. I figure I was probably wearing pajama bottoms or just underwear. Things get a little blurry, but soon, I found myself awake, and to the best of my knowledge, Trent was asleep. I noticed he was hogging the covers, so I kinda pulled them towards me and it happens. The covers pulled back and I saw that he was naked from the waste down. He was uncircumcised and much bigger than I was. I touched it once or twice before trying to fall asleep, but not without a massive hard-on. I never brought it up to him, and he never mentioned it, so I guess he didn't know it happened. Ever since then, I've been curious about guys. I've never told this sorry to anyone before, so I hope you guys enjoyed.
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Old March 29th, 2016, 04:41 AM   #1222
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I had a crush on my best friend (who is still one of my best friends) who supported me no matter what. He helped me talk it out when I first admitted it to him- including giving me my first same-sex kiss to demonstrate whether I really liked it or not. As a result, he helped me a lot in determining where I was in my life and now, I'm bi/straight

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Old April 9th, 2016, 10:18 PM   #1223
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Did some mutual masturbation with another guy and realized how awesome it was... ha ha...

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Old April 9th, 2016, 10:58 PM   #1224
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I likes Zac Efron in High School Musical

I'm David. I am gay, 18 and from Utah.
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Old April 10th, 2016, 12:51 AM   #1225
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still deny it but I liked masturbating with guys haha and comparing

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Old April 13th, 2016, 01:21 AM   #1226
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Basically, I realized that I found guys attractive. At first I pushed the thought away, because I thought it was a phase, and I eventually came to accept it.

Oh, being a furry (aka furfag) also helped me realize this, as I quickly discovered that furry femboys are hawt <3.
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Old April 26th, 2016, 10:32 PM   #1227
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I always thought I was straight, until one day in 7th grade I saw myself checking out one of my friends and thinking she was really attractive, and then gradually I became romantically interested in her and ig that was the point for me.
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Old April 28th, 2016, 10:48 AM   #1228
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I'm straight but from what I get talking to people is they knew before they really got much into puberty, so that changed my opinion about whether it's their decision or were born that way.

My sister told me that at about age 10 she knew she was going to be attracted to boys but she was attracted to a couple of girls, too, and thought about doing something sexual with them. She said a lot of girls experimented on sleep overs in the 6th and 7th grades. I know that boys do, too. but it's much less accepted for boys to show any outward signs of affection than it is for girls. The pressure for boys not to be 'gay' is intense, especially around here.

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Old April 30th, 2016, 08:09 PM   #1229
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I actually found out that I was bi just today. I was scrolling through some videos and came across a homemade gay porn video, and I found that I was attracted to both boys and girls. I am still more attracted to girls, though, but I do like the thought of getting it on with my friend (he's a dude)
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Old May 1st, 2016, 01:33 AM   #1230
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I'm straight but from what I get talking to people is they knew before they really got much into puberty, so that changed my opinion about whether it's their decision or were born that way.

My sister told me that at about age 10 she knew she was going to be attracted to boys but she was attracted to a couple of girls, too, and thought about doing something sexual with them. She said a lot of girls experimented on sleep overs in the 6th and 7th grades. I know that boys do, too. but it's much less accepted for boys to show any outward signs of affection than it is for girls. The pressure for boys not to be 'gay' is intense, especially around here.
This. This is so true, I feel like everywhere the pressure to be "not gay" is intense. It fucking sucks, but whatever.

And I agree with the whole knowing before puberty thing, I knew pretty much from the start that I found guys attractive, and not girls as much. I didn't actually start accepting it or even being ok with it myself until a year after puberty started (I didn't even become fully comfortable with telling myself "Holy shit, I'm gay and it's ok" until about six months ago at most), but I pretty much always knew that I was different. Especially when on multiple occasions, all my friends are like "Look at that girl she is hot" and I would basically say "That's cool" and go back to my phone or whatever I was doing before. The reason it took me longer to actually become ok with it is because of the pressure that I feel society (at least in Alabama and the surrounding states) puts on everyone to be straight and straight only. I mean, I grew up being told about how I need to go to college first before marrying a woman and having kids, and that is one example I hear often that made me think for a while "I must marry a woman. I'm only going through phases". Anyway. I've gone on a rant for too long, but I have no other place to put my thoughts right now, so oh well.

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Old May 6th, 2016, 11:14 PM   #1231
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I think I knew when I was in junior high. I noticed boys as something I was infatuated with. I looked at their bodies. I didn't get it at first but I knew I was different. Another big clue was when I started beating off to gay porn. I said things about boys that made my friends wonder about me. I had to kind of censor myself. But I started to admit it to myself when I was 13 and came out to my bff. Now I'm totally good with it. I'm pretty much out but I don't make a big deal about it.
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Old May 8th, 2016, 06:07 PM   #1232
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When I found myself staring at other girls in the showers after PE class.
My thoughts got confirmed at a friends sleepover.

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Old June 5th, 2016, 05:24 PM   #1233
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I found out when I was in bed with a guy for a sleep over with my friends. I don't date this guy I just sleep with em. I think it's the same with a lot of guys... I mean aren't a lot of guys gay just to have sex with them?

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Old June 6th, 2016, 09:02 AM   #1234
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Ever since I started feeling sexual attraction towards anyone, I felt it for both genders. I remember thinking how strange it was (I still think it's strange not that I'm judging) to be only attracted to only boys or only girls. There's too much beauty out there to deny half of it.

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Old June 12th, 2016, 02:38 PM   #1235
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I always knew from a kid, this is embarrassing, but I used to fancy cartoon characters obviously when i was very young. But before you come out to anybody else you need to come out to yourself and that took me a long time.

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Old June 19th, 2016, 02:10 AM   #1236
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Well...sorta complicated, since I'm ace-flux. Though I guess I realized the allo part of my sexuality was gay at eleven really, since I was getting off to guys more often-eventually only-, though didn't accept it till like this past year.
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Old June 21st, 2016, 08:35 AM   #1237
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For me it was when I was 11 years old, I started noticing how I was always looking at boys and wondering about their penis and how it looked. Then when ever my friends would be talking about girls and their boobs and bodies and stuff, I would just say ya and not really care much. I knew then I was different than most boys. When I was 12 and started experimenting a bit with a friend I knew for sure, especially after I developed strong feelings for him. I am totally attracted to boys and have very little interest in girls at all. I recently came out to my parents as gay because I didn't want to be a liar and figured they knew anyway which turned out to be true.
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Old June 21st, 2016, 07:00 PM   #1238
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For me it was when I was 11 years old, I started noticing how I was always looking at boys and wondering about their penis and how it looked. Then when ever my friends would be talking about girls and their boobs and bodies and stuff, I would just say ya and not really care much. I knew then I was different than most boys. When I was 12 and started experimenting a bit with a friend I knew for sure, especially after I developed strong feelings for him. I am totally attracted to boys and have very little interest in girls at all. I recently came out to my parents as gay because I didn't want to be a liar and figured they knew anyway which turned out to be true.
This was how it worked for me, except it was girls too.

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Old June 28th, 2016, 09:22 PM   #1239
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To put it bluntly a boy locked lips unexpectedly with me and I liked it
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Old July 17th, 2016, 01:44 PM   #1240
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I am new here, and still curious actually I'm not sure if I am gay, or bi.
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