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Old August 10th, 2016, 10:27 AM   #21
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I know how hard this is...it took me quite some time to do it but I just can tell you the sooner you take action the better.
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Old August 10th, 2016, 11:06 AM   #22
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How can this happen!! How can a human be so mean to rape his sister whos 5 YEARS YOUNGER than him. God im so shocked.....i'm literaly speechless. What a mess this world has turned into. Just CALL the police yourself ASAP no need to wait for your parents, its hard, i feel for you but it has gone off limits. He needs to be thrown into prison for life.
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Old August 10th, 2016, 11:28 AM   #23
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There are many people here who know exactly how your feeling right now. Trust me on that, we're here to help the best we can, but in the end, it's guna be you who takes charge of this. It's so important, probably more than you can get your head around atm. You just need to do this, and not wait for the courage. That sounds like a horrible thing to say, but it's true...

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Old August 10th, 2016, 12:30 PM   #24
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He came up to me and apologized for what he did last night. He said it was wrong of him and he feels bad for it. I don't know if I should believe him or not
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Old August 10th, 2016, 12:34 PM   #25
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Biting dogs are always blood thirsty once they get that first taste
It's just not that simple, apology and forgiveness are really good things. But seems to me this won't stop. And if you don't do anything then he'll know it's an open door to continue as he pleases.....

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Old August 10th, 2016, 12:47 PM   #26
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You just cant settle everything with a sorry. Its not that simple. It wont undo the rape. It wont clear those tarumatic memories from your mind thatll haunt you forever. I may seem like a cruel heartless evil but in my eyes a person who rapes her younger sis is not to be forgiven. Just jt has put it nicely and i agree with him.
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Old August 10th, 2016, 01:52 PM   #27
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He came up to me and apologized for what he did last night. He said it was wrong of him and he feels bad for it. I don't know if I should believe him or not
You know sometime a sorry is just not enough.
There are some things that can't just go unpunished.
Just the idea to do something like that to a person let alone a sibling. Nobody in his right mind would do something like that and think it's okay with a sorry.

Tell your parents, go to the police and if your brother is really sorry he wil understand what he did wrong and will accept punishment for it.

You can forgive him if you feel like it but not let him off like that
This would simply be wrong.
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Old August 10th, 2016, 02:29 PM   #28
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I'll try and tell my parents tonight if I can get the courage
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Old August 10th, 2016, 02:45 PM   #29
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I'll try and tell my parents tonight if I can get the courage
You really have to...the longer you wait the worse it will get. I say that from experience.
They are your parents so you can do that, right?
Do you have to be alone in the house with your brother? Can you go somewhere to be safe from him?
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Old August 10th, 2016, 03:08 PM   #30
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I'll try and tell my parents tonight if I can get the courage

Zander @Peanut_ is right here. You have 2 members here now advising the same thing who both speak from experience. It's guna feel like the hardest thing you e ever done. Might even feel more painful than the assault itself emotionally. But like I said, take it from experience. Do the right thing. I promise you it'll get better.

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Old August 10th, 2016, 03:22 PM   #31
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You really have to...the longer you wait the worse it will get. I say that from experience.
They are your parents so you can do that, right?
Do you have to be alone in the house with your brother? Can you go somewhere to be safe from him?
Yes I'm alone with him but I feel pretty safe right now. I know I can tell my parents but for some reason I'm scared to
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Old August 10th, 2016, 08:51 PM   #32
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Yes I'm alone with him but I feel pretty safe right now. I know I can tell my parents but for some reason I'm scared to
Why are scared to tel them?
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Old August 10th, 2016, 09:45 PM   #33
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I don't know why. Every time I think about telling them I get this weird feeling/pain in my stomach and I cant get myself to do it
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Old August 10th, 2016, 10:21 PM   #34
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I don't know why. Every time I think about telling them I get this weird feeling/pain in my stomach and I cant get myself to do it
That's normal...it's not some everday thing you have to tell them after all but you really should do it as soon as possible.
You said your parents accept you the way you are and so please let them help you. As what your brother did is a crime and you can't just let him off or he could do it again to you and/or others.
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Old August 11th, 2016, 12:06 AM   #36
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I told them
And? How did it go.
It's good to had the courage...it took me days till I was able to tell someone and over a month to talk about it online. So you really can be proud you made this first step.

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My parents are going to file a police report in the morning
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My parents are going to file a police report in the morning
i hope everything goes well. Im really sorry that such a awful event happened to you.
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Old August 11th, 2016, 05:24 AM   #39
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Good job @zander, proud of you. Let us know how you made our and how your doing ok? We genuinely do care...

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It was hard having to tell the police exactly what happened. I felt like I was having to relive it again. But he's been arrested. Actually he pretty much turned himself in
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