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Old December 11th, 2012, 03:23 PM   #901
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Oh man, i still don't known.. I watch gay porn all the time, but sometimes i get horny from straight porn too. In real life i like boys as a physical thing, and girls are more emotional things.. Can you guys help me?
i am the exact same way, literally exact lol, and i identify as bisexual.
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Old December 12th, 2012, 11:43 PM   #902
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Back in 6th grade when I first saw a dick online in porn, and liked it. Thought I was just weird. 7th grade a guy friend used to touch me and turn me on. Now in 8th grade Im out to my best friend, and have a crush on the same guy friend. He's so cute tho :3
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Old December 15th, 2012, 09:55 PM   #903
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I loved a guy but I had sex with a girl so I was sexually gay.
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Old December 15th, 2012, 10:09 PM   #904
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I found out I was gay about 3 years ago when I noticed that I couldn't stop looking at other guys. At first I didn't think anything of it, but then I started to develop feelings for a close friend of mine. It wasn't just a sexual attraction either it was more of a need to be near him, a want for his affection, and a strive to get him to notice me more. By then I realized that my desires could only be fulfilled by other guys. Sappy, right?


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Old December 17th, 2012, 03:24 PM   #905
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it's something i have always known but to be honest i tried to deceive myself and pretend like that wasn't the case. i make a very good "straight" person. ha. i only accepted it literally a month ago.

The name is Dan and i'm 15. New to VT and new to being gay.

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Old December 25th, 2012, 04:20 AM   #906
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I guess I always knew I was gay. but, I came out when I was 13.
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Old December 25th, 2012, 05:32 AM   #907
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I started to like guys in second grade and realized it in fifth. Came out as a highschool freshman. Gay.
I think girls are cute just I don't find them attractive in the sexual perspective

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Old December 25th, 2012, 05:40 AM   #908
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16 is when I realised that I was bi and not just curious
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Old December 25th, 2012, 08:12 AM   #909
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I've started to fancy boys around 5th grade, and then 7th-8th grade I've been slowly accepting it, and now at 10th grade I'm pretty much stable right now, accepting that I'm bi I haven't come out though, only to some pretty close friends.


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Old December 27th, 2012, 03:18 AM   #910
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i figured it out one day when i saw my friend one day she has always been there and then one day she just idk caught my attention she was already out and proud and i guess i was interested we started flirting shortly after that. she was the first girl i ever kissed and im 100% sure im never going back. now im with my new gf been with her for almost 2 years now and it feels great.
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Old December 27th, 2012, 04:18 PM   #911
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In the beginnning, I would do everything I could to convince myself that I wasn't gay. I would ask girls out, act really manly(which was stupid xD), and try not to think those thoughts. But as I got older it hit me that I couldn't control my feelings. Once I was confident in my decision of being bi, I was scared to tell people. I kept it to myself thinking I'd change my mind. But one day, I was at a party, and I see this guy. He's really cute, so I go to talk to him, as a friend(so I could have some eyecandy( Next thing you know, we are in the bathroom... anyways thats when I knew it was who I was, I told people, and I felt much better about it.
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Old December 28th, 2012, 05:33 PM   #912
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i never understand questions like this. that's like asking me when did i first find out I wasn't a fish. or that i had brown eyes. it's not like there is program inside me that was just waiting to be activated at the right time. I have always had brown eyes but I wasn't always aware of it or always thinking about it. I have never been a fish but I when I was a little kid I never had a reason to wish I had gills or fins. when i was a little kid and thot a dick was just for peeing I never had a reason to think about who i wanted to have sex with but i knew who i "liked" and didn't like even if it never came up or was something I actively thought about. so it's not something i ever had to find out it's just something i always was and at different times in my life i discovered different ways that it was important. like who i do and don't have crushes on. and who i do and don't think of when i jerk off. but it's not like "at 10 years old i found out if i was gay or not" but more like "at 10 years old I had my first crush". idk if that makes any sense or not.

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Old December 30th, 2012, 07:12 AM   #913
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I figured out I wasn't straight when I fell for my friend that is a girl. She's like perfection, and I thought only boys could be put up on the pedestal she has maintained for 2 years now, but I has had other crushes sit with her, boys and transgenders... then I recently put it all together, I'm gender-blind.
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Old December 30th, 2012, 07:18 AM   #914
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Well, I'm 16 and im still so confused... I mean I see a guy thats hot and I just want to kiss his face off! (Not literally... that would despite..) but I also like them romantically and want to cuddle up to them and would love to be in a relationship with a guy! But!! I still get crushes on girls and I think women are so beautiful but I don't see them like im gonna get me some of that!.. I more fall in love with them and I cant imagine sleeping with the girls in my grade... I feel that if I slept with a girl id take their innocence:/ but with a guy it do it in a heart beat! Lots of guys ask chicks for pics and "chat em up" but I just cant bring myself to do it, it makes me feel like a horrible person but again if I see porn with chicks in it, it turns me on but usually not if there is a male who is dominant over her, but there can be exceptions.. so that is the description of my sexuality... what should we call it or does it already have a name?haha
Does anyone have similar feelings?
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Old January 7th, 2013, 12:27 AM   #915
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I always had a thing about my cousin. Me and him would hang out all the time. We'll we got to the curiosity stage and we were curious with each other ..later we started having sex now its the basic blowjob .but than I thought I still liked girls and thought some Guys are hot so decided I was bi
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Old January 8th, 2013, 12:16 AM   #916
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I remember I was at school one day. I looked over and there she was. So pretty, and always nice to me. She had the black hair and green eyes. She was soo beautiful.
I always watched her, and made she I did everything she wanted. Then I was on the phone one day and I told my best friend I was bi. Then about...2 days later I got my first girlfriend. <3 Ah.....those boobs. <3
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Old January 12th, 2013, 09:35 AM   #917
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I just came out this year. I have known for a very long time I was attracted to guys, I was to young to understand the terminology behind it. Now, at 16, my whole family knows, and so do my friends, idk how it happened, but hey, all of us are different in some way or another. I currently have a guy I am talking too, we started talking in December, I am looking forward to a relationship with him, and my parents actually approve which, is a miracle!!!!!
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Old January 21st, 2013, 01:35 PM   #918
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Honestly, for me there wasn't a definite day or time in which I woke up and figured out I was bi. For me it was something I always knew. People think that they need a definitive moment, like you have to kiss both sexes or be sexually explore yourself to find out but that wasn't for me. I always knew I would see girls as more than friends and also knew the same would be true for guys. I was always and still am attracted to both sexes. Anyway that was me but I guess it could be different for everyone.
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Old February 1st, 2013, 10:51 PM   #919
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This really cute cute guy who was in my class from reception, up to year 6. I always had a crush on him :/ sadly, the feelings weren't mutual.
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Old February 2nd, 2013, 11:34 PM   #920
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This really cute cute guy who was in my class from reception, up to year 6. I always had a crush on him :/ sadly, the feelings weren't mutual.
Ouch, I had the same problem but with girls over the years. Now I feel more bi-curious than anything.

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