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Old May 26th, 2019, 01:42 PM   #1
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7 years ago my mother passed away in a car bomb attack. She was the world to me, since my father separated and lived in a different country. Since im a single sibling, she was all i had except for a few friends.
It's still hard for me to accept the fact that she is gone and won't come back. Every day i cry tears, i feel horrible every single day because of this
I want to recover. i need to pull myself up
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Old May 26th, 2019, 01:53 PM   #2
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I don’t think anyone can truely recover from something as tragic as that.
If it’s an option, therapy might be just what u need. I would also suggest thinking about all the great memories u had with her. I wish I could be of more help

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Old May 26th, 2019, 02:06 PM   #3
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She must have been a remarkable woman and mother since it still hurt now 7 years later. Doesn't help your dad is away. I will suggest you spend more time with friends. I'm sure they can be of some comfort. Maybe they don't know how to approach this, but... Just spend time with them
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Old May 26th, 2019, 02:50 PM   #4
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In a way all deaths r tragic but u r
dealing with a lot more. After all these
years if it still bothers u to tears u need
to talk it over with someone who is trained
in what u r going through.
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Old May 26th, 2019, 03:25 PM   #5
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Sorry for your loss. yea can't expect to ever just get over something like that i imagine. Like others suggested, even after seven years and the pain still being so so very much, it could really be helpful to you to talk it out with a therapist if you can.

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Old May 26th, 2019, 03:36 PM   #6
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I am so sorry to hear this.
My mum died when i was little too. Maybe not quite as awful as for you in the way she died but maybe close to it. I dont like speaking about it much in detail as it still hurts so i.know how tough it is.
All i can say is maybe it will gradually get better. Tenagers are allowed to be emotional anyway so no shame in that.
Maybe find someone you trust to share feelings with and fund a good teacher or counsellor at school.
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Old May 26th, 2019, 07:13 PM   #7
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A few months ago we were told my Bio-Mom was found dead. After everything I went though with her I felt nothing but feeling good that she will never mess with me anymore.
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Old May 26th, 2019, 08:06 PM   #8
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Losing someone that close and that quickly in the horrible manner that you lost your mother is something I can't even imagine dealing with. I feel so bad for you and the hurt that you must feel has to be horrible even after all these years. I do suggest as other have said seeking therapy as it may help some of your pain. Try to remember the many great times you had with your mom in your life and all the times she made you smile over the years. my heart goes out to you.
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Old May 27th, 2019, 12:01 PM   #9
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Sorry for your loss
My dad is gone too but I don’t think they ever really leave us completely
She is with you
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Old June 9th, 2019, 03:40 PM   #10
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Well in 2009 my mum got murded by two loggers both have life inside. And my grandad sadly pass away 3th april 2019 I haven't cope with that at all I feel so sad and miss him so much.it was unexpected death dur to a chest infection he was 79.
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