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Old December 12th, 2006, 08:25 PM   #1
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okay i am just sooooo confused in every part of my life but...
i was in huge denial about my orientation...
but now i am starting to accept that i am gay
but no one in my life knows that i am
i really hate rejection and i dont want to lose friends
my best friend is against the whole homosexual stuff
and i dunno who to tell this to
major break-down here help!
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Old December 12th, 2006, 08:36 PM   #2
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Ugh. I hate homophobes, In my opinion...Just tell your bestfriend. If he is really your bestfriend then he wouldnt ditch you becuase your gay. And also, are you totally sure that your gay? What happened in your life that you were able to determine this?
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Old December 12th, 2006, 08:40 PM   #3
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kay whatever homophobic means... um
well i fell in love with a guy one time
and another guy today... and the fact that guys turn me on?
yeah but.. my best friend is a girl so...
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Old December 12th, 2006, 10:45 PM   #4
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You could very well just be curious right now. How old are you? Maybe it is just a stage. Many guys go through a stage where they are attracted to other guys and would like to "do stuff". Just don't make a choice quite yet. And about your friend, a lot of people think that it is wrong. I know that it isn't the best choice, but i am willing to except people. I am straight, but still struggle with the fact that sometimes i am attracted to other males. But i like girls more than guys, but i'm still curious. Just really think things over before you make a the final choice.

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Old December 13th, 2006, 04:45 AM   #5
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Your best friend will totally understand. Don't worry. Just tell her.
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Old December 13th, 2006, 07:07 AM   #6
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Homophobic means literally "Unconditional fear of gays." It's come to mean, however, "one who is against gays in all forms."

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Old December 13th, 2006, 07:27 AM   #7
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okay im goin to try to tell my friend...
thanks for the advices
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Old December 13th, 2006, 09:04 AM   #8
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Wow, you're seriously telling your friend? You're way better than me. I'm bisexual. I wouldn't know how to even bring up the whole bisexual/homosexual thing up. How can you do that?
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Old December 13th, 2006, 05:46 PM   #9
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I didn't think girls were big on being homophobic. Lots of straight guys are... but they have a reason to be homophobic ^^. Most straight guys would say they don't mind gays, as long as they don't hit on them. Girls don't have a reason to be. Maybe she had a moment where her boyfriend reverted to a cute boy and prefered him over her.
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Old December 13th, 2006, 07:43 PM   #10
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well mikey i um really havent told anyone yet...
um yeah im just stressin out here about it
grrr
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Old December 14th, 2006, 04:58 PM   #12
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id agree wit the whole waitin thing i mean im interested in doin things with guys but i love girls i jus would wait a tiny bit.
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Old December 15th, 2006, 07:48 PM   #13
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Well I'm bisexual and at first I was afraid to tell my best friend but I eventually told her and she was cool with it, she thinks it is so cute when I have a crush on a boy. But maybe it's also a factor that she's bi too. But if this girl really is your bestfriend she won't care. Homophobes just need to realize, we're here, we're queer, and we aren't going anywhere.
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