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Old August 3rd, 2018, 07:25 PM   #1
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Just a few random questions regarding non-straight people. My friend recently came out and goes to the same college as me, and has a very bad reaction. So was wondering your own experiences and thoughts on being Gay or Bi.

What’s your opinions on being Gay or Bi?

Is there anyone else here who is Gay or Bi?

Have you come out?

What’s your age / when did you come out?

Anything you want to add?

What was the reaction when you came out, if you did?

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Old August 3rd, 2018, 07:51 PM   #2
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Old August 4th, 2018, 05:18 PM   #3
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What’s your opinions on being Gay or Bi? I think it's great. You get to experience different sexual activity and greatly increase your opportunity to find a partner.

Is there anyone else here who is Gay or Bi? I call myself bi

Have you come out? Family and friends know my sexuality

What’s your age / when did you come out? I'm 16 but came out at 15

Anything you want to add? I just wish people could lead an open life without fear of being judged or worse.

What was the reaction when you came out, if you did? My parents said they already knew, I had already told my siblings and friends were cool too. But they didn't believe me and my bf until they made us make out lol.
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Old August 4th, 2018, 06:01 PM   #4
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What’s your opinions on being Gay or Bi? Well, it’s who I am. There’s no changing it anytime soon and as I haven’t really known any different I wouldn’t say it’s particularly advantageous or disadvantageous to my life in any way.

Is there anyone else here who is Gay or Bi? There’s quite a few people here who are a part of the LGBT community. A lot of them are a part of the VT LGBT group, which you can see here.

Have you come out? Partially. If I have any doubt that there could be a problem concerning my sexuality to someone I just won’t tell them. It doesn’t affect them anyway.

What’s your age / when did you come out? I guess I “came out” at 15.

Anything you want to add? I like the LGBT community a lot, but there can be a lot of discrimination against bi/pan people. I can’t believe I’ve actually been told I’m “not gay enough for the LGBT community” more than a couple of times. A lot of my gay and lesbian friends also gave me judgment when I went from dating a girl to dating a boy again (for example, “you’re better off being gay!”). Also, bi-erasure is a real thing. Just because I’m in a relationship with a straight male, and if I only date other straight males, it automatically doesn’t mean that I’m straight. *rant over*

What was the reaction when you came out, if you did? My friends were happy, and hugged me. My mums side of the family weren’t surprised, more so when they found out I’m not fully gay. When other people found out that I’m not just attracted to guys they tend to be a bit like “Oh really? I never would’ve thought that”. Not that it really matters anyway.

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Old August 13th, 2018, 12:48 PM   #5
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What’s your opinions on being Gay or Bi? We are who we are and there is no changing that. I am happy with myself and my life and wouldnt have it any other way.

Is there anyone else here who is Gay or Bi? Im gay

Have you come out? Yes

What’s your age / when did you come out? I am 18 now, but I came out when I was 10

Anything you want to add? We should all be able to live a life free of judgement and free to love who we want to love just like anyone else.

What was the reaction when you came out, if you did? My parents were very accepting and loving, but I did lose some friends over it, but I made a lot more because of it.

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Old August 13th, 2018, 10:28 PM   #6
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What’s your opinions on being Gay or Bi?
There's nothing wrong with it.

Is there anyone else here who is Gay or Bi?
Yeah, there are quite a few, myself included. Many people are quite open about it here as they can't be anywhere else.

Have you come out?
I've come out to 2 really close friends.

What’s your age / when did you come out?
I'm 17 and came out to them in the past year.

Anything you want to add?
Sexuality isn't a choice and there's no point in trying to change or deny yours.

What was the reaction when you came out, if you did?
One of my friends is bi, so it was no big deal to her, and the other was a bit taken aback at first but didn't judge me for it.

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Old August 14th, 2018, 07:28 PM   #7
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What’s your opinions on being Gay or Bi? It's just who I am, honestly I don't really put any value or thought into it other than that.

Is there anyone else here who is Gay or Bi? Yes I have lots of friends and family members who are gay/bisexual.

Have you come out? I would say no...I've never made or needed to make a big deal out of it. My mom said she already knew I was probably bi-curious when I told her. And anyone else who is important to me knows.

What’s your age / when did you come out? Again, I don't think I ever really "came out" - I grew into it, from early on...and just accepted who I was.

Anything you want to add? I think some people put way too much emphasis and emotion into their sexuality and/or gender. I know that might sound harsh, but just be who you want to be and leave it at that.

What was the reaction when you came out, if you did? n/a

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Old August 15th, 2018, 08:37 AM   #8
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I'm openly bisexual, and always have been. I date girls and boys, although I know for sure that I strongly prefer the girls I'm never ruling out the boys. My first dates were with other girls at about age 13. Being bisexual is perfect for me and I wouldn't want it any other way. Mom has always encouraged us to date both genders to learn more about ourselves and what we like.

I have to agree that far too much emphasis is being placed on sexuality in our society. Everyone should be free to date and form relationships with whoever they like, and the gender of their partner should never enter into that. I'm positive that sexuality is strongly genetically influenced, so each of us is who is open enough to accept those feelings will become the person we were programmed to be at birth.
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Old August 16th, 2018, 05:18 PM   #9
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What’s your opinions on being Gay or Bi?
Great! Just like any other sexual preference.

Is there anyone else here who is Gay or Bi?
Yes.

Have you come out?
No. It just evolved that way. I don't and didn't make a secret out of it.

Anything you want to add?
Be you.

What was the reaction when you came out, if you did?
Some people shrug when they understand, some others are surprised in whichever way, some people say that they already knew, most people just don't care.

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Old August 16th, 2018, 07:53 PM   #10
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What’s your opinions on being Gay or Bi? I don’t rlly understand what my thoughts are supposed to be. It’s the same with heterosexuals. You are who you are and you like who you like. Nothing wrong or bad about it

Is there anyone else here who is Gay or Bi? I’m bi! And there’s plenty of folks on VT who are part of the LGBTQ+ community as well

Have you come out? I’m pretty open about it, but I haven’t officially “come out”. All my friends and whoever has me on Snapchat knows... my brother knows too. My parents don’t (i don’t think) and I don’t really see me coming out to them officially. Idk, not something I would be really comfortable with

What’s your age / when did you come out? Im 17!

Anything you want to add? No shame and nothing wrong with being bi/gay/any other sexual orientation. Those who think it’s bad or insult you for it can literally come fight me in the back of a Denny’s at 3am

What was the reaction when you came out, if you did? Uh I haven’t come out to family, but whenever I’m asked by classmates if I’m gay/lesbian, I reply that I’m bi... typical reactions are “Oh, ok” or “oh, but u like girls though?” So, meh

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Old August 16th, 2018, 09:19 PM   #11
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What’s your opinions on being Gay or Bi?

I think both sexualities, or any sexuality is great. Sex is fantastic, and people should enjo6 it the best they can

Is there anyone else here who is Gay or Bi?

Ive said I’m Bi and gay tbh I’m really not sure anymore. I just go with what I feel is good for me

Have you come out?

Yes

What’s your age / when did you come out?

I guess 14

Anything you want to add?

What was the reaction when you came out, if you did?

I was “caught in the act” so to speak. So later on I was asked why I didn’t say anything.
I replied with “why didn’t you ask”

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Old August 17th, 2018, 02:29 AM   #12
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What’s your opinions on being Gay or Bi? It's normal.

Is there anyone else here who is Gay or Bi? I am!

Have you come out? No.

What’s your age / when did you come out?

Anything you want to add? Not really, just don't be ashamed of who you are, and if that identity changes as you mature, it's still valid. You don't have to be [INSERT LABLE HERE] for your entire life.

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