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Old June 8th, 2018, 03:47 AM   #1
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The previous thread ďexperimentingĒ was locked because it was bumped.
It had 138 comments, of which 18 in the last two days.


Experimenting between family members is a fact of life and especially teens seem to struggle with the yes or no or maybe-if questions about it.

That is why I started this new thread with a reference link to the previous one, so we all can look/read back the previous comments and continue this discussion.

Opinions on this differ, for some it is a clear NO, for some others it is Yes-but only with same gender or only with same age cousins and others find it no problem.

I donít have siblings, but as a teen I experimented with my boy-cousin(s) as well as a girl-cousin and I donít have any regrets about it.

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Love is the answer .... but while I am waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty interesting questions.

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Old June 8th, 2018, 06:07 AM   #2
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I agree Brigje, as long it is consensual and you don't try to make any long term plans as far as marriage then what is it hurting. But like you said everyone has their own opinion but as for me i agree with you. It doesn't hurt a thing.
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Old June 8th, 2018, 07:26 AM   #3
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That's the important thing. It has to be consensual and fun for both people. As long as no one is being hurt against their will, or forced to do something they aren't comfortable with, then it's perfectly OK with me.

I felt a lot safer experimenting with my sister than I would have with someone else outside the family. I see no issues with it continuing indefinitely if everyone wants it to. There is usually already a strong emotional bond between siblings or cousins. I draw the line at sexual activity with adults you are related to though, that's just weird and creepy.
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Old June 8th, 2018, 08:12 AM   #4
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I agree. And most definitely being consensual for both and no pressure on either. I think it can be a safe way to try things and ask questions. And get experience. A long term relationship might be something that should be avoided, and if intercourse happens between a girl and guy, then 100% some form of protection needs to be used.
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Old June 8th, 2018, 08:16 AM   #5
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The most I have ever done or will do is skinny dip in the pool with my brothers and cousins but would never experiment sexually with a family member. I my humble opinion that is incest and is morally wrong.
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Old June 8th, 2018, 08:39 AM   #6
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The most I have ever done or will do is skinny dip in the pool with my brothers and cousins but would never experiment sexually with a family member. I my humble opinion that is incest and is morally wrong.
Jordan, thanks for your comment, I respect your opinion on this.

This is why I started this thread, so everybody can hear/read different opinions on the subject.

Love is the answer .... but while I am waiting for the answer, sex raises some pretty interesting questions.
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Old June 8th, 2018, 08:44 AM   #7
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I have done some things with family members. For me, it was a way of learning some things. It was harmless and fun.
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Old June 8th, 2018, 09:06 AM   #8
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I have done some things with family members. For me, it was a way of learning some things. It was harmless and fun.
Depends on what you mean by "some things"
I am totally against any type of incestuous relationships.

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Old June 8th, 2018, 12:19 PM   #9
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I've always thought of (and engaged in) experimentation as a fun, safe way to find out what you like sexually with people you know very, very well already. It allows me to just BE myself in a way that I might be wary about being with someone I was interested in romantically as well as sexually.
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Old June 8th, 2018, 12:19 PM   #10
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The most I have done with someone in my immediate family is masturbate my 12 year old brother. I touched his penis, he touched mine, and it was fine. Now, I have experimented with my 13 year old male cousin and 14 year old female cousin at different times, however. I donít have a problem with experimenting with family members, even of the opposite gender. It can go as far as you want it to, as long as itís consensual.
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Old June 8th, 2018, 04:17 PM   #11
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Depends on what you mean by "some things"
I am totally against any type of incestuous relationships.
Not looking for your opinion on what I have done with members of my family.
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Old June 9th, 2018, 03:41 PM   #12
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I have experimented with my male cousins and some with female cousins too.
I have experimented with both male and female friends. I think it is healthy and educational myself.

I am gay and happy with that.
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Old June 10th, 2018, 08:07 PM   #13
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I saw this on youtube. i also saw a sexual version of pony play, but can't find int now.

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Old June 16th, 2018, 11:33 PM   #14
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^ what the actual fuck?
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Old June 17th, 2018, 12:40 AM   #15
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I’ve experimented with my sis and male cousin
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Old June 17th, 2018, 05:02 AM   #16
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I kissed with my male cousin when I was younger, but nothing more. As I wrote in the other thread, it was innocent stuff. Doing anything with family closer than that is out of the question.

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Old June 17th, 2018, 10:15 PM   #17
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With some far cousins I experimented a bit.

But, the fact of thinking that I would do that with my brother or sister makes me sick.

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Old November 17th, 2018, 02:42 AM   #18
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Rod A is not to slot into hole B
Sure, stuff happens, but it stops being experimenting if you keep doing it you experiment, learn and stop. Beyond that you’re in dangerous territory that could haunt you for life
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Old November 17th, 2018, 02:24 PM   #19
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Female cousin has seen me naked by my choice, she wanted to see my dick. Have jo with a younger male cousin.
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Old November 17th, 2018, 02:31 PM   #20
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Personally..if you set limits and it's 100% consensual...and protection is used if it goes that far. I'm ok with it I guess
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