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Old December 14th, 2008, 10:02 PM   #1261
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I have only masturbated, never had sex before because im too afraid to get her pregnant. a friend says that a blow job is safe but better than a masturbating. I acted like i knew what blow job was but i dont, anybody know?
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Old December 14th, 2008, 10:35 PM   #1262
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I have only masturbated, never had sex before because im too afraid to get her pregnant. a friend says that a blow job is safe but better than a masturbating. I acted like i knew what blow job was but i dont, anybody know?
Firstly, a blow job is a pejoritive term for oral sex. Oral sex on a guy involves someone sucking on his penis so that he can achieve an orgasm.

Secondly, it is a misconception that a blow job is any safer than sex as STDs can still be transmitted through blow jobs. The reality is that STDs can exist in one's mouth and throat just as those same bacteria and viruses can be present in one's genitals. It is for that reason why it is absolutely critical that before you are sexually active with anyone, even if it is limited to blow jobs, that you make sure that they are clean of STDs.

Thirdly, your friend is right that a blow job does feel a lot better than masturbating, but I would not have a girl perform a blow job unless she is totally comfortable with it. Keep in mind that the person on the receiving end of the blow job has to not only do all the hard work but also have to sometimes deal with the mess. If you do have someone do a blow job on you, then make sure you are clean down there and try to eat some foods like pineapples and avoid foods with a lot of protein, such as steaks, so that your semen will not taste bad when your partner comes into contact with it. Also, feedback is important with a blow job, and make sure that you are all right with your partner spitting out your semen if she does not want to swallow it. Keep in mind that if you have someone perform a blow job on you, then that person may expect you to do something for them in return. I am guessing you might be too young to do a blow job if you don't even know what one is, and you probably best holding off for a while until you are a bit older as your hand is your safest bet for now.


Finally, when you eventually become sexually active, then make sure you have condoms and that your partner is on birth control. Birth control taken correctly is your best protection against pregnancy, and condoms provide an additional barrier along with protection against fluid borne STDs. Keep in mind that condoms do not protect against skin-to-skin STDs which is why you need to make sure your partner is clean before doing anything sexual.

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Old December 15th, 2008, 04:13 PM   #1263
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how do you masturbate
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Old December 15th, 2008, 04:16 PM   #1264
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I won't go into detail. But masturbating is basically 'playing' with your penis. It's when boys rub their penis' to create a stimulation that is like having sex.
I will refer you to a website that will enlighten you on everything to know - www.jackinworld.com
or for general puberty:
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Old December 15th, 2008, 05:59 PM   #1265
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it doesnt really matter but if u have foreskin its goin to be more pleasurable but im cut.

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Old December 17th, 2008, 10:19 PM   #1266
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yeah, pontiacdriver. I do use lube, i use lotion. I used a loose grip. Idk wut the problem is, maybe i do have a minor urinary traction. Although, I did ejaculate this liquid that was clear and i dont think it was urine.

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Old December 17th, 2008, 11:48 PM   #1267
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yeah, pontiacdriver. I do use lube, i use lotion. I used a loose grip. Idk wut the problem is, maybe i do have a minor urinary traction. Although, I did ejaculate this liquid that was clear and i dont think it was urine.
My thinking is that what you ejaculated was pre-cum, which is the fluid that lubricate the urethra prior to an ejaculation. Keep in mind that urine is toxic to sperm, and the body needs to lubricate the urethra so as to protect sperm. If you have not ejaculated before, then pre-cum is a sign that your first ejaculation is coming up.

As for your pain, you have nothing to loose to be screened for a urinary tract infection. Simply tell your parents that you have pain when you urinate, and they really should not make a big deal of it. After all, women get urinary tract infections from time to time, and your Mother would be the most understanding of your issue. When you go to the doctor's office all that will happen is the doctor asking you when your pain started and what your symptoms are. Your doctor will not ask if you masturbate, and your doctor will not judge you. As a result, don't be afraid if you get a boner during an exam, but I doubt that will happen as nothing is a bigger turn off than rubber exam gloves and antiseptic spray which is commonly used in medical offices. You will be asked to go to the washroom and urinate into a specimen container. From there the doctor or his/her assistant will do a dipstick test to see if you have any bacteria present. It is a totally painless process. In worst case scenario you will have to be on medication for about a week, and things should clear up. In the short-term you might want to drink some cranberry juice as that alleviates, but does NOT cure, symptoms of a urinary tract infection.

I hope that things get better, and let us know how things turn out.
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Old December 19th, 2008, 12:22 AM   #1268
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okay, so if it doesnt hurt when i urinate then i still dont understand why it hurts for a little while after I orgasm. Cuz ive seen porn before and they just keep going. :/

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Old December 19th, 2008, 02:19 PM   #1269
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okay, so if it doesnt hurt when i urinate then i still dont understand why it hurts for a little while after I orgasm. Cuz ive seen porn before and they just keep going. :/

OK, I've followed along here and think I understand.

The sensation you're referring to after orgasm sounds pretty normal. It's not actual 'pain' which is the body's signal that it's damaged or injured (or infected). After orgasm, there's a hypersensitivity to touch and stimulation, which is experienced as 'uncomfortable', like a burning/tingly feeling esp. at or near the head of the penis. This is the body's signal to you to stop, that the act is complete. Biologically, by creating a sensation which results in your stopping, it better insures that the semen you've just expelled (in a vagina during sex for procreation) stays in there and doesnt get 'rubbed out'.

If you're talking about THAT sensation, the tingly, burning feeling after orgasm, it's normal, and there's not much to do. It will last thru the 'refractory period', that time between erections when you're 'resting' and cannot get an erection, and might be more intense the more orgasms you have oin a single session.

Lotions, lubes, grips or techniques will not change this, it is a biological function.
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Old December 19th, 2008, 06:42 PM   #1270
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Wow, thats the exact answer i was looking for. Btw, are you really a doctor?

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Old December 19th, 2008, 08:30 PM   #1271
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Glad I could help. Almost a doctor. Just currently practicing!
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Old December 20th, 2008, 03:22 PM   #1272
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Good for you, i hope you get your degree in..... what are you going into? Ureology?

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Old December 20th, 2008, 04:53 PM   #1273
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okay erm..
i can cum wen i was 12 1/2 a litle bit o.O
am i early , average or late into puberty?? cuz lotz of my friends cant yet
n im 13
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Old December 20th, 2008, 05:24 PM   #1274
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I'd say you were maybe a little early. But not alot. So your fine. And it really doesn't matter if your early or not, as you'll end up in the same place anyway so..

Your fine and on the way down the long road of puberty. Just don't veer of at the junction.

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Old December 20th, 2008, 07:42 PM   #1275
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Good for you, i hope you get your degree in..... what are you going into? Ureology?
Urology?! Could you imagine that, looking at, and answering stuff like THIS all day?! LOL!

nah, Psychology for me.
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Old December 21st, 2008, 04:16 PM   #1276
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when i masturbate i fantasize about boys i know masturbating. is this strange? what does everyone think?
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Old December 21st, 2008, 04:24 PM   #1277
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when i masturbate i fantasize about boys i know masturbating. is this strange? what does everyone think?
No it's not strange. In fact it's very normal for teenagers. It's all down to the hormones and being curious about the same sex.

It doesn't mean your gay and it's not wrong or a sin. But it's a bit 'taboo' amongst the teenage world to admit to it. But there is nothing wrong with it, lots of teenagers do it, like me.

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Old December 22nd, 2008, 02:03 AM   #1278
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Okay i'm 15 and i masturbate maybe once a day idk i don't count but i've never cummed. maybe i have a problem or i havent matured yet if this sort of thing happend to you or have advise reply back please.
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Old December 22nd, 2008, 02:09 AM   #1279
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Okay i'm 15 and i masturbate maybe once a day idk i don't count but i've never cummed. maybe i have a problem or i havent matured yet if this sort of thing happend to you or have advise reply back please.
well it sounds like you are a little behind, but its nothing to worry about. you still have 5+ years ahead of puberty.


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Old December 24th, 2008, 06:12 AM   #1280
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Okay i'm 15 and i masturbate maybe once a day idk i don't count but i've never cummed. maybe i have a problem or i havent matured yet if this sort of thing happend to you or have advise reply back please.
I agree that you are just a late bloomer and have nothing about which to worry. Keep in mind that some guys as late as 16/17 develop the ability to ejaculate at that late stage, and you are hardly alone. There is nothing you can do to make yourself ejaculate as you cannot create something that does not exist. In short, don't worry as you are normal, and not being able to cum hardly makes you less of a man. You will be able to ejaculate sooner than later. If you don't have any signs of puberty by the time you hit 16, then you should visit your doctor. However, if you are having other signs of puberty such as increased size, body hair, and increased muscle tone, then you just need to be patient.
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