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Old May 17th, 2019, 09:28 PM   #1
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I've never been in a relationship and now I'm considering trying to get into one. How can I tell if I should stick to guys or go after guys and girls?

Also if I'm being honest I've had "interesting" dreams involving both genders if that changes things

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Old May 17th, 2019, 09:38 PM   #2
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It’s a hard thing to decide sometimes, I knew I liked girls more when I was about 13, but dated guys because that was the “normal” thing to do. I’ve never dated a girl, but after feeling unfulfilled with my 2 guy relationships, I’m sure my next real relationship will be with a girl. I think you just need to decide what you really want, what kind of problems if any it would cause (family and friends) and more importantly, what your heart wants
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Old May 17th, 2019, 09:40 PM   #3
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Itís a hard thing to decide sometimes, I knew I liked girls more when I was about 13, but dated guys because that was the ďnormalĒ thing to do. Iíve never dated a girl, but after feeling unfulfilled with my 2 guy relationships, Iím sure my next real relationship will be with a girl. I think you just need to decide what you really want, what kind of problems if any it would cause (family and friends) and more importantly, what your heart wants
I'm just trying to decide, I haven't really checked either side out very much
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Old May 17th, 2019, 09:43 PM   #4
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I'm just trying to decide, I haven't really checked either side out very much
Take your time, you got your whole life ahead of you
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Old May 17th, 2019, 09:46 PM   #5
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Take your time, you got your whole life ahead of you
I'm also worried that if im into girls I won't be invited to stay over or go swimming or stuff like that because maybe the other girls would think I would be checking them out the whole time
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Strangely thinking it

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Old May 17th, 2019, 09:53 PM   #7
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I'm also worried that if im into girls I won't be invited to stay over or go swimming or stuff like that because maybe the other girls would think I would be checking them out the whole time
A couple of my close friends know I like girls, thereís never been an issue, itís not like they whisper about me or cover up if we have to change or anything, real friends donít care, I promise

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Old May 17th, 2019, 09:55 PM   #8
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A couple of my close friends know I like girls, there’s never been an issue, it’s not like they whisper about me or cover up if we have to change or anything, real friends don’t care, I promise
I guess I'll find out in the future
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Strangely thinking it
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What do you mean?
Thinking of being bi, lately Iíve been craving girls.

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Thinking of being bi, lately Iíve been craving girls.
Somehow I haven't been hit yet with the effects of early puberty yet where you're attracted to everything, but I'm sure that will change eventually
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Thinking of being bi, lately Iíve been craving girls.
Right now Iím craving ice cream, lol

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Right now Iím craving ice cream, lol
Ice cream an girls 😜

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Old May 23rd, 2019, 01:49 PM   #14
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I've never been in a relationship and now I'm considering trying to get into one. How can I tell if I should stick to guys or go after guys and girls?
You dont suddenly decide that you are going to have a relationship, and that must go after one or the other.
The deal is finding someone that pleases you
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Old May 23rd, 2019, 02:15 PM   #15
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I would say don't rush into anything
right now and don't label urself. Get
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Learning by doing and getting the required experience to know for sure, what you like?
I'm not saying "Take a huge leap" I just think you should allow your self to rub your face in it a little bit to get the feeling
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Old May 23rd, 2019, 02:23 PM   #17
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I'm also worried that if im into girls I won't be invited to stay over or go swimming or stuff like that because maybe the other girls would think I would be checking them out the whole time
That's never been a problem for me, because I've been open about being queer and liking other girls, but I've made it very clear that I don't get excited about my good friends and won't be hitting on them or trying to get into their pants. If one of them decided to make the first move, that signal would then tell me it's OK since they want to.

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A couple of my close friends know I like girls, there’s never been an issue, it’s not like they whisper about me or cover up if we have to change or anything, real friends don’t care, I promise
Exactly, I've been naked in locker rooms and showers at school or at the community pool with my friends for years, as well as at sleepovers and stuff like that. They all know I'm queer and don't do anything different from what they would usually do.

When my family had our above ground pool (which we are hopefully getting the new one this summer) my friends would come over to skinny dip and there were never any issues with being naked together.

As others have pointed out, in our teen years we have to figure out lots of stuff about our sexuality, what sort of persons we are attracted to and so on. There's nothing at all wrong with dating both boys and girls as part of the process and no one will think anything bad of someone who does. Like Natacha said, just experiment and find out what you like.......that's the only way you are gonna ever know for sure.

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Old May 23rd, 2019, 03:34 PM   #18
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Don't pick who to go after based on whether they are a guy or a girl, go after someone because you are actually interested in them and want to try being in a relationship with them. If they are a guy, great, if they are a girl, great. Eventually you'll figure out whether you are straight, bi, gay, or something else.
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You shouldn't feel like you need to decide. It's ok to like both genders and many people will have relationships with both at different points in their lives.
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You don’t have to choose a type or experiment to find out what that is
Just be open to people
Make friends
If you get feelings or signs from someone then address that
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