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Old December 21st, 2005, 05:02 PM   #1
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Ok, me and cyrus are debating about this.
Its basicly about bullying.
Hes trying to justify that bullying over the internet is no biggy compared to phisical bullying. Hes full of shit.
So which is worse?
Physical bullying
mental bullying (idk if thats the word)
or are they both equaly bad?

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Old December 21st, 2005, 05:05 PM   #2
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well physical bullying is actually painful, but eventually you heal from it. mental bullying (as you put it) is actually much worse. I get kicked and hit alot, it doesnt bother me much, but getting called names and shit bothers me more. Bullying in any form, whether face to face, over the net, over the fone ect. is all wrong, no matter if you can justify it or not

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Old December 21st, 2005, 05:22 PM   #3
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Sorry but unless any of you have actually been in a position to where you were mentally teased, you might have a hard time seeing how much worse it can be. Trust me, it is. I would of rather been hit every single day in the jaw when i was really overweight then of been teased. It isnt worth it, trust me. It causes a LOT of emotional problems when you grow up too hehe
Well that was my story . . its over now seeing how i weigh a lot less

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Old December 21st, 2005, 06:13 PM   #4
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i have to say its 'mental' thats worse. if you kick someone or punch someone their wound or bruise will heal however the mind is much more complex. if you have low self-esteem and someone keeps telling you, you are thick, you are stupid you will begin to believe it yourself. its the same on the net, if someone is constantly being put down they mite feel well maybe i am a horrible person and no one likes me, even people on the net hate me. thats why i think its worse.

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Old December 21st, 2005, 06:31 PM   #5
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Yesh yesh i feel so hated on the net how horrible my life is


Over the internet i really dont care about what people think of me to put it blantley because they dont really know me and i dont know them . .if they wanna fight they have to come down and solve it with me themselves haha


I am not one to physically hurt buutt i am just waiting for the day o.O

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Sorry but unless any of you have actually been in a position to where you were mentally teased, you might have a hard time seeing how much worse it can be. Trust me, it is. I would of rather been hit every single day in the jaw when i was really overweight then of been teased. It isnt worth it, trust me. It causes a LOT of emotional problems when you grow up too hehe
Well that was my story . . its over now seeing how i weigh a lot less

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if your phisically bullied you could fight back but if the person is stronger then you, you'll get your ass kicked.
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i think they are both equally bad
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Old December 21st, 2005, 08:38 PM   #8
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Ok, me and cyrus are debating about this.
Its basicly about bullying.
Hes trying to justify that bullying over the internet is no biggy compared to phisical bullying. Hes full of shit.
So which is worse?
Physical bullying
mental bullying (idk if thats the word)
or are they both equaly bad?

For some reason i cant add an option on the poll, so if a mod would like to they can.
mental bullying in real life is worse then physical bullying
however 'bullying' over the internet doesnt exist.
ont he internet you can be anybody you want to be.
thats why you cant be bullied, because nothing is true and nothign is reality

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Old December 21st, 2005, 09:03 PM   #9
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yeah . . shut up! *smack*

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Old December 21st, 2005, 09:40 PM   #10
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i believe that 'mental' bullying does more harm(in most cases) than physical bullying.
my reasons:
*mental bullying leaves a lasting scar on the mind. there have been things said to me when i was a tiny child taht i can still remember and they still bother me, alot.
*physical bullying will heal and everyone, other than the physically challenged, can fight back - not everyone is quick to make a come back or to stand up for themselves.

those are just two of the many reasons i could come up with in favor of mental bullying being worse.

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Old December 21st, 2005, 09:48 PM   #11
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Old December 21st, 2005, 10:19 PM   #12
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nononono ok u guys heres this issue. which is worse. me bitching at austin because he lied about committing suicide for attention, or nick ganging up with other people to throw rocks at this kids face and then later drawing a penis on his backpack. thats the underlying issue here. which is worse
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however 'bullying' over the internet doesnt exist.

Yea, it's called 'cyberbullying'

I was watching a Primetime episode....some kids have committed suicide because of the damage of being bullied in their own homes...invaded...sad
anyone who kills themselves over something that someone told them on the internet is fucked up to begin with.
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wow u guys are totally hijacking this thread to start an argument thats not related to what me and nick were fighing about. which one of us was more mean, me for calling austin a liar, or nick for throwing rocks in some kids face
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good point. heres my idea being called names is mean but youve gotta suck it up. if someone beats the living shit out of you thats illegal and worse.
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so in other words nick is being more mean by throwing rocks than i am for calling a liar a liar? good
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so in other words nick is being more mean by throwing rocks than i am for calling a liar a liar? good
I think you saying such things to austin was sick, and tossing rocks at kids isnt sick. so no, mental much worse, austin was vunerable, and you took advantage to make you look better at him, not a nice thing. neither ajustifialb.e


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so in other words nick is being more mean by throwing rocks than i am for calling a liar a liar? good
I think you saying such things to austin was sick, and tossing rocks at kids isnt sick. so no, mental much worse, austin was vunerable, and you took advantage to make you look better at him, not a nice thing. neither ajustifialb.e
dude get real.
its over the internet
anyone who gets hurt by somethign said by a random stranger over the internet is one dumb fuck

throwing rocks at a kid is worse then sayign ANYTHING over the internet
saying shit over the internet. just. doesnt.count

i really pity peopel who are so foolish they think this is all realityand it matters what is said or something...

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Should this be in the debate?

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If you ask me the definition of a bully is diffrent for every person.
It depends on your personality and what effects you.

Physical bullying is worse then anything thats always true.
But mental attacks can cause severe damage possibly leading to depression and in extreme cases even suicide.
As for online like on a form if your new its not a big deal because you can just leave, like fuck it.
But if you've been on it for awhile, you have allot of friends, they know allot about you, how to hurt you etc... Then being ganged up on and attacked can be hurtful if your emotional, like I said it all really depends on the personality traits

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