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Old February 12th, 2018, 11:49 PM   #1
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Just state your sex and a struggle your gender has to deal with. I'm male, and I'll start off. This one's pretty common, boys: using the bathroom with an erection

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Old February 13th, 2018, 06:07 AM   #2
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Struggle: Erections in general. When they first started happening they were pretty much out of my control and I tried to avoid standing up or walking around because there wasn't any way to hide it with our school uniforms.

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Old February 13th, 2018, 07:20 AM   #3
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Yeah-I would say erections
when u least expect them.
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Old February 13th, 2018, 07:42 AM   #4
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The struggle with random boners is real, especially in math class when you are about to be called to the board to solve a problem. It's like the teacher has a hardon radar and purposely calls upon you when you have a raging stiffy so he can see your red face of embarrassment. Thus the reason for a wank upon rising in the morning! Except lately, it doesn't seem to help!
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Old February 13th, 2018, 10:05 AM   #5
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I'm a male, and NOT getting an erection can be a problem for guys. You can't fake it if you don't have an erection.
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Old February 13th, 2018, 05:41 PM   #6
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Bleeding out of my vagina for a week is probably worse than being visibly horney in public
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Old February 13th, 2018, 05:51 PM   #7
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Bleeding out of my vagina for a week is probably worse than being visibly horney in public
This ^ legend! Had me in stitches.
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Old February 13th, 2018, 05:55 PM   #8
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nobody's saying it's not, chill...
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Old February 13th, 2018, 05:57 PM   #9
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I am male and my struggle is always getting a hard on at the worst time. Its like it wants to see us embarrassed or something

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Old February 13th, 2018, 08:21 PM   #10
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Male-- My biggest struggle is fighting my rheumatoid arthritis and fibromyalgia and the pain and depression that come from both.

I am gay and happy with that.
I love talking to people very open & willing to listen.
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Old February 13th, 2018, 08:56 PM   #11
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I mean the go to for each is boners and periods so its not like we're not aware of each XD. I would say for guys is being able to openly talk about this stuff with other guys going "OmG ThATs sO gAy!!!11!!"

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Old February 13th, 2018, 09:23 PM   #12
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I mean the go to for each is boners and periods so its not like we're not aware of each XD. I would say for guys is being able to openly talk about this stuff with other guys going "OmG ThATs sO gAy!!!11!!"
That's a good one, hyper masculine standards and stereotypes can really weigh emotionally on a person.

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Old February 14th, 2018, 04:45 AM   #13
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Penile insecurity : I'm rather small down there (2'' soft 3.25'' hard).

Body image : I was never muscular or athletic. I used to be skinny as hell and was rediculed. Now I've starated to get filled out..And now they call me flabby...Seriously...? I've now decided to just gain more and more weight until I am at least 10kg over weight so that I will just be called fat and that will be it.
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Boy

1. Boners and morning wood and having to pee
2. Size of my cock compared to others, not happy with it
3. The way my body looks
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Old February 16th, 2018, 01:46 PM   #15
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I personally struggle with the way men "have" to dress. As I've hear somewhere before: "If a girl dresses as a boy shes just a tomboy, if a boy dresses like a girl that's weird". Although girls have higher standards for body, guys are more restricted with what is acceptable to wear.
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Old February 16th, 2018, 09:26 PM   #16
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Boy - talking about your emotions and feelings is looked down at.
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Old February 16th, 2018, 09:38 PM   #17
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Bleeding out of my vagina for a week is probably worse than being visibly horney in public
Agreed. But for some boys I think it can make them seriously anxious. I especially was when they first started happening because it wasn't talked about in school so I thought that it was wrong for it to happen.

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I think this has become more subjective, based on my experience as a boy. I've often felt as if my school is pressuring me into opening up to them despite me having no trust in the school whatsoever. I prefer handling my own issues and not being dependent on anyone (especially the school) and it's felt invasive how they try to interject themselves into my personal life. I'll admit my view of it likely depends a lot on my personality (I value being independent) and the way this is treated across difference countries, but I often wonder if the situation for boys varies a little more.

Personally I think a lot of teenagers prefer to talk about things like this with peers who they see as equals rather than adults who they see as authority figures, given the presence of forums such as this. The trouble is that many teenagers suffer from similar issues that they don't have the solution to, so it's harder to help others. So a lot of us end up thinking we can't really go to peers for support. This is all probably subjective but it's just another possibility.


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Old February 17th, 2018, 12:22 PM   #18
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...It's like the teacher has a hardon radar and purposely calls upon you when you have a raging stiffy so he can see your red face of embarrassment....
Maybe this is more than co-incidence. I find I am more likely to get an erection when I am relaxed and comfortable, especially if starting to daydream. Maybe the teacher is good at spotting daydreaming students and tries to check if they have been listening by calling on you to contribute.

Erections are obviously a uniquely boy thing. Also I'd say that getting an erection actually feels nice, it is the embarrassment of being seen with one in what people think should be a non-sexual situation that is the annoyance. I think we get off lightly, though, as that is preferable to having to deal with periods.
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Old February 17th, 2018, 01:45 PM   #19
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Penile insecurity : I'm rather small down there (2'' soft 3.25'' hard).

Body image : I was never muscular or athletic. I used to be skinny as hell and was rediculed. Now I've starated to get filled out..And now they call me flabby...Seriously...? I've now decided to just gain more and more weight until I am at least 10kg over weight so that I will just be called fat and that will be it.
Dude this isnt the solution to your problems.
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Old March 3rd, 2018, 09:45 PM   #20
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Girl. Guys looking at my boobs in public. I only got one word.. CREEPS
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