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Old May 14th, 2018, 11:01 PM   #1
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well um... this is embarrassing to say but i uh... experimented with a boy and well... liked it... tbh idk anymore. never been with a girl in THAT way but im definitely attracted to girls... so am i bi, straight, gay, or maybe just curious?
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Old May 14th, 2018, 11:11 PM   #2
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try experamenting a bit more if you still like it you're bi, thats it case closed, weather you're bi-romanic or lean more towards one gender over the other is irrelivent. you(with the help of this one simple step) are eather bi or not. the end.
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Old May 15th, 2018, 06:57 PM   #3
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I wouldn't be in a hurry to label yourself. Take your time and see what happens with other guys and girls. I would say you are definitely very curious.

I am gay and happy with that.
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Old May 15th, 2018, 07:03 PM   #4
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I would say u r still curious but
doesn't mean that u may have
both feelings for guys and girls
over time. Y b embarrassed u
liked it. Unless u r guilty don't
worry bout it.
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Old May 16th, 2018, 10:29 AM   #5
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Ya, dude, nothing to be embarrassed about. You didn't do anything wrong. Go with your feelings for a while and try different things. It's all about self-discovery. And like Jamie said, don't worry about labels.
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Old May 16th, 2018, 05:31 PM   #6
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I've been playing with a couple of friends for about a year, boys, and we like it. Not sure about girls yet TBH
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Old May 16th, 2018, 09:28 PM   #7
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It's ok to experiment without giving yourself a label. You could experiment with several boys and over time, just lose interest in it or find out you like it more. Give it some time, but if you want to make a label for yourself, I'd just say curious or questioning.
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Old May 18th, 2018, 12:38 AM   #8
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Well if you enjoyed being with a guy in any way more than 'this physical sensation feels nice you aren't completely straight. You can try with a guy again and you might decide that actually it isn't for you, or that it's just some fun. If you don't like it when you do it with girls, you're definitely not straight. It's not like you've got to fit each one exactly. You can be mostly straight or mostly gay, or just screw the labels completely

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Old May 19th, 2018, 03:52 PM   #9
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I think with the attraction you have for girls I'm thinking your bi.
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Old May 24th, 2018, 01:49 PM   #10
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It's very possible to like both boys and girls. As a girl, I knew right away when I started finding myself attracted to other girls when I was about 10 that I would eventually be dating girls as well as boys. After dating for a couple of years, I have concluded that at 15, I strongly prefer the girls over the boys, but will date either gender. Boys are fun, and I actually have a boyfriend, but I also date far more girls than I do boys and he's OK with that.

This sort of thing can change, and there's nothing wrong with feeling those attractions or acting on them. Just be yourself, whatever you feel is right for you.
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Old May 25th, 2018, 07:07 PM   #11
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I agree that you shouldn’t label yourself after one experience. Lots of young people experiment with the same sex but it doesn’t mean they have romantic feelings for that gender or can see themselves dating someone of the same gender.
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Old May 25th, 2018, 09:22 PM   #12
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You are too young for a label.
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Old May 25th, 2018, 09:36 PM   #13
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If you liked it then why are you embarrassed by that?
And nobody can know your sexuality, thats something for you to discover on your own, its gods everlasting gift of self discovery, so enjoy it

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Old May 27th, 2018, 09:48 AM   #14
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I would say at least curious but you don't need to worry about putting a label on yourself

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Old May 27th, 2018, 11:13 AM   #15
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Continue to do what feels right for you, and don't pay too much attention to trying to fit yourself into any specific category just yet. I'm still learning about myself and it seems an ongoing process that could change at any time. I see nothing at all wrong with experimenting, dating both genders, and trying things to see what suits you. There are no wrongs, just personal preferences.
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Old August 29th, 2018, 09:31 AM   #16
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I've been playing with a couple of friends for about a year, boys, and we like it. Not sure about girls yet TBH
that's really cool you found a group you could do stuff with and have fun!
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