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Old February 11th, 2019, 02:11 PM   #1
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No Details,after a long dry spell, It was a older guy(20) and it was like he had no idea what to do. It was like I had to move that parts for him to feel or do things with. When wanted to kiss me, I really wanted to ask him if he wanted a mint(He is a smoker). Lets not talk about the event. It was that fast for him. I just might girls.
All done. Any other have stuff like this happen No stories.
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Old February 11th, 2019, 02:13 PM   #2
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Mercifully not. If that’s what it’s like with a boy, I’ll stick to girls!

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Old February 11th, 2019, 02:17 PM   #3
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I don't like kissing smokers. They put nicotine down my lungs and I get dizzy. I have tried guys who fumble, but thats probably okay if they would bother to learn when I correct them.
Luckily I have a great boyfriend now
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Old February 11th, 2019, 02:17 PM   #4
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Kissing a smoker is disgusting. I'm never going to do that anymore. Yuck.
And regarding the rest: maybe he was a virgin? Too bad it was a bad experience for you.

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Old February 11th, 2019, 02:48 PM   #5
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I guess he was either a virgin or it's been some time for him as well. Also I've heard something about that guys might have less control with a new partner. Like even if they are experienced it'll be like their first time all over when they get intimate with someone new, but don't quote me on that. Unless you decide to reply to this particular post, of course.

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Old February 11th, 2019, 08:51 PM   #6
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Sounds like a real dud.
l've had the same and agreed when it comes to kissing a smoker, it's disgusting.
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Old February 11th, 2019, 10:24 PM   #7
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I just can’t imagine the situation, why would you even bother?
This stinky fumbly loser surely isn’t worthy to be inside you
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Old February 12th, 2019, 01:25 AM   #8
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I decided a long time ago no more smokers. Nasty breath and nasty tasting cum. I don't need that.
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Old February 12th, 2019, 02:01 AM   #9
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if i were you sure i will keep away from him..smokers are dangerous people not only spoiling themselves and also others by spreading nicotine smoke in the air...Really non-smokers are affected by the nicotine pollution

i'm a bi..girls,feel free to contact me through PM or mail
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Old February 12th, 2019, 07:18 AM   #10
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Smokers...ugh! Gross:/ I can’t...just can’t .
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Old February 12th, 2019, 08:12 AM   #11
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That smoking part is bad and I would also never kiss ord date a smoker. For the sex part, I think you were a bit harsh. There is no problem with the girl having the initiative and doing more. For being a fast thing, yes that happens and there you could communicate what else you like. Would it be that of a problem if he would have been a virgin? That's nothing to blame some one for.
When I had sex after a long time not having it and with a new partner, yes it was clumsy. The important part was that we talked together about it and lerned together. I think with every partner there is an adapting and that is part of being together for long or short. Communicating during sex is helpful.
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Old February 12th, 2019, 12:16 PM   #12
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maybe it was his first time. and yes, smoking does not work. sorry that you had to experience something like that
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Old February 12th, 2019, 01:19 PM   #13
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Thankfully I have only experienced sex with one guy and that has been my boyfriend who I have been with since November 11, 2016. I do have to admit things have gotten better since the first time we had sex, but actually my first experience with him was also amazing. As for kissing a smoker I can even imagine that because I can't stand the smell of cigarette smoke.
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Old February 12th, 2019, 02:01 PM   #14
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I just cant imagine the situation, why would you even bother?
This stinky fumbly loser surely isnt worthy to be inside you
My thoughts exactly~!
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Old February 12th, 2019, 05:28 PM   #15
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Just seeing a guy smoking is s turn off, so he kinda drop off the list right away. I know that smoking is not the same as doing drugs, but I kinda imagine that if someone is smoking, they might be doing drugs too. Its kinda being judgemental, but its also my experience among some people who I know that smoke. I don't know a lot people who smoke or take drugs, but of those that I have met, those that take drugs also smoke. I don't know any people who take drugs, but are non-smokers and not drinkers.

Anyways, we learned about "Addictive" personalities at school, where there are some people are genetically wired in such a way they that they can get addicted to drugs and other stuff more easily than other people. Like parents are alcoholics and\or smokers, its more likely their kids will be too.

Sex doesn't count, because as far as I can tell, everybody is kinda addicted to it once they start to develop.
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Old February 12th, 2019, 08:20 PM   #16
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Every time I've had sex for the first time with someone, especially if we weren't buzzed or drunk or anything, it's been 30% good, and 70% awkward, clumsy, and timid. If he makes you laugh and treats you right, give him another chance. Practice makes perfect and sex almost always gets better after the first time. In fact, most of the time it get a LOT better.
But you are definitely within your rights to ask him not to smoke in the hour or two leading up to being together, and to brush his teeth and Listerine before you get busy. If he's a decent guy he'll start doing that automatically after that. I don't agree with just dumping him straight away because he's a smoker. That seems INCREDIBLY superficial. Most people smoke because they're addicted. If he's willing to do the things I just said to make it less unpleasant for you, and maybe consider cutting back or quitting eventually, that's really small of someone to up and dump him over an addiction.
However, If he's not funny/kind, then I wouldn't worry about him again.
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Old February 15th, 2019, 04:50 PM   #17
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I also don't like smokers, it's automatically a nono for me.
Better luck next time!




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Old February 18th, 2019, 04:13 PM   #18
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I decided a long time ago no more smokers. Nasty breath and nasty tasting cum. I don't need that.
I agree. I have never had such a bad overall experience as Kelly but definitely smoke before kiss is awful for me.
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