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Old August 6th, 2011, 04:35 AM   #621
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My first kiss was with a guy, and most of the times before, I had crushes on girls. I did have a crush on this other guy, but it never went anywhere and I thought it was just a phase thing. I didn't really know what gay or bi or straight REALLY was until after I made out with my first boyfriend.

I dated both guys and girls, but managed to keep it discrete and it's nothing bad at all to really not feel comfortable with the labels gay or bi. I just like attractive people
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Old August 7th, 2011, 03:42 PM   #622
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i found out that i'm bi while watching porn.
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Old August 9th, 2011, 08:40 AM   #623
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Default just a little confused, ye I'm 18

Ok, I work with this girl who's pretty petite. She's athletic and has short hair and I never thought I'd be attracted to someone like this, especially when I'm in almost a 2 year relationship with a GUY and any girl I was attracted to before was girlier than her or was hardcore instead of sporty. I haven't known her long enough to say anything, but I have known her long enough to ask her to hangout, which is exactly what the plan is.
I've never experimented to the point where I felt comfortable with my sexuality and because of that, I think, I still don't feel comfortable. I feel stuck on the fence, when at the same time deep down I know what I prefer. My mother signed me out of english, grade 10, 'for an appointment' that actually turned out being her was of telling me she knew I'd been seeing my friend (let's call her B.). The same day she'd found out I smoked cigarettes and weed, but neither of those things mattered because she only brought me home to scream at me for being with a girl. Since then my mind has been clogged with confusion and unhappy thoughts and boredom with my life.

I have no idea what to do because every one of my friends has said they've known for a long time that I prefer women, I was the girl who'd rather make out with girls, hangout with dude friends and keep them as only dude friends. I guess the problem isn't me questioning my sexuality it's more me being unable to break my boyfriends heart again.
any advice would be appreciated, it's f*cking hard.
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Old August 9th, 2011, 09:34 PM   #624
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I don't know if I am gay or just scared idk. I right now am only with guys idk what the future is.
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Old August 12th, 2011, 06:41 AM   #625
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When I was in primary school I would have feelings for both girls and boys, but I guess I was more interested in my friends trampoline than I was with sex back then. It carried up until now so I guess I've always been attracted to both genders really.
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Old August 13th, 2011, 03:35 AM   #626
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well, i guess it started a long time ago. i was probibly in 5th or 6th grade, when ever there was a really attractive girl on tv i'd get all nervous cuz i didn't want anyone to see that i thought she was hot, so i'd stare at the ground or something. my family always makes fun of gays and lesbians so i felt like i disapointing them or something, so i denied it for a long time, but recently i've started to remember and my attraction to other females is even stronger. i was always uncomfortable when ever there was a gay or lesbian on tv cuz my parents would always make coments about them, they still dont know that i'm bisexual, i've considered telling them a few times, but they are so unwilling to even think that its posible for me to like the same sex that they would either deny it, or disown me.
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Old August 14th, 2011, 01:39 PM   #627
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Im not sure, maybe I always knew , still havent fully accepted it, but compared to how i would repress it a few years ago im much happier now that im more open about it
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Old August 14th, 2011, 02:47 PM   #628
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I allways knew my bi best mate was really pretty.. Then stunning...then cute...then hot... She told me she had feelings for me and I immediatly realised I loved her back n tryed to push down my feelings...didn't last long and we were soon going out. still never kissed a girl tho cause she thought it was funny to pretend to dump me so I dumped her instead.. <3 btw molly you sound epic!
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Old August 16th, 2011, 06:12 AM   #629
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i don't know. it just sort of happened. i didn't even like guys then. i mean as a kid, i was not attracted to guys. i even liked girls. i still like girls now, but not as much as guys.

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Old August 17th, 2011, 10:14 AM   #630
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I always knew I liked guys, but sometimes I would stare at other girls, and I liked it... I would come home from school, lay down and think, but I always denied myself by saying "there's no way I'm bi" or "what will my boyfriend think?" Then about a month later (I was now single and my ex was constantly texting me.. Like every day...) And he started asking questions, because while we dated he noticed that I sometimes stare at other girls.. I never thought he would notice.. He asked if i was a lesbian, I said no. Then he asked if I was bi... I hesitated to answer, and then I explained everything, but in the end i continued to deny it countless times, he wouldn't give up till i gave him an answer.. After about an hour of denying... I knew I was bi, and denying it wasnt going to get me anywhere.. I told him that I was.. And i was so relieves to finally get it off my chest.. Now I'm happily bi and loving it but he and my best friend are the only ones who know... My parents think bisexuals are gross, and I dont want to tell them and have them be disgusted by me... But I'm fine with hiding it, at least until I'm out of highschool...

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Old August 18th, 2011, 04:20 PM   #631
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I had this girl ask me out, and I thought I was straight, but for some reason I said yes. And ever since then I've been extremely interested in girls, not just emotionally but sexually too, more so than guys. So I don't know if I'm bi or a lesbian, but I know that I'm one of them.


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Old August 21st, 2011, 07:28 PM   #632
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I first found out I was Bi when I started having feelings for a girl in my class


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Old August 22nd, 2011, 04:04 AM   #633
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it's a good thing that almost all of us here found out we're gay/bi while we're still young. i can't imagine how it would be like knowing you're gay/bi when you're way older. say, 40 or 50. i can't help thinking of all the things they would miss.

knowing is one thing. embracing it is another. and to make the knowing more meaningful, it should be embraced.

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Old August 23rd, 2011, 07:31 PM   #634
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For me I've always somehow liked Emo guys or guys that are cute. It's weird because I've never done anything with a guy but I like them. O.o
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Old August 23rd, 2011, 11:21 PM   #635
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I have no idea on that one, but I've know since I was 12 or younger. I guess there was this boy...
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Old August 24th, 2011, 01:34 AM   #636
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I found out many years ago back when I was pre-teen. Back when I was experimenting with my best friend, it felt right to both of us so we thought we were lesbian. but when we kept having crushes and such on guys we thought we couldnt be lesbian. so when we first started doing things with guys, and it felt right, we both knew we were bi.

I am 18, bi and have been through alot
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Old September 2nd, 2011, 06:13 AM   #637
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Default Re: How did you first find out you were gay or bi?

well i do like guys in a sexual way, but thats apart of being bi curious... i know in my heart i will never be with a guy... close friends yeah... but relationship wise no... but i knew i started to like guys this year... haha
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Old September 2nd, 2011, 03:02 PM   #638
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I always thought that girls were pretty, too. I never thought too much of it because girls call each other pretty, gorgeous, sexy, etc. all the time. Then maybe last year I started noticing that I was actually sexually attracted to girls, too.

I lean towards guys more usually, though. No one irl knows I'm bi anyway.
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Old September 3rd, 2011, 04:34 PM   #639
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I started to like both guys and girls in grade 8 but I like guys a bit more then girls
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Old September 8th, 2011, 10:55 AM   #640
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i totally like boys. but i would like to have to sex with a girl. serious.

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