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Old December 17th, 2017, 10:00 PM   #1
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Last night I was drinking with a group of friends. I was pretty out of it. All I remember is one of my girlfriends took me into another room and pretty much forced sex. She was pretty wasted too. Does being intoxicated excuse this behavior?
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Old December 17th, 2017, 10:11 PM   #2
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Have you talked to her about it?

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Old January 28th, 2018, 02:31 AM   #3
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Talk to someone you trust about this! Sex should ALWAYS be concensual. If you didn't give her an okay, what she did was not okay. Seriously, please see a councilor or an adult you know and trust. Rape doesn't always look like we imagine it too, and it's important you talk it out with someone to figure out what really happened. You are valuable and important and you should always be comfortable with what's going on.
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Old January 28th, 2018, 07:30 AM   #4
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Talk to someone you trust about this! Sex should ALWAYS be concensual. If you didn't give her an okay, what she did was not okay. Seriously, please see a councilor or an adult you know and trust. Rape doesn't always look like we imagine it too, and it's important you talk it out with someone to figure out what really happened. You are valuable and important and you should always be comfortable with what's going on.
I agree completely with you

Maybe you should also talk to her about what happened
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Old January 28th, 2018, 10:56 AM   #5
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Last night I was drinking with a group of friends. I was pretty out of it. All I remember is one of my girlfriends took me into another room and pretty much forced sex. She was pretty wasted too. Does being intoxicated excuse this behavior?
No being intoxicated doesn't excuse that type of behavior.

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Old February 3rd, 2018, 06:13 PM   #6
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Pretty sure in all states just the fact that your drunk, in itself, you are not considered to be of sound mind to give consent. So therefore, she is in the wrong
If you feel you were victimized by her, seek help
Also if you didnt have safe sex get tested

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Old February 5th, 2018, 07:46 PM   #7
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As others said find someone to talk to

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Old August 10th, 2018, 03:36 PM   #8
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Would say the same as other people have z is to talk to someone who you trust
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Old August 10th, 2018, 04:34 PM   #9
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Would say the same as other people have z is to talk to someone who you trust
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