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Old March 16th, 2019, 05:53 AM   #1
denma
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so for years ive been thinking about my future and where i would eventually end up and its a really scary thing to think about to say the least
im 16, and i absolutely hate homework with a burning passion, i hate it so much id rather stare at my ceiling for hours than actually study so just from this alone you can tell what kind of person i am
i want tips on what jobs and careers would suit me the most so here's some facts about me:

ever since i was a young boy in elementary, i used to fight with my friends intentionally in the playground because we all thought it was fun, because of that i'm pretty decent at fighting and it helps that i also used to attend karate lessons. god, thinking about elementary again reminds me of how many teeth we accidentally knocked out lol

i'm also excellent at swimming according to everyone and i always happen to be the first most of the time, although i despise competing so i stopped taking part in my local tournaments

i also love exercise, lifting and hard work in general and because of this im fairly muscular for my age and fit because of swimming as well
i think i'd be good at some military related career but i'm a genuinely very "sensitive" and emotional person
(recent disastrous events have sort of changed me though)

cars are also definitely a part of me and driving is one of my favourite hobbies ever and i genuinely CANT wait to buy my own vehicle
but im not just interested in driving them, im interested in what makes them work and how, basically everything from the engine and its components to the suspension

also i just remembered something, teaching and/or coaching is out of the question because i'm absolutely terrible with explaining and guiding people, so yeah. but while we're at this i think its also important to mention that i get confused and lost VERY easily which i consider to be my worst drawback, i can complete easy tasks that are given to me but not more "complex" ones, so im not that trustworthy. i also get very anxious very fast, for example, lets say we're doing physical education at school and the coach tells me of all people to show an exercise or game to the others, that's one of the moments i fear the most in my life and because of my confused and anxious nature i just talked about i usually screw everything up

anyways, i'm not that great with computers but i did build my own 600 euro pc although with the help of a video and had no issues whatsoever
i started using computers at a very early age so i had plenty of experience and i can usually solve completely random errors whenever i come across them by myself (programming languages are also out of the question though)

i also ADORE cleaning compared to other people and i can be doing that for hours no end and at the end of the day i always feel accomplished
this probably doesn't matter that much but when i said cleaning i also meant myself, as in i love grooming myself as well, so much so that i always end up spending a good 40 minutes in the bathroom every morning before school and before i go out and this is followed by my desire to always wear fitting clothes no matter what, i'm very stylish and picky when it comes to clothing especially compared to other boys and im usually known as that one sharp dressed guy lol

i honestly cant think of anything else i'm good at and that's kinda scary, so i hope this information will suffice
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Old March 16th, 2019, 08:21 AM   #2
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Ur good at Many things and with some extra learning
u can strive at whatever u make ur mind up what to do.
U can take up a trade in auto mechanics or b a trainer
or spotter in a gym. Tho u say u r not great in computers
u had some experience and accomplishment. The military
both here and abroad is looking for computer specialists.
Since u r a sharp dressed guy u can b a model for a mens
fashion magazine. But u cant get anything accomplished if
u r constantly dreaming looking up at the ceiling and being
worried and scared. It will get u Nowhere. Stay in school and
study no matter how hard it is cause that is the only way u will
achieve anything worthwhile in ur life. If u like to knock teeth out
u can become a Moderator here and keep peeps in line especially
those that seems to b oversexed. ITS A JOKE-Moderators-I bring
some levity here. Dennis u have a lot of things going for u-don't
waste ur talents.
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Old March 16th, 2019, 08:54 AM   #3
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thank you for the answer, i'm very curious about the auto mechanics you talked about although that will most definitely be a very demanding job
another thing that got my attention was the computer specialist part, that would be interesting as well
those two would be some great career choices and i see myself enjoying time like that

ill think about it, thank you very much
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Old March 16th, 2019, 05:47 PM   #4
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Honestly, I'd say being a mechanic is your best bet. Go to a trade school, not a traditional University, it seems like it'd suit you better. That's what I'm currently doing, for programing.


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Old March 16th, 2019, 06:43 PM   #5
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thank you for the answer, i'm very curious about the auto mechanics you talked about although that will most definitely be a very demanding job
another thing that got my attention was the computer specialist part, that would be interesting as well
those two would be some great career choices and i see myself enjoying time like that

ill think about it, thank you very much
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