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Old March 16th, 2019, 01:28 PM   #1
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I really love my girlfriend Yna, We are going on holiday to the Philippines for 5 weeks in July and i am really looking forward to it..

I worry A LOT. Not just bout Yna, but other things to, Money, car insurance, revision.

How do I keep occupied? I used to play GTA5 but i got bored very quickly of that. I have aspergers syndrome and find it difficult not getting distracted. I also struggle to understand that my girlfriend needs time to herself, she needs time where she isnt talking to me. But when she decides she wants that, i worry and think i have done something wrong, we argue, talk about why we were arguing then carry on talking normally and she doesnt actually get any time away from talking to me.


I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO to keep myself occupied when i am worrying. Yna says i should go out with my friends, but i dont have many friends, i have 2-3 main friends, 2 of which are on holiday and the other one always says no when asked to meet. I dont know what stuff to watch on netflix, i have finished Peaky Blinders, After Life and Sherlock Holmes, I would like something funny.

I am really struggling with keeping busy, especially when Yna would like time to herself.


Any help please?

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Old March 16th, 2019, 01:42 PM   #2
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One of the best things you can do is being productive, it keeps you busy, it's useful and very gratifying when you finished... Cause like idk, when I watch Netflix and do nothing, I feel bad afterward...

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Old March 16th, 2019, 02:05 PM   #3
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One of the best things you can do is being productive, it keeps you busy, it's useful and very gratifying when you finished... Cause like idk, when I watch Netflix and do nothing, I feel bad afterward...
What do you mean by being productive?

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Old March 16th, 2019, 02:56 PM   #4
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What do you mean by being productive?
Well for me it would be to do an essay, read a book I have to read for English but if you're not in school anymore, I would say like writing your resume or like cleaning the house... I have to admit that I don't really know, it's just what works for me...

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Old March 16th, 2019, 05:56 PM   #5
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I really love my girlfriend Yna, We are going on holiday to the Philippines for 5 weeks in July and i am really looking forward to it..

I worry A LOT. Not just bout Yna, but other things to, Money, car insurance, revision.

How do I keep occupied? I used to play GTA5 but i got bored very quickly of that. I have aspergers syndrome and find it difficult not getting distracted. I also struggle to understand that my girlfriend needs time to herself, she needs time where she isnt talking to me. But when she decides she wants that, i worry and think i have done something wrong, we argue, talk about why we were arguing then carry on talking normally and she doesnt actually get any time away from talking to me.


I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO to keep myself occupied when i am worrying. Yna says i should go out with my friends, but i dont have many friends, i have 2-3 main friends, 2 of which are on holiday and the other one always says no when asked to meet. I dont know what stuff to watch on netflix, i have finished Peaky Blinders, After Life and Sherlock Holmes, I would like something funny.

I am really struggling with keeping busy, especially when Yna would like time to herself.


Any help please?

First off you have to trust her.

Second you should post here on the VT forums, wherever if you need to socialize.

Explore new video games or movies in the genre you like

Sleep, pray

Do laundry or other chores that benefit your life and need getting done anyway.

Learn a new skill like a foreign language.



Lots of mature behavior options here.
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Old March 16th, 2019, 06:20 PM   #6
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I would say go to a park watch people-sit
talk and make friends. Read a book-go to
the library-c a movie if not too expensive.
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