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Old November 11th, 2013, 11:02 PM   #1021
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I realized that I started to notice women more than anything else, especially in the 6th grade I'd try and be close to women and eventually realized it was some form of attraction.
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Old November 12th, 2013, 12:41 AM   #1022
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Idk in my case, currently I do like a girl, and I have had emotional feelings for her for a long time, and I'm actually making a move and asking her out soon. At the same time I think I wouldn't mind having an emotional relationship with a guy, in fact it would be something I would probably want to happen.

I guess that makes me Bi. I know its really stupid, but I mean I have been in love with a girl before, like turning cold and saying the most childish stuff when she was around and blushed and shit. So it's a given I like girls. Then a couple of years ago I had a dream of being with a guy and he said I love you, and kissed me, and I didn't fight it nor did I wake up in the moment so I guess, that's when I realized being in a relationship with a guy wouldn't bother me.

You can call me bi, or pretty hormonal, lol.

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Old November 15th, 2013, 02:19 AM   #1023
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ive only done stuff with girls but i kno a good guy when i see one..
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Old November 15th, 2013, 07:06 PM   #1024
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when i was 10 i was going to watch some straight porn... was curious and watched gay porn and that pretty much told me i was gay. few weeks later went to a pool party and started peeking at all my friends penises.. it was a sleepover and one guy walked around in his underwear and i was so horny..
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Old November 19th, 2013, 10:19 PM   #1025
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Self denial at first, then I felt really bad when I came out to myself, now (this all was recent) I've accepted it, I didn't just find out, it's like a had a feeling for a while then in time accepted it

I am an openly gay guy who really loves fantasy/magic related things, I tend to obsess a bit, I love to draw a lot, I'm interested in animal related science, hope to grow up to go into Marine Husbandry (My dream is to train Otters), um.. I think that about covers it.
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Old November 22nd, 2013, 01:08 PM   #1026
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Yeah I guess
I found out when I was sitting in class and this new guy came it and he was sooo fit I couldn't stop staring at him he was just soo beautiful so that's when I knew
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Old December 4th, 2013, 11:30 AM   #1027
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well so far i just like being around guys..girls dont really interest me like guys do...thats im thinking i might be gay..and i have two of my male friends that i mess around with
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Old December 4th, 2013, 01:17 PM   #1028
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Well there's this bi guy in my school who's a good friend of mine. And there's a rumour going around that he has a crush on me.Most people either laughed or were disgusted, but the more I thought about it, the more I thought it sounded great. So now I found out that I'm bisexual, So in a few days I'm going to ask him out and see how it goes.

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Old December 4th, 2013, 02:35 PM   #1029
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Boys started liking girls, while I started liking boys instead. That kinda explains it all.

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Old December 6th, 2013, 04:38 PM   #1030
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I would say I've just always known I preferred boys to girls and then realised I didn't like girls at all, probably aided by experimentation with both genders.

I'm 16, male, in the UK, attracted to guys, up to talking with anyone and talk about almost anything
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Old December 8th, 2013, 04:26 AM   #1031
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I remember watching peter pan when I was little and there was something I really liked about Jeremy Sumpter but I just couldn't put my finger on it. But when I found out was when I was say 10 or 11 in primary and me and my friend were sitting outside one day he leaned on me and kinda hugged me and I liked it it was also round about the time I had just found out about porn, and I was watching the guy more than the girl. And I kept telling myself no, you can't be. But I guess a few years later it was just right to say to myself, "You like boys, and that's just how it is".
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Old December 9th, 2013, 11:24 PM   #1032
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For a long time, my older brother has been out of the closet. He came out probably around 3 years ago, or when he was 15 ish. Before he came out though, he told me, and asked me a question. "Do you want me to fuck you and see what its like?" and I said sure. Becasue of this, I know I am bi, but mostly gay, because of my attraction for men. My brother and I did it many time, but not any more. Im now 15, and he is 18, but we never speak of it. He knows that I am gay though, so we talk about guys.

Honestly, I loved that first sex I had.
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Old December 15th, 2013, 06:42 AM   #1033
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For a long time, my older brother has been out of the closet. He came out probably around 3 years ago, or when he was 15 ish. Before he came out though, he told me, and asked me a question. "Do you want me to fuck you and see what its like?" and I said sure. Becasue of this, I know I am bi, but mostly gay, because of my attraction for men. My brother and I did it many time, but not any more. Im now 15, and he is 18, but we never speak of it. He knows that I am gay though, so we talk about guys.

Honestly, I loved that first sex I had.

incest..?
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Old December 15th, 2013, 08:33 AM   #1034
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I first knew i was bi when i saw this guy around college and my god he was like the hottest thing i had ever seen in my entire life. Its weid though we aren't in any of the same clases and we haven't even spoken to each other but i have caught him looking me a couple of times and if we pass in the corridors he'll smile at me. There was a time in one of the office spaces where i almost literally walked into him but instead i walked into a filing cabinet and he just had a little giggle to himself. I just walked out of there so quickly, i'm such an embarcment to myself. So yeah me and him i don't know if anything would come from it but i became attracted to him and thats how i knew. (Well of course after some serious deliberating)

I haven't really come out because i haven't had a boyfriend just girlfriends in the past so it just wouldn't feel right without having/had a boyfriend.

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Old December 21st, 2013, 12:40 PM   #1035
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I kinda always knew i was bi, for as long as i can remember ive been sexually and emotionally attracted to boys and girls.
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Old December 22nd, 2013, 06:34 AM   #1036
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I knew I was gay from a very young age, and I really wanted to express it and be myself but in school I never had the chance to, so when I turned thirteen I came out to my parent and asked if I could move school it was agreed and I went to a boarding school in the countryside, there I met my long term bf and hopefully marriage will be on the cards in the future.
What a wonderful story! I go to a boys' boarding school too, nothin' but guys everywhere! And so many cuties! I swim on 2 teams, the school team and in summer I swim on our country club swim team. I love speedos! i have a collection of 22 of them. Sometimes wear them as underwear if they're not too tight. The tight ones are for meets. I get crushes at school but haven't come across anyone I'd like to be bf's with. Hopefully!

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Old December 26th, 2013, 03:33 PM   #1037
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My friend made me experiment and stuff and we would masturbate and watch porn and suck each other and i was like hey these dicks are pretty nice.
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Old December 28th, 2013, 01:45 PM   #1038
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I thought I was straight until June 2013, when I went to a Quinceañera. A friend of the girl having 15 was attractive and it kinda turned me on. And I realized I was bisexual, thought I may be thinking I'm Gay/Lesbian.
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Old December 29th, 2013, 04:54 PM   #1039
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Hmm.. Always realised I had an attraction to guys, even at a really early age. Then I kinda went in to denial a few years back as I started to realise, not only that, but I didn't really have an attraction to women. I guess only like a year and a half-2 years ago I finally just thought " I'm gay, and it really doesn't matter!"

Hey everyone

I know you all hear this a lot, but I'm more than happy to talk to anyone and everyone about whatever, whenever XD
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Old January 2nd, 2014, 08:24 PM   #1040
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I denied it for a very long time. It was only a few months ago I admitted it. I first found out when I was in the first year of high school and had this huge crush on a girl. We dated for a couple of months then she broke up with me. That was when I knew I was bisexual. I am now dating my boyfriend of almost 5 months.
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